I've been told by numerous people that this girl likes me. She is really cute, but I just dont know if I wanna go out with her because everytime im in a relationship...it goes flat because of me usually. You see, Im quite shy round my family bout gfs and all that, and so its hard for me (for the most part) to say Im gonna go down to the mall to meet up with whoever right. So things usually go flat. Im now going to a movie with my friends...theres 4 of us all together...including this one girl...I guess Im jsut afraid of loosing my friendship with her because we are really good friends right now and if we have a bad relationship and it ends badly, then the freindship...WHHOOOSSSHHH...gone. Is there a reason why Im just wanting to be friends...am I trully not looking for a gf or am I just shy? What do you think so far?
2007-01-19 14:45:25 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I forgot the pressured part...
well my lesbian friend likes this girl that likes me who I also find very cute. Now she found out that the non lesbian friend of mine that likes me, likes me...so she kinda was sad...and she was telling me to ask her out sorta outta pitty for herself. My other friend Ashley told me that this girl likes me and that I should go out with her too...should I listen to them, or go on my own way?
2007-01-19 14:50:10 · update #1
Your thinking to much about it.
With that attitude I could say well "She thinks he doesn't like her so if they don't become bf/gf their friendship will still go wooooooshhh"
If you really like the girl, more then a friend, go for it. Doesn't matter what happend in the past. Doesn't matter what you think may happen in the future, just take it one day at a time.
If you just want to stay friends because you don't like her more then a friend, then leave it as it is.
Luck.
2007-01-19 14:50:23 · answer #1 · answered by soccerpsychic 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your young do not let anyone pressure you to do anything you do not want to do. Its alright to go out on friendship dates its fun tell your friends that you do not want to see anyone right now, and that you just like going out with the crowd.
2007-01-19 14:52:54 · answer #2 · answered by Ms Pollyanna 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're probably not ready for a relationship? yet?
2007-01-19 14:50:41 · answer #3 · answered by x-c runner♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋