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Question

I like this girl, but i feel like she is using me. I don't know for certain. I could be just being paraniod. Anyway, I can I make sure she doesn't start using me? I can I handle her so she can respect me more and contribute her part to the friendship? I wanna keep her but I need to show her I ain't no free ride. For the record, she is in high school and don't have a job.

Answer 1

if you feel that she using you, then stop all the goodies then you
will see once and for all what going on with her, but if you are doing everything for her and she doing nothing in return then
that may be your fault if you are allowing it, it als maybe
a factor that she still in school. what the ages of you and her'that
could also be a big factor, if you are the older one and she underage she may feel that you should do this for her,

Answer 2

Time will tell.

There's no guarantees and no way to tell up front how a relationship will work out. If you could come up with a formula or a test for that, you'd be a very rich man! One thing though... if a man approached me with an "attitude" of "I ain't no free ride", I would be offended; I'm not a stray dog looking for a home, and I'm not looking for a free ride. So hit the road, Jack. How do I know you don't just want to "use" me???

Answer 3

If she has done things that makes u question her motives if she is using u or not..looking back to your history with her decide whether or not she has used you..but if you are just the type of guy who thinks everyone out there is to get you..u need to have some soul search and try to find a way to just chill out have fun give it some times..and as far as her being in highschool with no job does not make a person to use others..she is in highschool does not make her guilty..she has no job maybe because she is too busy studying and doing her home work don’t want to be distracted by working