My close friend and i met a guy right before CHRISTMAS, and he had originally given me his number, but i stored it in her phone, about two weeks ago she said she remembers every number that has ever been given to her,and she quoted the number the guy gave to me, i say to her, i need to call him. One week later, she decided to call him and she says she tells him she thought he was someone else, but somehow he ends up sayin that i must not have liked him, so he is glad that she called and she invites him to my house, she then proceeds to tell me bits and pieces of their conversation.. Should i not be a little offended?
2007-01-19 06:26:12 · 12 answers · asked by songbyrd79 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Most (not all) women are out to get their claws into any man and it's pretty pathetic. In this case, yes I'd be mad. I think she knew good and well what she was doing. Has she ever done anything like this before? Sounds like a little competition game going on here. I've had many a so-called friend steal my boyfriends in the past and I had the feeling many times that women are our own worst enemies.
2007-01-19 06:30:49 · answer #1 · answered by Peach 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all, if you really wanted his number, you should have gotten it out of her phone the minute you got home. Not waited 2-3 weeks to decide whether you wanted to call him or not. As for if you should be miffed, you have the right to your opinion, as do I, but I am letting you know that you wasted enough time that I am sure that your friend thought he had become fair game again. Don't let a guy ruin your friendship, but if you are interested in someone, don't keep them on a string wondering if you would ever call them.
2007-01-19 06:32:36 · answer #2 · answered by hot_story_writer 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Thats why u supposed to have ur own s**t. Ur friend knew what she was doing and got u thinking she is right. U can get mad with urself but not with her because if u were really interested in that man u would have been on top of ur own game. Moreover, u should have taken the number out of the phone asap.
2007-01-19 06:33:45 · answer #3 · answered by Ma Baby 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Ugh, right this is the deal. She thoroughly lost all ethical grounds to ***** approximately no longer being waiting to have this dude as a "chum" once you found out she have been having sexual conversations w/him and/or spending the night in his room -- undergo in innovations that's a guy she fairly knew. whether you suspect there replaced into no complete-on intercourse, they the two crossed the line. She as lots admitted that when she suggested "that's surely over". And now marvel, marvel there's a effect to pay. that's disingenious of her at superb to trot out the "administration" line in a difficulty like this and that's obtuse of you to think of possibly you ought to purchase it. How might she like it in case you pulled this crap on her? in case you have administration themes in different areas, you *could* restoration those, although that's a separate communicate. you do not have a difficulty along with her having male acquaintances. you have a difficulty with this scumbucket persevering with to sustain a correspondence in her (and by using extension, your) existence. that's no longer being a administration freak. there's a distinction. thank you for being considerate and asking, yet from the admittedly little I understand of the placement, my suggestion is to strengthen some balls. There are some issues relatively worth scuffling with over. this is one in each and every of them.
2016-10-31 13:18:05 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would be. She should have given you the number when you asked for it, not wait a week and then call him herself! That wasn't right. Did she bother to tell him that you DO like him?
2007-01-19 06:31:11 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes you should be offended. Your "friend" is flaunting him in your face. You need to sit down and talk to her (calmly) about how you feel about this situation. Good Luck!
2007-01-19 06:34:21 · answer #6 · answered by Scooter 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This is why phones should not replace a simple piece of paper and a pen.
2007-01-19 06:29:52 · answer #7 · answered by DaddyBoy 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Life is too short to fight with good friends over guys. Don't be upset.
2007-01-19 06:32:51 · answer #8 · answered by Mari 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you should have called if you were intersted. Good for her for having the guts to call him back. You should be happy for her.
2007-01-19 06:30:23 · answer #9 · answered by Em C 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
friends don't move in on friends 'property'. if you viewing something they should not counter bid. nuff said.
2007-01-19 06:29:50 · answer #10 · answered by stacy 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋