why is it that a lot of men think it's okay to freeload off of women these days? We feed, clothe, and support most all of their needs, and yet they refuse to hold jobs and to help with kids, bills, and household work. What has changed so much in the past 30-40 years?
2007-01-19 15:49:21 · 11 answers · asked by niki h 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Women have done it to the men!
WE created these little monsters!
WE are natural problem solvers, detailed oriented,
and care-givers.
Most of us can't kill that maternal instinct.
So, we wait on the men, in patient silence, until we "have them" then, we wonder why they are not waiting on us, the supposed
LOVE OF their lives!!!!
Do you see the same picture I do??????
T'aint right!
MOTHERS! Please Teach your daughters differently!!!!
(Please know you are not alone!!!)
2007-01-19 15:58:31 · answer #1 · answered by susieque 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Men do that because there are alot of stupid women out there that would do it. I cant believe the stuff I read about how women get treated, but if they let themselves someone is going to take advantage of them.I am not like that I was working since I was 13 and do not need a woman to feed me ,clothe me, or take care of me.
2007-01-20 00:03:53 · answer #2 · answered by lasdoom 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Besides Womens lib.. not much other then that.. but , alot of the time the problem is we make a huge mistake in the beginning.. in the beginning of playing "house" stage of our relationship we are giddy and we tend to do alot for our man, wait on him hand a foot , do the laundry, cook, take care of the kids whatever the case, then after awhile we notice that they've become lazy.. well duh.. it was bound to happen because we let them be for so long that now they've gotten use to being pampered and now were getting sick of it.. so alot of the time its our own faults for not expecting more of them from the get go..
2007-01-20 00:01:31 · answer #3 · answered by brwneyedgrl 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I blame it on their mothers. A lot of men are coddled by their mom's their whole life and dont learn how to take care of themselves. so they look for a woman that is going to baby them the way their mother did. if it werent for women, men would be swinging in trees eating berries.
2007-01-20 00:00:12 · answer #4 · answered by mikowensmom 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Acquired laziness is onset of depression. He thought he was getting someone who would continue to make them feel important, show they wanted him and, .....what they mostly forget, is showing she wants to be wanted by him,,,,like flirting. being sexually aggressive, negligee, perfume, etc.....not just more of the same. not an increased intensity of the same. Getting meals etc.helps but it is the very personal tings that build the really wonderful close deeply heartfelt love.
2007-01-20 00:12:07 · answer #5 · answered by syrious 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
A real man and husband will work and support his wife and family.... My husband is a great worker and supporter and he helps around the house too... We as wives should love and honor and respect our husbands and help them and be great home keepers and encourage them to work and be all they can be.
2007-01-20 00:09:49 · answer #6 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because alot of me have gotten selfish and only think about themselves and expect their wives to do everything they want, and don't want to lift a finger to do anything to help.
I'm ashamed to say that I was like that, that I was selfish and only thought about myself, and wasn't putting my wife and her feelings and needs before my own.
Thankfully things have changed. Now she comes first, I put her and her feelings and needs well before my own. And if I do think of myself before her, I feel guilty.
2007-01-20 00:24:53 · answer #7 · answered by Bryan M 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
can't answer the question for the guys you have ran across TN, but my man does all those things...but not alone, we do them together...
we divide chores and responsibility according to who is "better" at that job...
for ex: I'm better at cooking, he's better at managing the money, I do a better job at washing dishes, he's better at cleaning the bathrooms...
I don't support him, and he doesn't support me...
it's a give and take thing for most...
2007-01-19 23:59:00 · answer #8 · answered by Khandi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The elimination of shame.
2007-01-20 00:00:33 · answer #9 · answered by doggybag300 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Liar. And don't take my lake of desire or energy to answer as Lazy.
2007-01-19 23:55:36 · answer #10 · answered by John Rambo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋