Well, im only 14 years old and I have this friend who is a boy. He came over last weekend and my 2 other friends were here that are girls. We were having fun and just hangin out like we did before. Now, this boy has a girlfriend, but he talked to her that day about coming to my house and she was fine with it. That night, me and him ended up sleeping in the same bed. I guess his girlfriend found out about that and she was really mad. She is still mad at me, but not him. I mean, it wasnt just me; He went to bed with me at the same time. Nothing happened, were just friends, but everyone says we would make a good couple, and he doesnt deny that. *Well, do you think that it is bad to sleep in the same bed with a boy if he has a girlfriend, even if your not going to do anything?* Ohh, and i like this boy. Please answer! Thank you
2007-01-19 15:08:28 · 20 answers · asked by Paige 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
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Where IS your mother???
2007-01-19 15:12:07 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
At the age of 14 you probably shouldn't be sleeping in the same bed as a boy......it doesn't look or sound good......as for the girlfriend, I wouldn't worry about it. It sounds like she's trying to start drama. Tell her to get over herself and move on.
2007-01-20 03:58:43 · answer #2 · answered by Bobbi L 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes ma'am its VERY bad!! Put yourself in her shoes, you wouldnt like it! Even though yall didnt do anything, its still a very ugly thing to do. And as far as her not being mad at him. It always works out that way. Unfortanely us "girlfriends" always want a reason to blame someone else for the problem. Leave him alone, and move on...You're young and you should be just having fun!
2007-01-19 15:14:29 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're to young to be sharing a bed with a boy..EVEN if you are not going to do anything...
But it was wrong of the two of you to do that...he has a gf...its not you...you shouldnt interfee in his relationship..its him and his gf..not you him and his gf...you can still be friends..but respect his gf...put yourself in her shoes...im sure you would be pretty mad if you found out your boy shared a bed with an other girl..even if all you's did in that bed was sleep.
2007-01-19 15:14:55 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You both were way out of line. You're only 14 !!!!. Where in the world were your parents?. This is innapropriate behavior until your an adult regardless if nothing happened. You need to learn self respect and common decency towards others and yourself. This type of behavior will only get you into trouble in due time.
2007-01-19 15:15:31 · answer #5 · answered by GTO 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
1st off your 14 yrs old even if nothing happened, that is not acceptable. 2nd yes if he has a g/f, thats not cool. you shouldnt get yourself caught up into liking a boy esp if he isnt intereste in you and esp you are young, why in the hell would you waste your time in even dating-the dumbest thing you will regret; you will get treated like **** because little boys dont know any better.
2007-01-19 15:13:28 · answer #6 · answered by j 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
umm it depends on the situation i suppose like for example if my girlfriend slept with one of my friends in bed then no cause i know that my friends would do anything but if it was a guy that i didnt know then yea i'd be a little pissed about it.
2007-01-19 15:14:50 · answer #7 · answered by thatguy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you knew he had a girlfriend so you had no right and should already know it's wrong why even ask? apologize to her and if you want to be with him have him dump her and don't sleep with anyone until your 25 and married the last thing youn need Kid is a baby
2007-01-19 15:16:36 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just put yourself in her shoes; you would not want your boyfriend sleeping in the same bed with another girl, right???
But since you like him so much...try not to get hurt yourself, huh?
2007-01-19 15:14:35 · answer #9 · answered by avechm 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That was wrong. You know your they were in a relationship and you went ahead and cross the line with him. You need to have integrity for yourself as a female. Dont do that to other females. You wouldnt want it done to you.
2007-01-19 15:15:45 · answer #10 · answered by lovehateleavestay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well. i thnk dis girl is just being a bit insecure.......
c'mon if u know dat nothing happened on de bed. theres nothin wrong...........
and i hate those kinda girls hu r very suspecious.........
chuck it out. if dis gurl continues acting in this way and if u think u like dat guy and even dat guy likes u .....den y dont u guys start getting along?
2007-01-19 15:15:42 · answer #11 · answered by weirdo!! 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋