Family & Relationships - 19 January 2007

I'm already 32 and can't find a decent bf and I'm still a virgin..I want to have a family of my own and settle down. I know I'm not ugly and I think personality wise, Im a nice girl too but I'm just too shy.. Guys, what do you like most in a woman to the extent that you want to marry her?

2007-01-19 15:53:39 · 15 answers · asked by Macy 1 in Singles & Dating

My husband and I live with his mother. Well, his entire family hates and judges me. They even say things to hurt me. We are both disabled and can't afford to move right now. It's hard to be at peace with them when it is constantly in your face. Help?

2007-01-19 15:53:30 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I've been in a relationship with my bf for 3 months now, yet a friend of ours (G) seems to like me? Lately, G always seems to be hanging around me, purposely attempting to sit/stand/walk beside me, and a few times already he's either skipped classes or waited for 2 hours at least just so he could bus home with me. My bf and him aren't as good friends with him as I am, and so far, he hasn't really given any indication of doing anything, although he does seem a bit 'wary' and 'tense' when G's around.
My best friend was the first one to notice G's actions, which seems to have increased/intensified slightly ever since my bf and I showed up about 2 months ago together. I really don't want to confront him though...so should I be thinking about avoiding or distancing myself from G? Or should I just leave things as they are...
Any suggestions would be appreciated!

2007-01-19 15:53:12 · 2 answers · asked by Crystal 2 in Singles & Dating

how does it feel swinging ANYONE TRY BEFORE thinkin bout wit husband and suggestions?????

2007-01-19 15:53:07 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i feel like i am being left out in my clique because:
1)for band trip we can only have four to a room and there is five in my room and i got 'kicked out'
2)one of the girls in my clique(the one that i'm having problems with) put everyone in her heroes place on her myspace but me, and she has me last on her top friendsl.
3)if there is someone more popular than i am , she ditches me to talk to them

i basically just feel like she is alienating me, why? i don't know.
and my whole clique isn't doing a thing about it, we all know it is an issue.. but nobody wants to talk about it.
what should i do?

2007-01-19 15:52:39 · 4 answers · asked by lala 1 in Friends

2007-01-19 15:52:11 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

WHAT DOES IT MEAN WHEN A GUY TELLS U THAT HE LOVES YOU WHEN HES NEVER MET ME YET? IVE BEEN TALKING TO THIS GUY ON THE PHONE- AND WE GET ALONG AND EVERYTHING AND LAST NIGHT HE TOLD ME HE LOVED ME- I DIDNT KNOW WHAT TO SAY- IS HE MENTAL OR WHAT?
IM 27 AND HES 24- HES IN THE AIRFORCE
THIS IS REALLY BUGGING ME - I NEED ADVICE


THANKS PPL:):):):)

2007-01-19 15:52:02 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i don't really like sugar or candy. i don't consider myself weird, i'm not like a health freak or anything but i just don't like sugary foods/ sweets. what's a good present for someone like me for valentine's day?

p.s.- don't tell me i'm weird and why don't i like sweets. i don't know why, i just don't

2007-01-19 15:50:46 · 20 answers · asked by Shanequa 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-19 15:49:59 · 16 answers · asked by sunnydays 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-19 15:49:49 · 20 answers · asked by DOMINATUS 3 in Singles & Dating

why is it that a lot of men think it's okay to freeload off of women these days? We feed, clothe, and support most all of their needs, and yet they refuse to hold jobs and to help with kids, bills, and household work. What has changed so much in the past 30-40 years?

2007-01-19 15:49:21 · 11 answers · asked by niki h 2 in Marriage & Divorce

If not, which one goes out first? How far in advance should they go out? Any other detail regarding stationery things would be wonderful! I think this confuses me the most! Thanks!

2007-01-19 15:49:20 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

Well guys, I mentioned couple of months ago that I was dating this girl who broke up with her boyfriend a month prior to our dating. We dated for 2months. She told me that she was done with her ex, that was why I continued in my pursuit and thought she and I had something together. She later told me that she is going to try working it out again with her ex to see if things might work. I am completely distraught. I feel used. I dont know where to go from here. Guys what should I do? I hate this feeling. I wish it can go away, but it still stays.

2007-01-19 15:48:34 · 11 answers · asked by hey101 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok, I like this guy and I want to ask him out, but he is my best friends x, and my other bffs x crush but, they both said it was alright if I ask him but im not sure if she is really true or if she is mad at me for it. i need some advice please.!

2007-01-19 15:48:32 · 7 answers · asked by brie m 2 in Singles & Dating

I often fantasize about white men. My family prefers me to date a black man because I have two children who are African -American. I know that I want what's best for my kids but I have these thoughts of wanting and loving the right white man for me and my kids. I have had this attraction for white men for years but never acted on it.

2007-01-19 15:46:59 · 37 answers · asked by simplybeautiful4u 1 in Singles & Dating

this kid im babysitting need A pill by his parents and idk if i should give it to him like i was told too.

2007-01-19 15:46:46 · 10 answers · asked by Stiverson. 2 in Friends

ME??? How come they don't want to get to know me? The only thing they do is STARE and check me out 24/7 and give me a shy smile. Than they go to their friends and say "I'll hit it" bluh bluh bluh.. WTF? Why not approach me? Get to know me? Introduce themselves to me? If they never do that, how the hell do they think they could get some?

2007-01-19 15:45:38 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok i like this boy...his friends told me he said he likes me...but he never returns my messages or anything....im so confused what should i do? o yeah his friends dont even know that i ever liked him or talked to him even...so it has got to be true so he does talk about me to them...i dont know if i should give up or keep liking him if he never talks to me...

2007-01-19 15:44:52 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Okay. I met someone online about 2 and 1/2 years ago. Hes 17 and I'm a few years younger than him. Our relationship has been getting more serious, like he says "I love you" and I say it back. We even call eachother and have been on the phone for up to an hour and a half. Things have only really gotten serious within the last month but lately he seems distant. Like when I IM him he doesn't talk much which is weird since he usually talks a lot. And when I call him, he always seems busy. At first he was needy by saying "I love you" every 5 minutes and I admit, I wasn't crazy about that. I do love him but it seems like I'm 2005's news, long forgotten. Any advice?

2007-01-19 15:44:51 · 3 answers · asked by punkontheinside04 2 in Singles & Dating

i gotta admit it is pretty damn tough because i get the feeling holding and just kissing him but i have to tame myself.....

2007-01-19 15:44:41 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i dont know why ever since i got into highschool i changed alot, i put on more makeup when i go to school and i used to not care so much about my looks, and i didnt always put makeup on but now its like i cant go out without it and its like its so important to me to look good. and i just dont know, ever since i met a kind of slutty friend and i hang with her i start doing things like her, i flirt with guys talk dirty and act like a sl.ut at times. what is wrong with me?! cant i just be like that clean, nice, normal, girl i used to be then giving myself so easly and acting like am guys playtoy? i wasnt like this before, what is wrong with me? how do i truly be myself again?

2007-01-19 15:44:09 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

he starres n smiles at me all the time

2007-01-19 15:43:33 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Well, a month ago, my ex broke up with me because weve only known each other since the beginning of the school year and he felt we were rushing and it was awkward between us. At first, i had a faint thought that he might have possibly had feelings for someone else after we broke up, but then i went to his house for his birthday today, and we went into his bedroom and we made it to at least 2nd base. Now idk what to think, because he would have invited the other girl if he really liked her, and he only invited me. Do you think that he still likes me? I still have feelings for him too... what should i do?

2007-01-19 15:43:05 · 7 answers · asked by ♥♪♫[K]ath² [BUTT '14 ツ]♫♪♥™ 6 in Singles & Dating

Everyone knows that people think falling for someone too fast is not a good thing...what about those people that date for years and never get there or get there and soon relationship demises? I mean can you know you feel something about someone within a couple months?

2007-01-19 15:43:00 · 3 answers · asked by Paws * 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-19 15:42:33 · 6 answers · asked by Bambi 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-19 15:42:29 · 6 answers · asked by hottie15 1 in Singles & Dating

Alright, so theres a girl in my school who i met this year. We were, i would say good friends ever since then. We danced once or twice at our homecoming (we did not however go together), and i have "noticed" her in a liking way (she's pretty fine). She liked someone else though, and i didn't mind cause we're good friends and stuff, and i tried to help her with him. However, she told me that she decided to stop liking him, and i immediately thought something had happed(he rejected her), although i did not talk to her about it. Now we're still friends, but i don't see her as much in school anymore. Subsequently we dont talk as much. whenever i do see her, she seems kinda sulky, but shes still the same person (not emo). She asked one of her other friends to turnabout as a friend(at least i think so), but now i think im falling for her. What should i do?

2007-01-19 15:42:28 · 8 answers · asked by ZeRo 1 in Singles & Dating

How do u french kiss? Ive done it but i sucked. So what do you do with ur teeth and wut do you do when they suck on ure lip?

2007-01-19 15:41:45 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We really don't want too much emphasis on it because we don't want it to be a sad time. However, we would like to include some mention of him. Also, how do we word the invitations/announcements? (My parents are both alive and are still married, his mom is not remarried) Thank you so much!

2007-01-19 15:41:39 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

Their is this boy named Garet he rides my bus,i realy like him but he is my friend to!Should i ask him out or just stay friends?

2007-01-19 15:41:03 · 16 answers · asked by yogo_5 1 in Singles & Dating