im definately not trying 2 discriminate,but i am not gay,and she is hitting on me,thats so .....not rite.should i still be close with her or slowly like not be so close anymore?
2007-01-19 14:46:37 · 8 answers · asked by Sweet Pea 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Hey
If she is really a true friend then you should let her know that you understand that she is gay but you dont go that way. And you would like to still be friends but you would like for her to stop coming on to you.
Do it in a nice way.
2007-01-19 16:47:05 · answer #1 · answered by thickandfit1974 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if it truly bugs you then slowly stop being her friend. like if she calls you and your not home but your mom answers the phone and you are supposed 2 call her back don't do it and say you forgot. but don't just all of a sudden start ignoring her. if it doesn't bother you 2 much then continue being her friend and maybe she will find somebody else and stop hitting on you.
2007-01-19 14:53:14 · answer #2 · answered by the idiot down the road 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since she's you're friend lay down the ground rules. Be open and honest and tell her how you feel. Also tell her that if she can't treat you as "just a friend" then the 2 of you won't be able to hang out anymore.
2007-01-19 14:50:38 · answer #3 · answered by Misty Eyes 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just let her know that you aren't "that way." Which, since she's your friend, I'm sure she already does know. But, if you think she needs to be reminded, then, so be it...Tell her you like her as a friend and nothing more. If she can't accept that, then you can no longer be friends!! It's that simple!
2007-01-19 15:08:05 · answer #4 · answered by Jenna 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her that you don't like her that way, and never will, but would like to continue being friends
2007-01-19 14:52:21 · answer #5 · answered by Ashley 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you are best Friend then try to respect her by the way she is.
2007-01-19 15:12:12 · answer #6 · answered by sunday 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her you like her friendship, but are not interested, if she dosent stop them get rid of her, cause thats not rite!!!!
GL~
2007-01-19 14:50:59 · answer #7 · answered by ;) 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do what you want. Or hook her up.
2007-01-21 07:39:21 · answer #8 · answered by ZZ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋