i've been acting very strange lately...most of it is due to my health. Alot of things are going on in my life...not necessarly terrible but its enough to drive one crazy. Ive been very mean and depressed...often trying to control my temper. I havent been very successful and ive said somethings that made a person i care about very upset. I dont want to blame it on my health no do i want to blame my circimstances...however this person is known to not take apolgies well....but i really think it is needed....to be more specific this person is my bf...and because of a particular uestion he asked me...all my fears came back to me...and i over reacted.....i need help ....big time....because his is not the first time this has happend.....
2007-01-19 06:19:54 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Because it is your bf that makes the truth the best place to start.
2007-01-23 03:06:23 · answer #1 · answered by tillermantony 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At this point in time it sounds like he may not just accept what you say if you apologize. You have to show him that you're sorry and try and control getting upset like you do. Send him flowers if you can afford them or bring them to him. Sit and talk to him about what's going on. Let him know that you're not making excuses for how you acted. You need to keep the lines of communication open with him so that he doesn't feel the way he feels. When you feel that you're becoming upset you need to ask him to give you space so that way you avoid these problems. Make dinner for him if you can, rent a movie and just talk.
2007-01-19 14:37:00 · answer #2 · answered by Pisces Princess 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ask to talk to him and apologize for the way you have been acting. Just explain to him that you were having a hard time dealing with your health issues and did not know how to handle them. Explain to him that u know that its not an excuse that he be treated as such and that you are truly sorry and want to make it up to him. Then see what happens. If he is down to earth, I am sure he will forgive you. We all make mistakes in our lives and sometimes we all get cranky now and then. Good luck!!
2007-01-19 14:26:55 · answer #3 · answered by linnie20022000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do u need the straight way or the cabbage one , i think try the straight one first talk about ur fault to lighten the crash then make sure that the one sure that u feel sorry then the normal thing that reaction occur ''sorry'' is the magical key word for this situations with a little present '' flower'' pink one that's will be soooo romantic but the cabbage way is to take him down and kick him badly anywhere and mumble in his ears do u forgive me or or ???? he knows and i think the last way is exhausting
2007-01-19 14:34:38 · answer #4 · answered by hossam 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do the right thing and apologize GENUINELY. explain the issues to him again, let him know you are trying to make the changes but you need his help, support and understanding.
every friday, my fiance and i quarrel because he liming with friends, etc and i home seeing about our son- 4mths. it is frustrating and we argue all weekend (our only spare time to spend with each other) and monday morning he is sorry.
i keep saying enery week is the last and i really am frustrated with the situation but i continue trying because i love him and i do believe that he can and will change.
if ur bf loves you enough, even though he is angry , he will be there for you.
2007-01-19 14:27:40 · answer #5 · answered by stacy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Last time I messed up HUGE....I went to Hallmark...bought a card that read "I'm lower than dirt, I'm lower than the bugs beneath the dirt, no no I'm lower than the slime under the bugs beneath the dirt"....you get it...well it was pretty cute, but he realized I was truly sorry. I only asked for forgiveness, nothing more..even if that meant he was over me. Thankfully, he loves me like crazy! I wish you luck :)
2007-01-19 14:27:09 · answer #6 · answered by chacha_waha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well first off all you got to deal neither with bf or anyone else for your behaviour . you have to deal only with yourself and your nature. understand the stituation and act acoordingly. tell your bf how depressed, sick you were and not to forget irritated. give him more importance . spend more time with him. make him realize how important he is for u. and futre promise him that you will try to overcome your anger and irritation in an anger or in any sttiuations for that matter. Act cool and normal when your irritated.
2007-01-19 14:30:23 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he dont know your situation, then you can expect negative from him....try to tell him what's going on and maybe he can help you overcome things.....dont keep him in the dark, or he might go out and find a different light, if you know what I mean......good luck
2007-01-19 14:25:00 · answer #8 · answered by The Emperor of Ecstasy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just say, "hey,im really sorry for acting like a jerk.."na dthan tell the reason why
good luck!
2007-01-19 14:26:43 · answer #9 · answered by Sk8er Chick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think u need to talk to a shrink and reassure ur boyfriend that u are getting help for ur behaviour.
2007-01-19 14:24:48 · answer #10 · answered by kute_regina_gal 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋