Family & Relationships - 19 January 2007

My bf's best friend told me that when ever he ask if my bf likes me he says I don't know and there is a rumor going around that my bf only likes me 70% out of 100%. What can I do to make him like me more or see if he likes me at all. PLEZ HELP!

2007-01-19 14:38:37 · 15 answers · asked by Dance Gal 2 in Singles & Dating

My whole life i've been raised to look for certain characteristics in guys...now I am friends with this really awsome guy who happens to be everything i'm not supposed to like. I'm a christian he's and athiest, he drinks, has tatoo's and peircings. I know i should just walk away but I can't. He's been through alot and so have I so i guess that brings us together.He's the only guy that i can talk freely to and he's always been there when i needed someone to lean on.
My question is, Should I walk or should i stay?

2007-01-19 14:38:27 · 11 answers · asked by emschick914 1 in Singles & Dating

I have problems talking to people, or doing anything by myself. That's not a good thing. I won't go out and eat unless it's the drive thru or unless i'm with someone. I don't like going anywhere. Not to the grocery store or the park. Can someone help? Please!

2007-01-19 14:38:20 · 8 answers · asked by Lynze B 2 in Friends

2007-01-19 14:36:38 · 15 answers · asked by Johnny 1 in Singles & Dating

Im a little confused about this. I am having a reception where kids are welcomed as well. Would I have to make place cards for every individual including kids or is there anyway that I can avoid making a few place cards. Could it be done do that the place cards go by family and not individual? Im just not sure, Help!!

2007-01-19 14:36:17 · 8 answers · asked by cib0385 4 in Weddings

My ex-boyfriend dumped me a year ago, yet last week he called me and asked me to go see a movie with him. I went with him, he picked me up & after the movie he just took me home.On the drive home, when I asked him why he wanted to see me, he said that he wants to see me 'every once in awhile'. Why does he wanna hang out and see me once in awhile, when we only dated for one month? By the way, we never had sex during our relationship cuz he knew that I wanna save myself for marriage. We would cuddle, kiss, hug, & hold hands, it was a pure & beautiful thing. Even AFTER he ended it, he would still say hi to me on msn, so we did communicate during this yr. albeit only by msn. We just never met up & he never called me until that day he asked to go see a movie, after the yr. Did he just miss me or does he have bad intentions? He's in Asia now, but comes back in one month. Should I ask for coffee one time, but just as friends? He's 26 & more experienced while I'm 21 & he was my first bf.

2007-01-19 14:36:05 · 5 answers · asked by Hottie 1 in Singles & Dating

He sits on the toilette instead of standing up!

2007-01-19 14:35:21 · 7 answers · asked by K 2 in Singles & Dating

anyone have tips on what guys like in "getting to know eachother" ? like what exactly do they want?

2007-01-19 14:35:06 · 4 answers · asked by shopaholic612612 1 in Singles & Dating

if ur friend is always nice 2 u but u might be getting something and she or he's said that they've had it before and always says that 2 whatever u say 4 example " hey i might be getting a cherry chocolate phone and she's said oh i had i had that but i gave it 2 so and so or i traded it in is she really telling the truth or lying? is she a good friend or not? plz write back i need 2 know

2007-01-19 14:34:38 · 26 answers · asked by bad ass burgess 1 in Friends

looking for some toasts for the wedding for the groom and the bride?

2007-01-19 14:34:31 · 2 answers · asked by brianadams34 1 in Weddings

Is it a weird fetish or is it normal for women to like it?

2007-01-19 14:33:31 · 3 answers · asked by Lily P 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

My mom is really sick but i have school and she lives in Cali in im in Atlanta Gerogia. SHe called all my brothers and sisters so we can be togther. But she understands if i dont go. I wont to be there but im risking my whole career to become this docter she always wontd me to be. But now im trobled about what path i should take. Help me out please!!

2007-01-19 14:32:22 · 12 answers · asked by romeosgurl40 1 in Family

my parents and i are always arguing about dumb stuff cause we all have really really bad tempers...none of us can control our emotions...we've seen a therapist, but it didn't help...can anyone out there help me?

2007-01-19 14:32:18 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I broke up with him a week ago A couple of days ago I heard him talking to his friend about this girl he liked, I thought that they were kidding bc while we were going out he kept saying, I love you so much that I wont go out with another girl til 7 grade if we break up! I OBVIOUSLY believed him, I also forgot to mention that this kid lyed to me, cheated on me, and flirted with every girl that he met. He also broke ALOT of promises that he made. yesterday on the bus home my friend ben said that my x told him who he liked , i didnt believ him. That night i talked to my x online and he said that he didnt like ANOYONE but me even tough were not together. Today at lunch he asked out another girl, but he DID ask my permission, I said that I didnt care and I hated him (but I still like him!) and he asked ehr out and she said no. Im in 6 grade and today at lunch I was crying and cursing and trying to hide it from my friends and finally told them, then my x ignored me the rest of the day!

2007-01-19 14:32:08 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-19 14:31:28 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

For the past 4 yrs my family has treated him like sh!t and last week in the middle of and argument I sided with them. I have also lied to him and betrayed him in other ways when it comes to my family. The last straw was we were buying a Harley from my dad. Well when we were arguing I had him come down and get the bike, but the next day rather then talking through our problem he packed his stuff and he left. He said I had betrayed him and he couldn't be with me. Since then he has been here to watch our two lil boys when I have to go to work. We have talked very little about our problem, and I have apologized to him for lieing and betraying him the way I did. He says that he is still very upset about the whole ordeal. Yet tonight when I got home from work we put the boys to bed and ended up having sex. When he went to leave I told him that I loved him and missed him and he kissed me and told me he missed me too. Does this mean he wants to be here he just needs time or what?

2007-01-19 14:30:22 · 23 answers · asked by turtlegirl247 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm planning on going to Ireland on vacation in a few months and some friends of mine (who are from the UK) were giving me some tips about Ireland and then they all jumped in with how incredibly racist they all are. Is that true? I had never heard that before.

2007-01-19 14:30:14 · 11 answers · asked by patriotsgrl2000 1 in Friends

Do beautiful women get sick of being hit on? Do they wish that average guys would just leave them alone? Do they appreciate their own sexual power and know that others envy them? Do they appreciate the fact that they can get laid anytime they want while most people, especially guys, just dream of such opportunity?

2007-01-19 14:29:31 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My friend has been mad at me for a long tie and i want her to forgive and i do not even know what i did. plz help

2007-01-19 14:29:24 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-19 14:29:10 · 17 answers · asked by gary p 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Okay, so we are both 15, and we mostly see each other at school. Thing is, we don't have any classes together now. So basically we never see each other. he doesn't really make much effort to call me or anything. Sometimes I call him, but we usually have awkward silences and the conversations don't last long. I do believe him when he says he really cares about me, though, and I know he wants to be with me. My question isn't about that, I just needed to provide some background. Because now what i want to do is talk to him about the effort going into the relationship and how we can make more time. But I really don't want to do this over the phone, or email, obviously. Where do you think would be a good place to go to just talk to him, face to face? And how do I tell him I need to talk to him without worrying him? But mainly the first question. And neither of our houses are an option. His mom is overprotective and won't let him here and at his house we would not have any chance to talk.

2007-01-19 14:28:19 · 5 answers · asked by Kesie 1 in Singles & Dating

I've been married 17 years and devoted my life to this man and my family.never cheated(cant say the same for him)and always tried to do well for my family. We moved to a place I didnt want to be in the first place and didnt adapt well,but he did. He made single friends and younger family and wanted to go out with his friends and family more than spend time with his own family, Of course I became the b**** and controlling wife,Anyway after a long fighting ordeal he moved out,then after a while of missing him and asking to work things out he came back home to his family,WRONG ANSWER, He came back and basically ignored us sat and watched tv and played video games for two weeks! everyday after work he would go to his families rather than spend time with his own family. After more fighting he siad he was not in love with me any longer and did not want to be here anymore BUT he would stay for the kid. we asked him to leave.
Now he's divorcing me,.My heart wants him still??!!
Why?

2007-01-19 14:28:11 · 13 answers · asked by kountriecat 1 in Marriage & Divorce

omg i hate my boyfriend when hes around his friends! he tryes to grab my *** and he swears, and is just an ***!! hes so sweet when its me and him or even with my friends around but he shows off in front of his friends. i know hes a good guy so why does he do that in front of his friends. Hes even told some of the 'jocks' thats hes 'done' me! i yelled at him and hes stoped but why would he say that? i know it makes him seem really really bad but he really is a good guy!

2007-01-19 14:28:11 · 3 answers · asked by Sumer 2 in Singles & Dating

Well, this guy likes me and well hes kinda a jerk in school and im pretty popular. He said im beautiful and asked me out 2 days ago. We went on a date and today at school classmates and other friends were kind of making fun of me that im going out with a jerk like dat. But i kinda do like him. Also today, i broke up with him because i couldnt take the teasing anymore, and to my friends i lied that i never liked him i was just trying to be nice to him by going out. But what i feel is not waht i say. In my head, i still like the guy a lil. Should i tell him to start over or just ignore him?

2007-01-19 14:27:58 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have always (and will always) believe that there is no excuse for cheating on someone your in a relationship with. This past week i found out that a co-worker was the cheater. After talking about it with him he told me how he wasn't really interested in the relationship anymore. He said that "it just happened" and later said that he wasn't sure if he was really interested in his partner anymore but didn't have the heart to tell her face to face. She was blindsided when she found out (the other woman confessed) and is devestated becuase she had no indication that anything is amiss. She wants to try salvage the relationship but he is finally gonna end it because he realized that she can never really trust him again and doesn't really want to be in it anymore. I know if i were to ask my partner if he is satisfied with the realtionship, he will say yes because he doesn't want to hurt me even if he does want out.

2007-01-19 14:27:57 · 1 answers · asked by ? 3 in Singles & Dating

Ok, I've been with the same guy for 3 years now and he shows no signs of ever wanting to get married. He's 31 and I'm 26, so there is no great hurry or anything and I'm certainly not in the business of pushing someone to marriage. If the topic even comes up, even if I'm not the one to mention it (which I rarely do) he freaks out and goes into the whole "stand up funeral" bit. I just don't understand his deal because being an EBG (everything but girl) I figured he would have left a long time ago, whether he loved me or not. (not that I want him to go away, don't take that wrong, just I know the average guy - 3 months and they are gone.) So what's his deal, guys? Is he just lying to me about the prospect of ever getting married (not that I'm in a hurry!) or is he just playing mind games with me. How long am I supposed to wait? I'm not getting any younger here!

2007-01-19 14:27:37 · 2 answers · asked by DebEgirl 3 in Singles & Dating

thers this guy i really like, but he can b such a jerk sometimes I mean we talk in class and flirt and he smiles at me like no other, but he i such an a** the rest of the time, like Il walk up and I will say hi and he will b like: what do you want? and other stuf like that. I never get 2 talk 2 him out of classes then cause he just idk is different. what does this mean, I dont understand him.

2007-01-19 14:27:10 · 1 answers · asked by Lindsey S 1 in Singles & Dating

should i just give up?

2007-01-19 14:26:24 · 3 answers · asked by sofia 3 in Singles & Dating

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2007-01-19 14:24:07 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my dad die october 13th i need to know if i will ever see him agian

2007-01-19 14:22:51 · 10 answers · asked by soy sauce 1 in Family