Why do women continue to fall in love with *******....when REAL men are all around them?

Question

I guess I'm just tired of seeing women getting there hearts crushed when Mr. Football/Jock boy plays her. Why don't they ever go for the nice guys?

BTW..I'm not single, I've found someone very special to me. But I guess I'm just tired of seeing this trend.

Answer 1

Women just love a challenge! The bad boy will always be more appealing to some women! They seem to find their self worth in being able to tame Mr. Wild. The problem is that they always find out that while they were chasing bad boy, they let a real man slip right through their fingers! I never could understand gals like this! Give me a family man any day! They are the real heroes in our society! Our society has glorified the bad guy and not given enough glory to the family man! I hope this trend will be reversed soon!

Answer 2

You hear this all the time. And will for much longer. Its about genetics and the need to reproduce. Women generally try to reproduce with the strongest most veril and aggressive member of a group. The "Alpha male". This insures the passage of her DNA as well as continuation of the species. "Nice guys", dispite this cultures feminized pc viewpoint, are just not as attractive on a primal sexual level. This is why you guys end up trapped in the "friend-zone" while the "*******" score. You can't fight genetics. Good news is that while sexually attracted to the "Alpha", most females recognize his ability only as a sex partner; therfore a "nice guy" is the choice for a life mate. Downside-they still may end up cheating with an "Alpha", and you guys are too nice to do anything about it...

Answer 3

Most of us men gave up on ideal females in 7th grade. Going further, any female approaching such a category will not doubt expect much more than kindness from any man who approaches her. Men look at women sexually, but the vast majority of us do not expect, nor are we looking for, any ideal woman. She does not exist. So we already couple with real women, not the fake, plastic surgery, silicone enhanced women some of you women choose to be. And speaking of objects, you ladies have your expectations as well. We are all supposed to be generous, handsome, tall, built like Greek statue, rich, and uncompromisingly devoted to you - simply because you are female. And for those of us who fall short, we are not enough for many of you ladies But what's with the connection you make with the end of multi-nation corporations?

Answer 4

well for one thing girls always fill like they are in love andususally they arent. they fill like if this guy will go out with me then oh we are ment for eack other and it will last, they see what they want to see in a guy they dont look at what they truly are, they think this is the only person to love them and if they break up then they will never have another chance with someone cause that is the only one for them, i got hurt cause that is what hid me from what he truly was,and that was mean, he wasnt the guy for me and some day i hope to find some one, and also ususlly girls just make a disition out of looks. i hate to say it but yea, some girls dont look for the nice guys they just see what people look like and if they are not as atractive then its already a no and they dont give anyone a chance.

Answer 5

Because women are stupid and trust men.

That's why.

He says he loves only her. So the girl believes him.
He says he will respect her and check with her before he sees other girls (friends). She believes him.
He tells his main group of friends that he is really into her. They welcome her as part of the group. So she believes him.

But when he is by himself, he does things he later lies about, and it takes the girl months to find out the truth as he is even not telling his main group of friends what he is doing.

So then the girl feels like **** and gets crushed.
Then she says to herself, I'm not doing this relationship thing seriously anymore and then decides to only date a**holes on purpose as at least then she knows what to expect and tells herself she won't get hurt.

Sometimes a girl gets lucky and find a really good guy. Just sometimes.

Answer 6

I think it is the thrill of the chase sometimes. Sometimes a woman feels more worthy when the hard to get guy finally wakes up and realizes what a gem he has. Unfortunately those types of guys don't realize until it is way too late. Fortunately we women seem to mature out of that for the most part.

Answer 7

I don't think this is a trend... has been going on since the beginning of time and men will be asking this same question for thousands of years to come.......

Answer 8

hi i there i think its because lots look for love the right person and with heaps of marrages falling apart that dont help as well the old saying is "it takes two for love to work" allso ppl change in life when 2 meet its fun love sweet times but its people who let things change with time offten one changers mostly bad starts then as we see ladys get hurt badly guys dont care anymore they loook for others it starts allover again thats sad reallly cose thers lots of good ppl ladys out there just be more carfull with the guys they fall in love with, we all hope its love forever but sadly its not happening annymore with lots of ppl then its back to the reasons again sadly one big game.

Answer 9

I did this very same thing. My marriage couselor said it was because I couldn't change my dad's behaviour so I thought I could take someone just like him and change him out of love. By the way, we're divorced now

Answer 10

your putting this only on women... how come "the nice guys" fall in love with the meanest bitches??... it goes the same way for each sex... its never been answered and i doubt it ever will be... but some men who claim to be the nice ones arent nice at all, but before women see it they have "fallin in love".... i dont know what kind of lover would treat you like that but to each his own i suppose...