I can only accept it sometimes like when he is rubbing himself on me.
2007-01-19 06:05:47 · 22 answers · asked by vane 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
When he can wait...
I have a boyfriend of almost a year that I am completely in love with. We talk about marriage and how I want to wait till our wedding day to have sex. He truly does love me... he respects me. That's when you KNOW you have a great guy. That's when you KNOW he's in love with you... when he has absolutely no problem in waiting. Actions speak louder than words...
2007-01-19 06:08:42 · answer #1 · answered by ( Kelly ) 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do you want the guy just for sex? If not then have a non-sexual relationship for an extended period. If he is willing to stick around and is still happy and fun to be with, mybe he's a guy to keep. If he get's mad or pushy, move on.
2007-01-19 06:11:34 · answer #2 · answered by doktordbel 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the perfect way to find out if a guy is only there for sex is to not do it with him if u refuse to have sex with him and he still wants to hang out and be with you then he really likes you if u tell him you dont want to have sex with him and he doesnt come around you anymore then u know he was only there to try and have sex with you and u will be glad you didnt give him any!!
2007-01-19 06:11:00 · answer #3 · answered by bellababi44 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take the high road and don't have sex for at least 4-6 months of dating. Value yourself more than that.
2007-01-19 06:12:40 · answer #4 · answered by Just Me 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he wants to hang out with you outside of the bed room if he actually wants to go out to eat or go to the movies and stuff then he wants more than sex if he only comes over sleeps with you then leaves then he is using you
2007-01-19 06:10:07 · answer #5 · answered by Jen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Congrats! You're being used for sex. Or if you really wanna make it sound bad, you're acting like an unpaid prostitue! wow..i bet you're thinking, omg this women is a *****!! But tell me I'm wrong..
this guy isn't married to you, you don't have a ring on your fingure..
now, what do prostitues do? they have sex with men they aren't married to for money..
unpaid means you don't get money
unpaid prostitue=YOU..
so stop thinking its okey to let him rub himself on you, he's using you...
2007-01-19 06:10:07 · answer #6 · answered by Pandora 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Date a gay guy. Compare the differences. You may actually like that. I'm not trying to be rude, but with experience comes knowledge.
2007-01-19 06:11:01 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't get the second part of this question....but...If after you have sex he is in a hurry to leave and doesnt want to talk or cuddle this is a good indication.
2007-01-19 06:11:05 · answer #8 · answered by mom of twins 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him he cannot "rub" himself on you anymore and see how long he stays around !!!
2007-01-19 06:08:47 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
IF HE WANTS TO GO IN PUBLIC WITH YOU, DINNER, MOVIE, MEET HIS PARENTS/FRIENDS, AND THINGS LIKE THAT THAN I WOULD SAY HE IS INTERESTED IN MORE THAN JUST SEX. THAT MAY NOT ALWAYS BE TRUE BUT COMING FROM A GUY IT IS A GOOD SIGN.
2007-01-19 06:13:41 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋