Family & Relationships - 19 January 2007

i have a boyfriend, but i also have a male friend whose expressed sexual intrest in me....but i dont get why the guy wants me to look @ his ex's picture. i honestly think i'm more attractive than her, but i dont get it. is he trying 2 make me jealous or something? or does he think having a hot ex girlfriend will make me like him more???help!

2007-01-19 14:50:04 · 21 answers · asked by Johnnie's cash🌴🌙☂✈ 4 in Singles & Dating

..what I mean by possible is this: can such an age difference restrict some men to really develop a feeling for a teen, without him being a pervert? Society tends to automatically label that as pervesion, so we don't hear too many cases of this happening. But can people with that large an age gap really fall for each other(attraction wise)? I know this is a wierd question, but help me out here.

2007-01-19 14:49:00 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

what is the difference between when you tell someone she is cute, or she is hot. and same goes with male.

2007-01-19 14:48:15 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

my boyfriend cheated on me and im not sure what to do, I'm still wiht him. We were always good together and i love him so much. I don't know if i can trust him again and he said he's wiling to not go out anymore, but i know that eventually he will want to. I know its wrong that he did it... and kept it from me, but i dont know, some advice please?

2007-01-19 14:47:53 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I have female friends that use their looks and sex appeal to get men to do almost anything for them without sleeping with them or even being intimate with them. Is it the possibility of these men winning these women over that makes men do these things or what ?

2007-01-19 14:47:49 · 11 answers · asked by ian p 2 in Singles & Dating

The more I date the more I find out that guys don’t want to have anything to do with me unless I have to offer something..it is either sex..or some kind of favours..so I always end up leaving them.. And I am not proud to say every guy I ever been with I was the one who ended the relationship and when my current bf found out that I have done this he is scared of committing to me because he said he doesn’t want to be with someone who

I don’t mean to show off but I am beautiful..I have a nice figure, beautiful long hair, good looking face, I have my own business, I have my own place..I am confidant out going, kind and a nice person

but every guy I go on a date with end up being the opposite of what I thought they were..I have dated more than 40 guys I am 22 years old and still a virgin..but they all disappeared because one said he wants sex..they other said lets get married after a week of getting to know each other..the other lied about being single..

and my most recent one all of a sudden he wants to do every classic thing you have heard about abusive relationships( controlling, telling me to ask my mom not to come over, asking me not to have friends..and asking me to close my business so I can be home and not spending too much time at work with the guys..I mean the list goes on)


why is it so hard to find a decent man who has more morals than a dog, a pig and a donkey?

2007-01-19 14:47:41 · 15 answers · asked by Holy 2 in Singles & Dating

Got dumped two weeks ago. She finally called me yesterday....We talked for more than an hour (very positive, did not beg, but tried to show her I care). The breakup was my doing. She texted me after our conversation saying it was good to talk to me and that she wanted to meet me for coffee the next day (today). I said cool and let me know when she wants to meet up. Never called me, I called her and she said she had been very busy and she had to work rest of the night. My question is this: Is she playing games? Is she interested in getting back together? Is she just playing hard to get cause she just doesn't trust me yet? Is it just going to take some time? I care for her a lot and I want to do this right. Any opinions?

2007-01-19 14:46:59 · 10 answers · asked by D 1 in Singles & Dating

im definately not trying 2 discriminate,but i am not gay,and she is hitting on me,thats so .....not rite.should i still be close with her or slowly like not be so close anymore?

2007-01-19 14:46:37 · 8 answers · asked by Sweet Pea 1 in Friends

He was so awful to me, so why do I want him back?

2007-01-19 14:46:37 · 5 answers · asked by composure 1 in Friends

My sisters husband is sleeping around with his co-workers but she really doesn't want to have sex with him because he isn't doing it for her any more when they are haveing sex she doesn't feeel anything but she loves him and don't want to lose him but how can she tell him that she loves him but she can't have sex with him because he can't last as long as he use to

2007-01-19 14:46:17 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

About 5 months ago this happened to me, & I called the police & the police wanted to arrest me & not him. I'm still hurt by it, & it's hard for me to let this go. My mom said the foster boy had the right to punch me. How could your OWN mom let you down like that? So I called the police. How is it that a police officer can allow a child to chastize or discipline an adult by violence for no reason. I didn't do this boy anything. & the police wanted to arrest me & not him. That's not fair.

What advice would you give me? Now I've moved to another state to another place to live, but it's hard for me to let go of this situation. How can I cope with this? How can I get over this? This is very depressing.

2007-01-19 14:46:10 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Don't you hate it when they say they'll call you back and never do??What does it mean??Did they get busy or is there so meone else??

2007-01-19 14:46:10 · 5 answers · asked by sugarmonkey_35 1 in Singles & Dating

went to my nepews wedding ,when I got their I found my xhusband and his lady freind ,sitting at the table next to me and my freind. My question is why did my nepew have him their,I was totaly upset. My family never liked my x when we were married and now to have this I was devistated. I have distanced myself.

2007-01-19 14:46:06 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

in high school, i knew of 2-3 guys that had pretty weird "relationships" with their sisters, and 1 that had a "relationship" with his mother! it is more common than people want to believe, most wont ever admit it, but how many out there have screwed a close family member? just once, or is it ongoing to this day? who initiated it the first time?

2007-01-19 14:46:03 · 16 answers · asked by berkly m 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Ever since I hit my son he's listened to me welll, almost like he's feared me, right? well, i tried real hard not to hit him, but he mouthed me off so i smacked him across the jaw.

Now my wife's threatening to leave me because she said that is full-out child abuse. Is there anything I can do? I feel horrible!

2007-01-19 14:45:52 · 15 answers · asked by csiguy 1 in Family

I've been told by numerous people that this girl likes me. She is really cute, but I just dont know if I wanna go out with her because everytime im in a relationship...it goes flat because of me usually. You see, Im quite shy round my family bout gfs and all that, and so its hard for me (for the most part) to say Im gonna go down to the mall to meet up with whoever right. So things usually go flat. Im now going to a movie with my friends...theres 4 of us all together...including this one girl...I guess Im jsut afraid of loosing my friendship with her because we are really good friends right now and if we have a bad relationship and it ends badly, then the freindship...WHHOOOSSSHHH...gone. Is there a reason why Im just wanting to be friends...am I trully not looking for a gf or am I just shy? What do you think so far?

2007-01-19 14:45:25 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I need sum help with that... he said to me.... you know whats funny?? your face!!! and I need some comebacks!!!! good ones!!! need help fast!!! he is annyoing!!!

2007-01-19 14:45:15 · 4 answers · asked by liveurlife411 1 in Family

I want to make you smile whenever your sad,
put you to bed when your arthritis is bad,
it would be so nice to grow old with you.

I'll get your medicine if your tummy aches,
build you a fire if the furnace breaks
if I could be the man to grow old with you,

I'll miss you,kiss you,give you my coat when you are cold,
need you,feed you,even let you hold the remote control.

So let me do the dishes in our kitchen sink,
put you to bed when you had to much to drink.
It would be so nice to grow old with you.

I'll miss you,kiss you,give you my coat when you are cold,
need you,feed you,even let you hold the remote control.
If I could be the man to grow old with you.
I want to grow old with you.

That is a great song.ladies do you know what movie that it is from.

2007-01-19 14:44:38 · 11 answers · asked by lovely soul with insite 3 in Singles & Dating

ok so i like a girl, and i realized she has just been teasing me, and i thought about it she always has teased me... For example, she used to tell me things on msn like that she was wearing a thong and t shirt and thats all, or she would always show me her bras and say "check out this bra it has a flower on the boob" or when i got off the bus she would lift her shirt up and press her boobs on the window...at that time she had a boyfriend and she wouldnt do that for him. Or even know, she still teases me but she is smarter now and gets me with the mind teasing....she makes me think that she likes me (she knows how i feel about her) when i tell her i love her she cant handle it, and tells me i dont. why do girls tease?!?!

2007-01-19 14:44:26 · 13 answers · asked by dwickleworth 4 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend lives in ny like me, but he is originally from the mid-west. He has always said he wanted to return to his home state but he has been saying it for years and I didn't think he would ever follow through. He is seriously considering it now. I love him so much, and I would move away with him but I have two problems. One is cultural - my family is from Haiti, and it is preferable for Haitian families to generally stay close together to provide a support system for eachother which I do have now and couldn't imagine living without. The other is professional. I am an undergraduate preparing for a career in medicine. I am only almost done with undergrad and I might have to do some course work after I graduate before entering medical school(depending if I get accepted of not).I go to one of the best universities in the US for science (Stony Brook, birth place of the MRI machine) and I do not want to give up the oppurtunity to continue in the school if I have the oppurtunity. HELP!!

2007-01-19 14:44:22 · 4 answers · asked by Jess 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-01-19 14:42:35 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

we live in Australia and it's summer. both of us grew up in the country.

2007-01-19 14:41:52 · 13 answers · asked by eLad 2 in Singles & Dating

Is it okay for a guy to shave his private region, like a run way strip or bikini shave just like women?

2007-01-19 14:41:48 · 15 answers · asked by john S 1 in Singles & Dating

About a year and a half ago, at the end of my sophmore year in high school I went through a little identity crisis. I was convinced I was an Ahole and everyone hated me and convinced myself I needed to be really quiet and shy and not talk to people. I did that for most of the next year but at the end I was like, "this is stupid" and decided that at the beginning of the next year I would try to make friends. I was given a better opportunity than I could have ever hoped for because I was invited to work on a group project that I really liked and they really said they liked and trusted and respected me, even though I was really only an acquaintance. I feel like maybe they were being inviting or at least giving me an opening but I was so shy and couldn't do it, and I think they're frustrated with how shy I am and don't really try any more. since then I've been depressed and very withdrawn, basically giving up for a while. Given that its my senior year, I would love to spend some time with them before its over but at the same time, i don't know if its arrogant, after all the years and all the opportunities. Can I fix this, if so how?

2007-01-19 14:41:17 · 1 answers · asked by leena 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-01-19 14:41:06 · 12 answers · asked by pussycat doll* 1 in Family

i went on this date with this guy last week, friday...(to the movies) im 16 he is too... b4 we went on the date he used to call alot... and now he hasnt since sunday... wat do i think???

2007-01-19 14:40:48 · 10 answers · asked by doyoulikewaffles 1 in Singles & Dating

I've liked this girl for a few months and sometimes she ignores me but when shes not around a lot of people and im by her she will talk to me all the time.

2007-01-19 14:40:33 · 14 answers · asked by J 1 in Singles & Dating

Could I have caused this brake up?
ok, there is this guy that I go to school with, (we'll call him "Z") and he was going with this one girl "C". Well C cheated on Z a few months ago and they broke up, but then got back together. they've been together for like 4 months now and they broke up today, and I feel like it was my fault.....
Z's a flurt, and I love him to death as a friend, and we were going to go out, but I didn't want to loose the frindship. well the other day we skiped school together (me, him, his bro, the bro's GF, and B and M) and we were hanging out. Well C's friend said that she saw me and Z making out or something like that. So C broke up with Z (with a letter BTW!! Chicken-****!) and that was it. well, I'm kinda happy they broke up 'cause she was a beach and always talking crap about anybody that EVER talked to Z. well, I broke up with the guy I was going out with today too (Z didn't know about that at the time) and now me and Z are like talking on the phone right now and he said that he wants to

2007-01-19 14:40:14 · 4 answers · asked by ♥femme fatale♥ 2 in Friends

looking for some toasts for the wedding for the groom and the bride?

2007-01-19 14:39:56 · 3 answers · asked by brianadams34 1 in Weddings

alright this guy u like is super cute and he likes u but here's the thing his sister said that he had 2 lesbain girlfriends would u go out with him or not or would u never speak 2 him again plz write back cause i need 2 know

2007-01-19 14:39:02 · 13 answers · asked by bad ass burgess 1 in Singles & Dating