Are there warning signs that a person may cheat??

Question

I have always (and will always) believe that there is no excuse for cheating on someone your in a relationship with. This past week i found out that a co-worker was the cheater. After talking about it with him he told me how he wasn't really interested in the relationship anymore. He said that "it just happened" and later said that he wasn't sure if he was really interested in his partner anymore but didn't have the heart to tell her face to face. She was blindsided when she found out (the other woman confessed) and is devestated becuase she had no indication that anything is amiss. She wants to try salvage the relationship but he is finally gonna end it because he realized that she can never really trust him again and doesn't really want to be in it anymore. I know if i were to ask my partner if he is satisfied with the realtionship, he will say yes because he doesn't want to hurt me even if he does want out.

Are there warning signs so that one may be able to recognize when a relationship is starting to fail?

Answer 1

When a relationship is failing and the other one may be cheating...they either want more or less sex....they want to try new things in bed....they get new clothes and concentrate on their appearance much more...maybe working out when they didn't before....acting different...distant..they get irritable. I think that your significant other would be showing signs if you know him well enough and if you really read into him. Some people are just blind to that or some people really don't spend enough time together to know their partner so they never see the red flags. Good Luck!