I'm already 32 and can't find a decent bf and I'm still a virgin..I want to have a family of my own and settle down. I know I'm not ugly and I think personality wise, Im a nice girl too but I'm just too shy.. Guys, what do you like most in a woman to the extent that you want to marry her?
2007-01-19 15:53:39 · 15 answers · asked by Macy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
most guys want two women, one he can be proud of and one he can get wild with. Being a virgin at 32 says you have character, morals, and a sense of self worth! Good Going! Shyness is hard to deal with though. It most often comes off looking like superiority. Guys like girls who like them (we are kinda dumb). If you can try to be less shy, it will change everything. Tomorrow, start studying the teams that are going to the Superbowl. Learn the quarterbacks on both teams, and how many games they have won. The next time you want to talk to a guy, ask him which team he thinks will win.
2007-01-19 16:05:14 · answer #1 · answered by T C 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Intelligence, sure men like to chat up a sleazey loose gal at a bar but they don't want to take her to the folks house for holiday meals. And health, men want a woman who is a challenge, fun to be around, (and can ride them breathless when it gets around to that). Of course having long hair, a pretty smile and a killer body never hurts, but that just gets the initial attention, it doesn't give a woman "holding" power. There are plenty of women out there who are single with kids who found that out. Don't just settle for anything male, shop around, although I suspect you have been pretty picky all this time, or blind to everyone who has tried to intrest you in going out?
2007-01-19 16:01:44 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your reason is that you're too shy. If you're not approachable, what do you expect? And, most guys like to get to know a woman for quite some time before they even think of marriage. Some of us never think of marriage. That subject, brought up too soon, is what drives us away...which is probably another reason why you can't get guys. You're waaaaaay to serious and uptight about not being married. Loosen up, lady!
2007-01-19 15:57:43 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should really let loose your shyness, being shy keeps people from having fun soemtimes and just enjoy life..... I think that you should join some classes.... like dance. or something else..... join a club or something and search somewhere within the club/course. If it's a matter of tust and protection against bad people that may hurt you then getting to know popele at some course/class is a good idea.
2007-01-19 15:59:08 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Couple of hints Hun. First of all when you meet a guy DO NOT mention serious commitment within the first 4 months. You are sure to send him packing. 2nd try dressing a bit sexy. Let him see what he can get if he waits. 3rd Consider not waiting. Most men in their 30's don't want to wait to get married b4 sex. Good luck
2007-01-19 16:00:32 · answer #5 · answered by pjvthatsme 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're innocence is the most desired thing man will want. Just try not to be so shy. Shoot you're the second women who have posted something like this, where can I find a girl like this?
2007-01-19 16:05:27 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Join some organizations or church groups where you're likely to find someone with the same values that you have.
I always love it when someone divorces or breaks up with someone because "he's an alchoholic" or "he drinks too much"; well, where did you meet him? "In a bar." DUH. If you want a giraffe, don't go where the elephant herd hangs out and bring home an elephant, and then complain because you don't have a giraffe. Go where the giraffes are.
2007-01-19 16:01:54 · answer #7 · answered by Autumn R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what aria do you live in, I'm only 24 but I am also frustrated with the selection of girlfriends that I find, I defiantly want kids someday but have not found a girl that I think would be a good mother that I could also love. email me :)
2007-01-19 18:23:56 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey i'm worried i might get to be an old made too but it's not too late for ya hon, just be thankfull right now your not doing laundry for 5, cleanin up baby puke, and slavin over a hot stove for your husband that works all day and comes home to eat and sleep.
2007-01-19 15:58:41 · answer #9 · answered by shine_on 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to be a *****... it works for me. Live your own life and have fun... go out. Do things for YOU... Dont worry about finding a MAN. Find yourself... gain confidence and be secure in yourself.
2007-01-19 15:58:48 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋