Ok, I've been with the same guy for 3 years now and he shows no signs of ever wanting to get married. He's 31 and I'm 26, so there is no great hurry or anything and I'm certainly not in the business of pushing someone to marriage. If the topic even comes up, even if I'm not the one to mention it (which I rarely do) he freaks out and goes into the whole "stand up funeral" bit. I just don't understand his deal because being an EBG (everything but girl) I figured he would have left a long time ago, whether he loved me or not. (not that I want him to go away, don't take that wrong, just I know the average guy - 3 months and they are gone.) So what's his deal, guys? Is he just lying to me about the prospect of ever getting married (not that I'm in a hurry!) or is he just playing mind games with me. How long am I supposed to wait? I'm not getting any younger here!
2007-01-19 14:27:37 · 2 answers · asked by DebEgirl 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm not in a hurry but I don't want to be forty and still single! Basically I don't want to spend time dating someone if it's going nowhere. If it is, then fine no problem, I date him for a few more years till he makes up his mind. I just don't want to have to hit the dating scene again when I'm old and ugly!
2007-01-19 14:37:53 · update #1
I think you need speak up. When you hold strong feelings, you died Little inside. Sit down with him and ease up to the subject. ask him what he wants in life, and stuff. Speak your mind. butter him up first with a good meal and wear a nice dress.
2007-01-19 14:43:41 · answer #1 · answered by Lost Drifter 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You totally contradicted yourself. You said you weren't in a hurry. Then you used the phrase "I'm not getting any younger here!" which implies you are in a hurry. Make up your mind.
2007-01-19 14:34:11 · answer #2 · answered by Dido 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋