My boyfriend went to a girls apartment last night to hang out. it was him, a girl, another girl and then that girls boyfriend. he said they just watched tv. i believe him but then there is this doubt in my mond. he gets mad at me when i go to guys houses. he doesnt think i should be mad at him now. what should i do?
2007-01-19 06:25:10 · 22 answers · asked by Heather 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think that you need to sit down with him and figure out what the bounderies are in your relationship. My boyfriend and I did this and it helped us understand the differences in what we consider wrong that is done in relationships..... It helped us a lot. But it just wrong that its a double standard. Did you ask him why its okay for him but not you? Have you ever given him reason to worry... (cheating)?
2007-01-19 06:30:36 · answer #1 · answered by SchGrl79 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to a guys house again and hang out, not do anything, but let him know you can do whatever he can do and shouldn't get mad at it .
2007-01-19 14:29:44 · answer #2 · answered by ♦ Phoenix Rising♦ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats not fair that he can go hang with girls and you cant with guys. But thats also saying that hes a guy and he doesnt want u to go hang with other guys bc he knows how a guy thinks. which might also say that he is doing more than just watching tv. tell him thats not fair.
2007-01-19 14:29:35 · answer #3 · answered by ♣Ally♣ 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
tell him u dont want to start a fight u just want to talk. and say how when u go to a guys house he gets mad. and maybe if hes going to go to a girls house he should take u with and if u go to a guys house u should take him with.
2007-01-19 14:28:58 · answer #4 · answered by dream21 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your boyfriend what you are mad about. Thats what two lovers do they are honest to each other.
- If you two lovers are honest to each other then tell him (((you never know what the answer will be.))) and you will never know if he is cheating on you either. [[[[[[[....It comes to you in the end, do YOU trust your relationship with him?]]]]] if not then you guys need to have some serious talk.
2007-01-19 14:36:57 · answer #5 · answered by mhshhaduw 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you go to the opposite sex's apt without each other?? Tell him it's a double standard that he gets mad at you, but you can't get mad at him...
2007-01-19 14:28:19 · answer #6 · answered by Kristi 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
thats a tough call but you need to trust him if not the relationship won't last i don't think you should be mad b/c u don't have any proof that he cheated and he sounds very protective over you so i wouldn't worry about that one but keep your eyes open...
2007-01-19 14:30:38 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How come he can be mad but you cant ? Shows he's nothing but a jerk. I really wouldn't trust a young guy in that situation.
2007-01-19 14:30:16 · answer #8 · answered by JustMe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I personally would have been jealous myself. However if he dosent trust you then you have just as much right to be p-offed. It has to wrok both ways There has to be a complete line of trust there.
2007-01-19 14:28:44 · answer #9 · answered by WillsBroncoGal 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this happens to me all the time......he cant get mad if he doesnt want you to get mad. and yes you hae every right to be mad...only b/c he gets mad at you for the same thing. its good that you trust him in not doing anything...but its the thing that he gets mad at you and does the same thing he gets mad at!
2007-01-19 14:29:19 · answer #10 · answered by britni h 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋