Family & Relationships - 19 January 2007

and he puts them up on his myspace? ugh sluts.

2007-01-19 16:06:14 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

this guy and i were together a while ago and we broke up...since then i've decided i don't just wanna have sex until i'm married..i already have a daughter and i don't wanna risk having another child and not being married....he is always begging me...his friends make fun of me bc of it...and the more they talk about it the more he pisses me off! i told him about this when we first got back together...so am i mean or is he the ***?

2007-01-19 16:05:46 · 12 answers · asked by tikidae25 1 in Singles & Dating

my boyfriend is white and I'm mixed but look black. He's okay with our relationship and so am I and my family, but I'm worried about his. I asked him how his family would react to this and he said that his dad and his brothers wouldn't care, but that his mother would. I met one of his brothers and they seemed to just kinda brush me off in a sense and didn't make eye contact with me. Am i being paranoid and how should i go about this whole thing with his family?

2007-01-19 16:05:40 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I left my husband b/c i wasnt happy. He was very mean and controlling. Now that im gone he wants to make it all better by going to counseling and bringing me flowers and calling me 100 or more times a day to tell me he loves me and we're going to be ok.
I have told him over and over that i dont think we have a chance and dont want to go to counseling or any of the vacations he has also planned for us.

i am not cold hearted we went through this last year and i heard the same things. i tried it but no there was no change in behavior. I feel like i gave it my all but he says that this is the last chance and if he messes it up he'll leave me alone. i dont believe it. it wont be over to him until he decides its time.

what should i do? i dont want to go back to him but feel guilty like im not giving 100%, but dont want to give anything b/c im just tired of it. im done but he doesnt get it.

2007-01-19 16:05:35 · 14 answers · asked by Miranda 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I guess I'm just tired of seeing women getting there hearts crushed when Mr. Football/Jock boy plays her. Why don't they ever go for the nice guys?

BTW..I'm not single, I've found someone very special to me. But I guess I'm just tired of seeing this trend.

2007-01-19 16:04:47 · 23 answers · asked by Greg S 3 in Singles & Dating

my boyfriend is a virgen and so am i but he wants to have sex with me for the first time. and im a virgen and i want to but i dont know how it would feel or how i would react or become sexually active or sumthing so we both want to but he kinda pressures me a little what do i do?

2007-01-19 16:03:51 · 25 answers · asked by cool girl 1 in Singles & Dating

my exgirlfriend is 19 and recently started university and I am 36 work full time.
On 3rd January she split with me.
Over the 2 years we had a very good relationship.
I pretty much accused her of having an affair with a friend of ours in July.
In December she rang me to say she was worried that she had a hepatitus and whilst on the phone her voice started to quiver (worried she was going to die), the best I could say is 'I hope its not an excuse not to see my mum and dad'. She said this was the last straw.
Since weve split up, she stopped saying she loves me and stopped having sex, weve stopped sleeping together as she says that i see it as romantic and she sees it as friends (although a few days ago she slept with me in her lingerie).
She says she is determined to fall out of love with me because being in love with me hurts.
We text each other every day and on very good terms.
I am starting counciling (which she knows) because I have suffered from lack of trust for years.

2007-01-19 16:03:36 · 17 answers · asked by John 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I have known him for 31 years but we now live in different states, about an hour and 30 minutes apart. We re~connected thru emails and he says he can't wait to see me. I sent him my phone number. He has yet to follow thru with getting together, and has never called me. When I ask him questions he avoids answering me, but he still emails me. Also, he has been in my area several times but has not tried to get in touch with me. What should I do? Should I send him an email and tell him to make a move towards seeing me or calling me? I'm afraid if I get too demanding that I will scare him off completely. He was my first love.

2007-01-19 16:03:35 · 5 answers · asked by vfstardust 3 in Singles & Dating

We didn't have his address or any contact with him for 10 years and now all of sudden he's interested in the kids, and telling me we should have been talking all this time about the kids. He visited recently, with gifts for the kids, (also first time in 10 years) took them out for dinner, and then invited me out to go also. I declined for myself but let kids go. He also told me he and last jealous girlfriend of 3 years of his had split six months ago. So, am I paranoid or is the guy trying to check out if I am available? he also leaned over to hug me as he was leaving our house. I was stunned and just sat there like a block of stone. We had loved deeply in the past ( married 10 years) and had a bitter divorce. What do you think is his motive?

2007-01-19 16:03:13 · 4 answers · asked by Rose R 1 in Singles & Dating

boy problems help!!!!!!!!!!

2007-01-19 16:03:10 · 1 answers · asked by lvr grl 1 in Singles & Dating

it is very erotic to kiss another girl, letting go of all inhibitions and indulging in the heat of the moment. There is absolutely nothing like it, except of course, going to the next level.

So guys, why do you find it so exciting to watch two girls kissing each other? This kind of thing is all over the Internet and is very common to see nowadays. Is it because of all the exposure that makes this a turn on for you?

And girls, have you enjoyed the exhilarating pleasure of an erotic and sensual kiss from another girl?

xoxo
Betty

2007-01-19 16:03:06 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-19 16:02:24 · 18 answers · asked by asianator14 4 in Singles & Dating

There is this girl i like, and she said she is kind of into me too. But she has a boyfriend. Then one day she asked me if i still liked her or not and i said ya, and she said she is thinking about breaking up with her boyfriend and then i would go out with her. I dont know how long it is going to take. My question is "should i stay single until she breaks up with her boyfriend or should i be seeing more girls, because it could take a long time"

2007-01-19 16:02:09 · 10 answers · asked by The Reason 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-19 16:01:41 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I like this girl, but i feel like she is using me. I don't know for certain. I could be just being paraniod. Anyway, I can I make sure she doesn't start using me? I can I handle her so she can respect me more and contribute her part to the friendship? I wanna keep her but I need to show her I ain't no free ride. For the record, she is in high school and don't have a job.

2007-01-19 16:01:39 · 3 answers · asked by teryl2930308 1 in Singles & Dating

I love my baby to death and I really want to make him happy. I need advice on making this night as romantic as possible. I want it to be special for him and me. Please help. I'm open to anything. Thanks.

2007-01-19 16:00:53 · 15 answers · asked by lokzmariposa 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-19 16:00:41 · 12 answers · asked by asianator14 4 in Singles & Dating

Or is that just me. oh and i dont mean by strangers.

2007-01-19 16:00:29 · 42 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I dont know what to do or if i should even get involved. my bf he does some drugs an gets high with his friends and im scared for his health.i dont do drugs. he told me that he tried to stop but he is idicted. he also refuses for me to be by him whne he is high b/c he doent want me to see him like that.

also i am scared for his grades b/c we just got done with finials and he said that he didnt even take a couple of them b/c they wouldnt help his grade, he can be productive when he wants to be and he treats me great and i just want him to get somewhere in life , i try telling him to go to school more he just doesnt listen , im not his mom so im not gonna sit around and lecture him. he has a job so he must be able to work hard, im not gonna go dump him either, cause as i see it is that if god can except him then who am i to complain???

im just concerned, what can i do to help him???

2007-01-19 16:00:29 · 8 answers · asked by carebear_destroyer 4 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-19 15:59:55 · 7 answers · asked by DOMINATUS 3 in Friends

We decided to take I break. So..... What does that really mean? In my opinion It's either your with someone or your not.

2007-01-19 15:59:51 · 6 answers · asked by cam1560 3 in Singles & Dating

how dp people thinh about the new aged women who doesnt help around the house because they dont think they should have to do "womens work" but at the same time wonts men to treat them like princesse? It seems to me there is a new double standarded that has nothing to do with equality but women use this arguement to deflect responsibility and fairness in relationships and life.

2007-01-19 15:59:01 · 7 answers · asked by jessica 1 in Singles & Dating

What is your ideal size for a female? Do more men like the skinny little 00 hoes or do ya'll prefer a girl with some curves say like a size 7 or a 9? Or do you prefer pleasantly plump women?

2007-01-19 15:58:39 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

That I *** way too much. How can I help her deal with my heavy load?

2007-01-19 15:57:57 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i've been dating him for like 8 days but idk if i should hug him hard or soft like a friend... please help

2007-01-19 15:57:27 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

when the see my 10 inch c*ck. What can I do to help the get past the size.

2007-01-19 15:56:42 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

that will win your heart every time?

2007-01-19 15:56:28 · 10 answers · asked by svmainus 7 in Singles & Dating

over the last 4 yrs, since separation began, She has done well to take care of my children's basic needs. I do not question that. Unfortunately she has not done much else for/with them.

She moved into an apt when we separated with the kids. She moved in with her present boyfriend in the middle of my daughter's Jr K yr. They stayed there for the last 2 yrs Then moved 45 minutes away this last September. Now she is telling me they might be going 2000 miles west in July.

My major issue is not that she is moving the kids around. My major issue is that these kids are not maintaining any social contacts. My ex has moved from a town where she has support from both of our families. She has moved to a town where she lives in an apt building with no yard, in a town where she knows only her sister and myself. These kids have little stability and their support network is getting smaller and more strained.

The ex is also making no effort to help the situation.

2007-01-19 15:56:22 · 13 answers · asked by Eric E 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-19 15:55:44 · 13 answers · asked by ifah21 1 in Friends

with the hottest cheerleader at my school. Now she says I hurt her cookie so bad, she cant ever be with another man. What can I do to stop her?

2007-01-19 15:55:16 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating