ok so i like a girl, and i realized she has just been teasing me, and i thought about it she always has teased me... For example, she used to tell me things on msn like that she was wearing a thong and t shirt and thats all, or she would always show me her bras and say "check out this bra it has a flower on the boob" or when i got off the bus she would lift her shirt up and press her boobs on the window...at that time she had a boyfriend and she wouldnt do that for him. Or even know, she still teases me but she is smarter now and gets me with the mind teasing....she makes me think that she likes me (she knows how i feel about her) when i tell her i love her she cant handle it, and tells me i dont. why do girls tease?!?!
2007-01-19 14:44:26 · 13 answers · asked by dwickleworth 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You go back to when people felt powerful, and they relive it. It is one of the roots of personality. So a girl once felt good teasing some guy and the psyche is hooked.
Fritz Perls (Ghestault Therapy) called it rapo, and I know people who are that way. We all have our defense mechanisms.
Solution, Just be independent, and do not expect sushi at a French Restaurant. Everyone has strengths and weeknesses.
2007-01-19 14:55:57 · answer #1 · answered by ebiz1@sbcglobal.net 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well maybe that's just the black girls you are around. I didn't see biracial girls in high school or elementary school getting picked on that much. I don't tease anyone I think that's immature and shows a lack of security within ones self. There were plenty of light skin girls there that weren't mixed and they had plenty of dark skin and brown skin friends. I also knew a few biracial girls in college they grew with mostly black female friends. Those girls would probably tease you even if you were a black girl, why? Because they are insecure.
2016-03-29 05:36:23 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude, it's all about attention. As long as she can get your drawers in a knot, she'll keep it up. It won't lead anywhere, she just wants to get you hot and bothered. Enjoy it, if that's what you're into...if not, don't respond and she'll go seek the attention elsewhere.
2007-01-19 14:53:27 · answer #3 · answered by Voice_Of_Reason 5 · 4⤊ 0⤋
lol ive never heard of a girl that teases a guy like that...i dunno...most girls tease cauz it makes them feel more powerful.
2007-01-19 14:50:01 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
those kind of girls are desperate for attention and need every guy to think they're hot, just so they'll feel important and pretty... stay away from those kind, they're trouble!
2007-01-19 14:49:15 · answer #5 · answered by F.J. 6 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Because they think they can get away with it and believe it gives them power. Until they're raped or get the crap beat out of them.
2007-01-19 14:48:10 · answer #6 · answered by marklemoore 6 · 4⤊ 1⤋
i have no idea, try talking to her, she probably teases you because she likes you!
GL~
2007-01-19 14:49:09 · answer #7 · answered by ;) 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'd prabably go with erin rae.
2007-01-19 14:54:02 · answer #8 · answered by x-c runner♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's fun and gives us confidence
2007-01-19 14:47:49 · answer #9 · answered by Shanequa 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋
she loves you and thinks you r sexy and are her boobs sexy
2007-01-19 14:48:57 · answer #10 · answered by soy sauce 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋