I often fantasize about white men. My family prefers me to date a black man because I have two children who are African -American. I know that I want what's best for my kids but I have these thoughts of wanting and loving the right white man for me and my kids. I have had this attraction for white men for years but never acted on it.
2007-01-19 15:46:59 · 37 answers · asked by simplybeautiful4u 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Nothing wrong with it. Opposites attract. I do the same in reverse. But, don't bring your kids into your fantasies. It's not fair to them or the guy. Just let that be your thing and leave your kids to have their natural father as their male role model.
2007-01-19 15:49:28 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
That's kind of shady and I would consider it a fetish that may or may not be caused by brainwashing of some sort. It depends on the person. If I fantasize about a white woman it's a specific white woman that I'm trying to sleep with. I don't fantasize about getting it in with celebrities or famous models. That would be torture for me because it's never going to happen. I keep my fantasies realistic and I try to make them happen in realtime.
2016-05-23 23:39:32 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure! It's something that you have tried before. Curiosity sometimes kills the cat.
Black men are good lovers because most are handsomely endowed. A white man may treat you better because Black Women are sweeter and hey may appreciate you more.
In a nutshell my mother always said "Son, you never know what you can do until you try". I've had both black and white women. There definitely is a difference. But I love 'em both because I know how to treat women, RIGHT!
IT'S HARD to say what you have been used to. You may find the white men entertaining but unless they have money you'd better stick with your own race. Yha's where you'll probably end up with after all your trials and tribulations. Black men..
2007-01-19 16:02:53 · answer #3 · answered by BadBill 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hey it is normal to think of others. You just have to know that your family can not live your life for you. Love does not know what age or race is. I have thought about black women alot, but have just never found the right one. I say go and do what you think is best for you and your kids.
2007-01-19 16:01:03 · answer #4 · answered by ckingfun 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, not normal at all. LOL. All joking aside, if you really think your kids would be better off with you dating a white man, thats kind of racist, but it is your right. You should do what you think is best for your children before you do what's best for you. However, if you live in an all-black neighborhood, than dating a white man might cause the children trouble at school. If you still have this fantasy, live it out in secret (i.e. out of town) and your children should have no ill effects from the community. Either way, good luck.
2007-01-19 15:53:11 · answer #5 · answered by Jopo Lugo 2 · 0⤊ 3⤋
Perhaps, to put this nicely as possible, you are disappointed with the single black men available today. I saw a show where successful black women go to a social club to meet successful white men for dating because they cannot find any successful black men to date.
My wife is cuban and I am british. We have gotten along GREAT for 30 years now. When my son was a baby, people thought I was taking care of my housekeepers baby.
2007-01-19 15:55:05 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
There's nothing wrong with dating white men. You find a good one he can be just as loving to you and your kids as a black man could. You should try it. Trust me.. I know ;)
2007-01-19 15:52:19 · answer #7 · answered by Blah..... 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Im a white male an i fantasize about black girls but i've never been with one yes it is narmal or what is normal lets meet
2007-01-19 16:02:38 · answer #8 · answered by jonystahl 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I know all of society is not on board, but if you and your kids can work throught it, do what makes YOU happy...it's your life too!
I'm a white guy, and I've never dated a white girl. I'm totally into latin women, and married one 10 years ago...NO regrets.
2007-01-19 15:53:46 · answer #9 · answered by Voice_Of_Reason 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Funny you should say that cos ,and you wont believe this but I have the same thing going for me but I fantasize about black girls. We must get together and sort it all out.
2007-01-19 15:56:30 · answer #10 · answered by topman1949 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋