There is this girl i like, and she said she is kind of into me too. But she has a boyfriend. Then one day she asked me if i still liked her or not and i said ya, and she said she is thinking about breaking up with her boyfriend and then i would go out with her. I dont know how long it is going to take. My question is "should i stay single until she breaks up with her boyfriend or should i be seeing more girls, because it could take a long time"
2007-01-19 16:02:09 · 10 answers · asked by The Reason 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If its going to take a long time, then see other girls.
2007-01-19 16:11:18 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you answered your own question. She is kind of into you, and she has a boyfriend. she is only thinking about breaking up with her boyfriend. Go ahead and date, you need to live life too. If you really like this other girl, just have fun and don't make any commitments. How long are you willing to wait? Until you are an old man? Sweetie life is too short, enjoy it while you can.
2007-01-20 00:17:20 · answer #2 · answered by myninny54 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't know how long it will take, go out and start casually dating...nothing serious just go out and meet new people. You may find someone your into who is single, if not you might have passed enough time for her to get her situation in order. If you can't wait, tell her that your going to start casually dating, because you can't wait around forever...it might speed her process up, knowing your not going to stand by the sidelines waiting forever. In my opinion, if she doesn't dump him after a few days no more than a week, move on cause obviously she is too unsure about leaving her boyfriend.
2007-01-20 00:13:14 · answer #3 · answered by artgirl11 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should tell her that you don't think she should be serious with the guy if she is not engaged and that if she went on a date with you it would be just that. That while you don't beleive in promiscuity, you want women to have the freedom of enjoying their before marriage lives as you do and would not dream of infringing upon that. That you can see if she just doesn't feel like dating anyone else, and understand, but if she isn't sure she isn't serious and should go on a date with you. You are sure her friend will understand and would not want to dominate her dance card.
In the mean time, if you feel like going on a date with someone else, go!
2007-01-20 00:12:07 · answer #4 · answered by Heather 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would be leary of someone who is willing to leave someone else for me. You would not like to be in this guy's shoes. I just don't feel someone would be very committed and honest with me if she leaves another guy on a whim. That's a bad pattern. I say don't wait for her. You'll have your chance at a brief relationship with her later... just don't hurry that day.
2007-01-20 00:12:16 · answer #5 · answered by Larry 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She shows that she would dump her boyfriends for any other guy. It shows that she thinks about other guys and is willing to ditch her bf for new ones. Forget about her and just move on.
2007-01-20 00:10:09 · answer #6 · answered by Megan C 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it not my right to choose..but..if i were u..i would leave..
if tiz gurl keeps on asking u to wait u would be wastin ur love life..
i girl is worth waiting for but..
she has a boyfriend..
i suggest u talk to her..
ask her who she likes more..
or..u could do nothing..
and wait n wait n wait...
2007-01-20 00:07:34 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends, if she keep choosing him over you, just let it go, and move on. you can hold your breathe for so long
2007-01-20 00:07:30 · answer #8 · answered by Lost Drifter 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I DON'T SEE ANY HARM IN YOUR DATING OTHER GIRLS WHILE SHE IS STILL DATING HIM.
2007-01-20 00:06:36 · answer #9 · answered by vfstardust 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
JUST GO FOR THE KILL AND REMEMBER LABOR WILL COME
2007-01-20 00:04:56 · answer #10 · answered by chickaa 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋