Family & Relationships - 19 January 2007

My boyfriend and I have been on again off again for about three months. I broke up with recently because he didn’t respect me. By saying this I mean he would ignore me at lunch and hang out with other girls, and worse he would flirt with them right in front of me. He didn’t know how much he hurt me until I told him. I said that I was sick of being in a relationship with him because I always got hurt and that I was sick of being lost and confused. Then he accused me of needing anger management and that I was clinically depressed!! I said that the reason he was so bad in our relationship at being a good boyfriend was because he has never been in a serious relationship before. H told me that I was right, and that he was afraid of being hurt. I believed him, and we went out for one day, and he started ignoring me again and pretty much treating me like crap. I broke up with him, but now I feel terrible. I want revenge, and somehow If eel that going out with another guy won’t really matter to him, because he didn’t really love me. So what do I do?

2007-01-19 06:33:37 · 15 answers · asked by sexygurl 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-19 06:32:53 · 11 answers · asked by henry j 1 in Singles & Dating

I hope someone recovered from divorce can help. I’m a 24 y/o woman. A 29 y/o man asked me out. He was a little nervous during the date but I really enjoyed it. The next week I found out he divorced 8 months ago. We talked about it, it didn’t change my desire to go out again. We’d been out another 6x, things were going slowly, a little nervously, but I’m delighted to spend time w/ him. Then he became icy on a dinner date and hasn’t acted interested. Finally he told me it was his fav place to go w/ his ex, he didn’t realize how weird it would be w/ someone new, he’s realized he isn’t ready to start a relationship, but thinks I’m an “awesome girl.” I’ll still see him through work and because I’m still very interested, I’d like to be supportive, show interest if appropriate, but give him space to work through his issues. I’m not sure what to do now, and I’m dealing with my disappointment since I was excited to meet and date him. If you’ve experienced something similar, I value your advice!

2007-01-19 06:32:31 · 9 answers · asked by goodgirl 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Im on Myspace.com and also a few yahoo moms group. Its been pretty easy to make guy friends online of course, But I want to find some other moms online to have friends with...Im kinda stomped on how to apporach...On myspace I click for friends but want a way to kinda intruduce myself wihtout sounding dumb.

2007-01-19 06:32:05 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

what do you do when you've found yourself in a rutt?

2007-01-19 06:31:48 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i have been chatting with a chap in NY for 7 mths (I am female). Not sure if I should meet him (in a public arear, taking someone with me) or even chat to him on phone

2007-01-19 06:31:20 · 19 answers · asked by Lemon 2 in Singles & Dating

last night me and my girlfriend where going at it, then out of nowhere her um.. p***y made this loud noise, kinda like a fart type noise. she was really embaressed and made me stop. then she apologized and left. i have not spoken to her since last night. it wierded us both out. so do u guys know what that was?? is it normal??

2007-01-19 06:29:36 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

is it really the best of both worlds?

2007-01-19 06:29:16 · 4 answers · asked by The other womam 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-19 06:29:08 · 11 answers · asked by terracotta 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-19 06:28:47 · 22 answers · asked by terracotta 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-19 06:28:23 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

I am still married and working on getting a divorce. I also have been unfaithful with my current girlfriend with my wife. My wife has just turned 21 and wants to have a drink with me. My g/f fears that I'll get feelings for my my wife again and leave her. Should my girlfriend trust me to go out?

2007-01-19 06:28:19 · 11 answers · asked by nicholas c 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

My friend was married just over a year ago-she recently found out that her husband had cheated on her before the marriage. They have tried to work it out, but since she found out there has been nothing but difficulties in the bedroom and personal relationship-she wants an annulment..is this grounds for one? And if so, how does she go about doing it-she doesnt want it to be a public thing.. I tried to help, but I cant seem to find any literature on it. Anyone know?

2007-01-19 06:27:56 · 11 answers · asked by meggy 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My boss is SO GRUMPY today. We have been getting along for a long time, and then all of a sudden today, he GOES OFF THE DEEP END. I've been working here for over a year. I was trained by someone who has worked here for over 20 years. Tuesday he told me to start invoicing a different way than I was tought. Which isnt as easy as you would think because I've been doing it ONE WAY this whole year. So I try and remember but a few have slipped through. I went to lunch, I come back to work, and He LITTERALLY YELLS and SCREAMS at me about an invoice I wrote on the 15th which was MONDAY. AN ENTIRE DAY BEFORE HE TOLD ME TO CHANGE. I mean... This was screaming. He went off. I tried to tell him its hard to change when Im so use to doing it one way, and he screamed would you JUST DO WHAT IM TELLING YOU TO DO!!! Im like... I never said I would'nt! I have no problem doing it the new way, its just going to take me a little bit to get use to it!

I just dont know why he has to be such a jerk!

2007-01-19 06:27:45 · 18 answers · asked by Angel Eve 6 in Friends

it may just be the way she is, but it seems she's flirting with me. problem-her boyfriend is my boss at work and may be transfering to a different state in a couple of months. yep, i sure like her! she's a beauty! should i;
1)just see how things play out and keep the option open with myself showing interest in her flirting ways?
2)be a friend with caution about her fliting ways, and wait for her to make the most significant move before i go for it?
3)be friends with her, and blow everything off until he leaves, then make my significant move towards taking her out on a date.

any other answers are aprieciated. thank you-have some additional questions? ask them in your answers and i'll try to answer them.

2007-01-19 06:27:04 · 9 answers · asked by kendog299 2 in Singles & Dating

In your experience what are the signs or feelings you've had when you're falling in love with someone?

2007-01-19 06:26:47 · 7 answers · asked by Diamond24 5 in Singles & Dating

My close friend and i met a guy right before CHRISTMAS, and he had originally given me his number, but i stored it in her phone, about two weeks ago she said she remembers every number that has ever been given to her,and she quoted the number the guy gave to me, i say to her, i need to call him. One week later, she decided to call him and she says she tells him she thought he was someone else, but somehow he ends up sayin that i must not have liked him, so he is glad that she called and she invites him to my house, she then proceeds to tell me bits and pieces of their conversation.. Should i not be a little offended?

2007-01-19 06:26:12 · 12 answers · asked by songbyrd79 1 in Singles & Dating

Okay... he has been staying almost every night with me and he says that he doesnt ever have time to relax, do his housework and pays his bills. We tried having him stay home a few night a week to get caught up... but he always ends up just messin' around... drinking or playing on the internet or video games. He says he needs a break to get his life back together. But he also says that he doesnt want to date other people and that its JUST TO GET HIS FINANCES TOGETHER, ECT.

I told him that I would leave if he took a break from us, and he said that its a risk he'd have to take. Thats pretty messed up, especially when we are seriously talking about marriage and my kids are also involved.

He asked me to please love him enough to wait for him... but he couldnt even tell me how long this break was for. He said he didnt know how long it would take. I trult love him and I want to spend my life with him. Do you think this is his way of letting me down easy? What do I do??????

2007-01-19 06:26:11 · 25 answers · asked by SchGrl79 2 in Singles & Dating

The other day I was in a car accident (not my fault) and when I got home for the day I was on Myspace and decided to do one of those random surveys to get my mind off the events of the day. Well I titled the survey "What a Sh*ty day" a couple minutes later on of my friends replyed to my post.

She said " I didn't read your survey but the tilte caught her eye. I'm sorry you had a bad day. You know I'm always here for you if you need to talk. xoxo Name"

This just so happens to be the woman that I have had a crush on for quite some time now. I'm just having a hard time figureing out if she just wants to be friends or more. I'm probably just a dumba** and unable to pick up on her intentions, but it seems like I'm around her I always getting mixed signals. What would you think? just friends or does she want more?

2007-01-19 06:26:04 · 10 answers · asked by drakekse 3 in Singles & Dating

The song How to Save a Life?? My cousin took his own life the night of New Years it reminds me so much of him. Anyway just thought I would ask and see what you thought of the song.

2007-01-19 06:26:03 · 3 answers · asked by Shorty06 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

if he is a die hard sports fan of a team or do u find urself less attracted 2 him explain

2007-01-19 06:25:47 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

you have been misunder stood over some thing you thought was very clear,but one person has got on their high horse, and gone over board, thinking the wrong way, do you ever find that on here?

2007-01-19 06:25:22 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

men on a whole? your honest opinions.

2007-01-19 06:25:16 · 11 answers · asked by beautiful 2 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend went to a girls apartment last night to hang out. it was him, a girl, another girl and then that girls boyfriend. he said they just watched tv. i believe him but then there is this doubt in my mond. he gets mad at me when i go to guys houses. he doesnt think i should be mad at him now. what should i do?

2007-01-19 06:25:10 · 22 answers · asked by Heather 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-19 06:24:32 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

and was wondering if i still had to pay child support i don't mind paying cause it is my daughter but all my friends say i'm dumb for paying when i shouldn't have too ?

2007-01-19 06:23:50 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I always dream of the ones I never have but guess I wish I had.

ps. if you don't like an answer to this question, report the answer and not the question.

2007-01-19 06:22:57 · 10 answers · asked by oldsoftee2001 6 in Singles & Dating

And please don't say sex, or oral. Because I know that, I am planning on the sex stuff for later on. But I want to do things with him all evening, including dinner ect. I want to pamper him ya know. He is amazing to me ( i am pregnant) and I want to give back to him so any ideas would be great. Like what to do from the time we get home from work at 5:00 (and please nothing sexual)Thank you so much!

2007-01-19 06:22:03 · 10 answers · asked by wondering 2 in Marriage & Divorce

5th grade we were best friends.
In 6th grade I formed sort of a crush on him. (that was the year we started exchanging gifts, x mas birthday valentines... ect,)
7th grade he finally asked me to be his girlfriend.
8th grade we shared our first kiss(still together)
9th grade he told me he loved me (no sex, still together)
10th grade we were the closest ever. We went to formals together. Homecoming together. His family and mine were close. I was still crazy in love with him and he was with me. We had a great relationship. He was my first boyfriend and It still wasnt boring. (we called eachother EVERY night. Never a boring, pointless conversastion)
Junior year-halloween, we got in our first big fight. It was over stupid things. We said things we didnt mean and broke up.
He called me all night.I didnt pick up.He left voicemails saying he loved me and wanted me back. Of course I liked it, but I was too selfish and mad to call back. Another guy asked me out. I said yes. I hate this

2007-01-19 06:21:46 · 4 answers · asked by Tay ;) 1 in Singles & Dating

hi i really need ideas for valentines night! i've booked a hotel for me and my boyfriend for the night in dublin because he works up there and i'm planning on surprising him with that! but we cant go to dinner because he doesnt finish work till after ten! so any ideas on what i can do! anything would be a help!

2007-01-19 06:21:37 · 8 answers · asked by ? 2 in Singles & Dating