I am still married and working on getting a divorce. I also have been unfaithful with my current girlfriend with my wife. My wife has just turned 21 and wants to have a drink with me. My g/f fears that I'll get feelings for my my wife again and leave her. Should my girlfriend trust me to go out?
2007-01-19 06:28:19 · 11 answers · asked by nicholas c 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Uh, NO she shouldn't, but anyway, you CANNOT have a girlfriend if you have a wife. You have a chick on the side. The chick on the side has NOTHING, and everything to lose, since your wife is still the wife!! Go back to your wife dude and let this poor girl find someone worth something.
2007-01-19 06:31:50 · answer #1 · answered by Premo Mom 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Gee, you sure don't seen to know what the words "adultery" and "fornication" mean. Both are sins which will result in you being roasted in Hell. I think you first need to ask for forgiveness from Jesus and all the other people you have sinned against. Then you will be starting with a clean slate before all.
Then, I think you need to find out what true love really is and isn't. Read in the Bible, I Corinthians 13 "The Love Chapter" where it says love is patient and kind and seeks not its own way at the expense of others. Love isn't boastful or proud and always believes in the positive. This love is such that it will gladly give its own life to save the life of another. It says of faith, hope and love that the greatest is love. If love dies, it wasn't love in the first place, but something else, like lust. Lust will always fail you as shown by your life. True love has kept my wife and I married for over 28 years. If you don't have this kind of love, then you will keep going from girl to girl. You will never be satisfied and neither will they. Quit being like an animal such as a neighborhood dog chasing after the female hounds. If you don't, your end will be a very sad one with no winners and your life in eternity will be a very hot one.
2007-01-19 06:52:09 · answer #2 · answered by Captain Cupcake 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The fact that you are even asking if your girlfriend should trust you shows that you yourself have a little doubt as to whether you can trust yourself around your wife! That being said, you should ask yourself if the situation were reversed and she was playing piggy in the middle with you and another other guy, that she cheated with and asked if she could go for drinks with him... would you feel comfortable?
2007-01-19 06:34:34 · answer #3 · answered by allme_pc 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well hhhhhuuuuuummmmmmmm, it doesnt take an instine to figure out yourb question.
buddy you are very unfaithful and a reckless man.
like seriously why get married if your just gonna get your d**k wet,
my god your own stupidity is your own consequence.
no i wouldnt trust you just sitting beside me if i was your supposive girlfriend, take my advice and hide away for awhile, because it will bit you back in the **** if you keep being the man w***e that you are
i aint tring to be ignorent hun but its the freakin truth
good luck
2007-01-19 06:47:33 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She doesnt want to hear your sorry, she wants to know what the hell you were thinking, right now shes embarrassed and hurt, make it sound like no big deal (you do deserve a big punch in the gut a$shole anyways...) Just be like "hun listen(dont say babe she might think your tryin to play her) I tell my guys everything i didnt know it would be such a big deal! I wasnt like, giving them details but being a guy I had to say something. Imagine like, going out with an amazing guy and your not aloud to tell your friends, would you be able to resist or would you have to tell at least one of your closest friends? We all make mistakes, its not like my friends think your a slut or something please forgive me, tell me how to make it up to you really I didnt mean to hurt you" if shes a good girlfriend shell be alittle mad and make you do something then forgive you but for the most part youll probly be good.
2016-05-23 22:03:16 · answer #5 · answered by Cynthia 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't even be dating until your divorse is final because you are technically commiting adultry. Second, your girlfriend has no right to say if you can or can't, that is your wife not matter if you are getting a divorse, you have more of a commitment to her than your girlfriend anyhow.
2007-01-19 06:33:33 · answer #6 · answered by serena3116 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Um absolutly not, you have cheated on her with the person you want to go out with. If I was in her place I would be very pissed if you went with your wife. Not a good idea
2007-01-19 06:31:45 · answer #7 · answered by saraikyon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you kidding me, with your track record? Absolutely not!
As a matter of fact, she could do a lot better. I hope she comes to her senses and leaves you.
2007-01-19 07:28:58 · answer #8 · answered by Joa5 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hahaha No one in the world should trust you
2007-01-19 07:30:22 · answer #9 · answered by BooBoo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hell no and she should kick ur wifes *** for asking u she needs to find a man
2007-01-19 06:36:58 · answer #10 · answered by kgriffin112986 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋