Family & Relationships - 19 January 2007

I am 15 and I really like this guy that is 17. He is graduating this year and I have no chance with him, but we are kinda friends and I hope to keep in touch after high school. I want to ask him for his email address with hopes of talking from now on online and maybe, one day, something will happen. But I don't want him to think I'm hitting on him because he's really cute and a lot of girls do hit on him. I need a way to ask him casually. Have any ideas?

2007-01-19 15:17:40 · 14 answers · asked by nerdandproudofit 3 in Singles & Dating

Well for valentines day or for everyday or for his b-day

2007-01-19 15:17:36 · 6 answers · asked by Nikki Z 1 in Singles & Dating

My ex boyfriend,Has not contacted me at all! I should be happy and I am because I never ever want to be with him again. But a part of me wonders why doesn't he care...Does he still think about me the way I think about him?

2007-01-19 15:16:40 · 2 answers · asked by AnimalCrossing 1 in Singles & Dating

I take care of my dad. He's a POW from WWII. He's 85. I used everything i had to keep him out of a Nursing Home. I lost everything I owned for doing this. I do have a car, but when dad's gone so is my car unless i pay it off. When dad's gone, the house will be locked and I'll have nowhere to go. There's not enough money to put in the bank to take care of me. It all goes on dad and his home.I can't even get my heart pills to keep me going. I just take 2 asperins a day and hope. I'm 57 and I afraid i'll be on the streets when dad's gone. It's a bad nightmare. I need help to help me pay off the car which is 4 Thousand and a little more to take care of me when dad's gone so i'm not on the street. I can't work, I stay with him 24/7. He has demention problems and other problems with the prison camp he was in. Please help me to get restarted. I already lost everything i worked for so i could care for dad and now everything is gone. I know it hard to help as alot of people have problems too.

2007-01-19 15:15:57 · 5 answers · asked by helplessoleme 3 in Family

Is there any meaning in the custom of a boy going to see a girl for marriage and eating "Free Tiffin" in the girl's house? I had gone to see a girl for my marriage for the first time. Before only I had phoned to the girl and told her that I will not be eating any tiffin in her house. I had told her that I will have only coffee. I went to see the girl in her house. The girl's mother gave me a cup of coffee. I liked the coffee. I requested to have another cup of coffee. I spoke with the girl and the girl's mother. Then I touched the girl's mother's feet and took her blessings. Later I came to know that the girl did not like to get married to me. Well, atleast I happy that the girl's mother gave me two cups of coffee. Then I decided that any good person who buys coffee for me is my friend. Second time I went to see another girl for marriage. This time I ate tiffin and drank coffee in the girl's house. The girl's relative repeatedly phoned to our house and asked what I have decided.

2007-01-19 15:15:22 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-19 15:15:16 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my only son got married, and told me 3 months after, i was upset, i thought i would have liked to be their.there didn,t have to be a big party, just out for dinner with the parents and close freinds, i think every parent wants to see their child get married in some way. i feel like that honour was taken away from me, not happy.

2007-01-19 15:15:11 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i wanna call my bf just to talk to him because i wont see him over the weekend. i just wanna talk and i know he'll be happy to hear me but at the same time, i dont know...i feel crappy, like if i bug, but he tells me he loves me calling him. =( should i call him? I feel kinda lonely and i just wanna hear his voice. today wasn't that good. i just wasnt feeling well at school and i want to talk to him!! i can't wait till monday! should i??

2007-01-19 15:14:38 · 18 answers · asked by brendi ^_^ 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-19 15:14:14 · 8 answers · asked by sunday 2 in Friends

Ahkay here;s the deal I've been going out with this guy, David for a month and a half we broke up today. During half the time we were dating, my best guy friend, James, had a major crush on me and he still does. I like him too but the problem is that my best girl friend, Missy, really likes James. I talked to her a few minutes ago and she guessed there was something going on between us, and she said she was okay with it, but I really don't want to hurt her, I'm afraid she might be hiding her feelings. I've known James since 3rd grade and it's really wierd that we both feel this way now. After having a brother-sister, best friend relationship for so long. I really like him. I mean he was there for me when David and I broke up. He gave me good advice too. I think I might love him. But I really don't know what I'm supposed to do. Help, anyone???

2007-01-19 15:13:57 · 1 answers · asked by Laura 2 in Singles & Dating

I got dumped two weeks ago. She finally called me yesterday....We talked for more than an hour (very positive, did not beg, or cry, but tried to show her I care and I want her back). The break up was my fault. She texted me after our conversation saying it was good to talk to me and that she wanted to meet me for coffee the next day (today). I said cool and let me know when she wants to meet up. Never called me, I called her and she said she had been very busy and she had to work rest of the night. My question is this: Is she playing games? Is she interested in getting back together? Is she just playing hard to get cause she just doesn't trust me yet? Is it just going to take some time? Was she really busy? I care for her a lot and I want to do this right. Any opinions?

2007-01-19 15:13:00 · 7 answers · asked by D 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-19 15:12:03 · 7 answers · asked by Katie 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Been dating 9 months, been great. He gave 3 reasons for breaking up: (1) Love. he loves me, therefore he wants to break up with me. Basically, he feels unworthy of me so bad about continuing to date me, and would break up as an act of love. (2) Time. He wants us to spend time doing other things, and grow while apart. (3) Timing. He wants us to break up while "our relations are still beautiful"/before we start disliking each other (Something I doubt will ever need to happen). I know he is being sincere, he insists that those are his reasons. From the beginning he has shown signs of being insecure about himself. He started dating me by saying "I Don't feel proportionate/worthy of you, but I want to date you." He said he would marry me if he were more decent. I already told him his reasons don't make any sense. He wrote back "The reasons for thinking lets break up are what I said just before. I am honestly so absolutely grateful to you." What should I do to stay together? He is truthful

2007-01-19 15:11:38 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

scary but half to ask

2007-01-19 15:11:26 · 22 answers · asked by half baked 2 in Family

well... i think dowry system shouldn't be there..........is money the motive of marriage??????????
can u all give me some points on dowry system.......

2007-01-19 15:11:11 · 4 answers · asked by weirdo!! 2 in Weddings

I think we should think positive ...no? *wicked smile*
And please guys the key word is TRAITS as in; character,
behavior, personality, qualities.

2007-01-19 15:10:18 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Do you think that I should bring someone? or get all dressed up and leave early, and say that I have another commitment to attend. I want my closure once and for all in my heart. I want him to remember me as looking happy, gorgeous and over him. By the way went by his house, last weekend to pick up my necklace, un announced I heard noises, it took him 5 mins. to come to door with my necklace, he then slammed door in my face, and denies there was anyone there. Someone, broke into his car, (mutual friend) shared with me KARMA---not me, I give my problems to the Lord...trust me, even though some people might deserve what they get.. they create their own destiny.. To all who wrote in with their kind words a week ago THANKYOU, AGAIN. TYhere are nice people in the world still AMEN.

2007-01-19 15:10:16 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have the best bf i love him to death his awesome and so good to me but i still find the need to complain and bicker why do we woman do this?Why cant we just admit how lucky we are and bite the bullet and shut up?

2007-01-19 15:10:13 · 7 answers · asked by ... 3 in Singles & Dating

My fiance and I recieved probation for possesion of instument of crime[a marajuana pipe and a 3/4 of a joint ] probation is one year with 10 days of com. sevice.. however we arent married yet , can we still get married even being on probation?we are in Arkansas and I know different states have different laws... can somebody honestly answer ths for me?

2007-01-19 15:10:13 · 9 answers · asked by tasha b 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I have seen a U.F.O.and would like to know who i can contact about my experience.

2007-01-19 15:09:54 · 13 answers · asked by cityskylights 1 in Singles & Dating

My ex boyfriend,Has not contacted me at all! I should be happy and I am because I never ever want to be with him again. But a part of me wonders why doesn't he care...Does he still think about me the way I think about him?

2007-01-19 15:09:53 · 15 answers · asked by AnimalCrossing 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My husband and I are renewing our vows on February 14,2007
and I need help finding good colors for a bouquet for me and for my bridesmaids and best men. My dress is a light bluish purple. I was thinking of doing tye dye colors LOL but not to sure. serious answers only

2007-01-19 15:08:36 · 11 answers · asked by midnightwolf99_2000 3 in Weddings

Well, im only 14 years old and I have this friend who is a boy. He came over last weekend and my 2 other friends were here that are girls. We were having fun and just hangin out like we did before. Now, this boy has a girlfriend, but he talked to her that day about coming to my house and she was fine with it. That night, me and him ended up sleeping in the same bed. I guess his girlfriend found out about that and she was really mad. She is still mad at me, but not him. I mean, it wasnt just me; He went to bed with me at the same time. Nothing happened, were just friends, but everyone says we would make a good couple, and he doesnt deny that. *Well, do you think that it is bad to sleep in the same bed with a boy if he has a girlfriend, even if your not going to do anything?* Ohh, and i like this boy. Please answer! Thank you

2007-01-19 15:08:28 · 20 answers · asked by Paige 2 in Friends

If you were 6 and you went to the zoo and right after you came out there was a clown making balloon animals and you asked him to make you a balloon giraffe and he says....uhhh maybe and then he makes it and then when he hands it to you he pops it! it relates to something else i just wanna know.

2007-01-19 15:07:18 · 9 answers · asked by CrazyInLove 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-19 15:07:09 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my friend needs help he likes this asian girl but she is not interested in anyone should he make a move? and what should it be?

2007-01-19 15:06:51 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

he's in the army and i barely get to see him. he's leaving for iraq pretty soon and i'm going to college in august. i just feel like we don't have a future together even though we are trying. should i keep hope alive and continue to dream that we will be together even though i honestly don't know whether i believe that. are relationships supposed to be this hard?

2007-01-19 15:06:03 · 14 answers · asked by swtdrms 1 in Singles & Dating

im a junior in highschool. i just told a girl that i like her. we have been friends since like 6th grade. now she is acting all weird. like she wont even talk to me. what does it mean, and what should i do?

2007-01-19 15:05:44 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my gf and i have been fighting over just about every little thing. she got mad and said she was gonna walk home, which is a good 8+ miles away. on top of that, she's pregnant. i didn't want her to go, i was worried, and followed her. the cops stopped us, and her mom picked her up...we were both upset and arguing with each other. this was about 4 hours ago. she probably hates me now...should i call her, or what?

2007-01-19 15:05:29 · 16 answers · asked by littlewolf333 1 in Family

My boyrfriend is awsome. He has this ex.. i just recently started talking to her and now we're friends. they still talk which makes me uncomfertable cus i no she likes him.


is it normal that we're friends? my boyfriend dosnt think so..lol

2007-01-19 15:05:28 · 14 answers · asked by Sumer 2 in Singles & Dating