2007-01-19 06:08:44 · 20 answers · asked by NIKKI C 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
NO WAY!!! I am 13 turning 14 and I haven't yet.....and won't till I'm married but that's not the point. If you two are that young it isn't really love, it's puppy love. How long have you two even been dating? What do you think your parents would say? The odds are that you won't stay together for the rest of your life so why would you want to? Sex should be something that is you and your husband have reserved for each other. If not then when you do get married you will probably feel guilty. We had this speaker in our health class and she told us her story and I'm gonna tell you the main points. She gave in and did it with her first boyfriend. They broke up. When she got a third boyfriend he was like, "Well you already did it with so and so, so it's not like you're a virgin or anything." and crap like that...so she did it with him. Her third boyfriend didn't pressure her into anything. He respected her enough to wait. They ended up getting married without having sex before they were married. They have a happy marriage but she still to this day feels guilty about doing it with all those other guys.
Don't be in a rush to grow up. If you lose your innocence at a young age when you're older you will regret not waiting. This is a proven fact.
When your this young there's a name for people who do that....sl*t. I'm not calling you one, I'm just telling you the truth.
DON'T DO IT!!!
2007-01-19 06:24:54 · answer #1 · answered by em<3 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was in a relationship once and i thought i REALLY loved him and i will never forget him. I believe that it was a very special relationship but not quite love. I'm engaged now and i wish i had waited for this one because even though that relationship was great this one is indescribable. WAIT till marriage. you may have everyone in the world tell you that but seriously it is soooo worth it. If this is the right guy for you then on your wedding day it will be special for both of you that you have made this amazing promise to each other that you were able to keep for so long. Be strong and maybe find some alternatives to sex to keep you both busy but where you feel like you are fulfilling each others emotional needs. Have alone time but make sure it is not a tempting environment. I wish you the best. Good luck!
2007-01-19 06:26:00 · answer #2 · answered by bctreefrogs 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The fact that you had to ask shows that you are not ready, i'm not going to say you don't love him, but sex isn't love and its also meant for married couples. But besides the marriage thing because for some people that just isn't reality, you haven't lived your life long enough to know that sex would be the next step.
2007-01-19 06:19:27 · answer #3 · answered by Lava-Bean 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
baby grl you dnt need to have sex till you are married cuz you will regret not givin your virginty t o your husband if your husband get your virginity then its like respect. grl you got way to much stuff to wry about other than sex and bois. focus on school and keeping your grades up and hanging with your friends. cuz if you get pregnant than all of this wont happen. im 15 and i still regret losing mine. i thot i was pregnant thank god i am not. my mom and grandparents want me to wait til im 25 to have kids so i can have time to have fun adn be a teenager. you need to think abuot the what ifs that will pass through your mind
2007-01-19 08:24:01 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
noo waysss? oh my god how can u think about it.ur to young.im 16 but i dont think this much infact not a bit of any sex n all.u should have a pure n childlove.n then if u love him then after 18 u can.plz dont spoil ur life by this.first concentrate on ur studies than .this is age of becoming something not for this thing .for this there is whole life in front of u.
2007-01-19 06:31:52 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Firstly, how old is he? umm... even if you do use condoms, did you know that you can still get pregnant? It's not 100% reliable. And most importantly, you might get STI/Sexually Transmitted Infection...STI's have such consequences that will make you infertile...this means you might not have bear a child anymore. STI's and STD's can even cause death. Its not just getting pregnant... It's your decision if you want to "make love" with him....but remember SEX has boundaries and that boundary that God made is marriage.... BUT just think of the possible consequences.... GodbLesS
2007-01-19 06:23:14 · answer #6 · answered by kcv 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No way hun, you are both far to young, take it easy theres always time for sex l8r, a bad time now could put u off 4 life.
2007-01-23 05:01:29 · answer #7 · answered by demi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are too young to talk about sex now, just forget and and think about your books or something else. you will have to wait until you are 20 at least thats when you can start talking abt sex otherwise you will regret the rest of your life.
2007-01-19 06:20:04 · answer #8 · answered by Ayati 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm interior an analogous boat as you honey. i replace into 5'9/5'10 in 6th grade and that i did not like it in any respect. i'm 17 now and six ft. i'm assuming your mothers and dads are tall too. Yep, you're gonna be taller than maximum human beings yet it is okay. yet you're actually not "too tall"; do not enable human beings assist you to recognize that. that's annoying while human beings choose human beings because of the fact of their top. you're purely as God made you; and that's suitable :)
2016-10-07 10:03:04 · answer #9 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are way too young. Relax and enjoy being a kid. There's plenty of time for sex when you grow up.
2007-01-19 06:24:13 · answer #10 · answered by DEENIE 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋