he's in the army and i barely get to see him. he's leaving for iraq pretty soon and i'm going to college in august. i just feel like we don't have a future together even though we are trying. should i keep hope alive and continue to dream that we will be together even though i honestly don't know whether i believe that. are relationships supposed to be this hard?
2007-01-19 15:06:03 · 14 answers · asked by swtdrms 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
IF HES GOING TO IRAQ DON'T BREAK OFF WITH HIM THERE. YOU DON'T WANT HIM TO BE HURT , AND IF YOU DO BREAK OFF, HE WON'T CARE IF HE LIVES OR DIES. HE NEEDS TO HAVE A STRAIGHT HEAD ON HIS SHOULDER, AND BY BREAKING OFF WITH HIM BEFORE HE GOES , HES NOT GOING TO HAVE ONE. SO PLEASE DON'T. HOW WOULD YOU FEEL IF SOMETHING HAPPENS TO HIM WHEN HES OUT THERE FIGHTING FOR US ALL. WAIT UNTIL HE COMES HOME FOR GOOD . BUT UNTIL THEN DON'T.
2007-01-19 15:10:42 · answer #1 · answered by misty blue 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if your going to do it, do it now, not during his visit to Iraq, or right after his visit, watch jarhead if you want to know why, most relationships aren't easy, some are just harder than others, what you feel is natural, but yea, life does get hard sometimes, youll make the right choice
2007-01-19 23:11:58 · answer #2 · answered by Chris G 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That's a tough one. because you don't want him to go off to Iraq with a broken heart you want him to have a reason to come back, but on the other hand it is not fair to lead him on. I say go to college and have fun learn all you can let him go to war thinking you still are together, maybe you are just scared of losing him in the war. You have got a tough one here you are damned if you do and damned if you don't. follow your heart on this one.
2007-01-19 23:13:36 · answer #3 · answered by kissybertha 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Relationships don't have to be hard but sometimes the relationship has to be tested... I think you have to try hard to stay together don't get me wrong I didn't say stay with your b/f if your not happy but I think you need to talk to him about he situation... This must be really hard for you but the most important thing you both need to do is be honest with you.
Good Luck
2007-01-19 23:12:50 · answer #4 · answered by devilsadvocate 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Real love is unselfish and unconditional. You really need to examine yourself and ask yourself if there are other motives for breaking up.
Read: 1 Corinthians 13
2007-01-19 23:21:52 · answer #5 · answered by TPhi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LIFE can be hard. No one promised you a rose garden. If you love him, stay with him. If you don't, tell him so and move on, and let him do so as well.
2007-01-19 23:11:16 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you love him to death, then you shouldnt cause youll definitely regret it later,and besides, he's going to iraq and everything so you should be like strong for him and support him,, and isnt it nicer to hear "let's hang on, we're almost there" than "to let go(cause youre scared)"
its about risks//
2007-01-19 23:12:23 · answer #7 · answered by ria 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i say if u love him don't live him just cause his in the army so like stay with him but in touch as more as u can
2007-01-19 23:10:01 · answer #8 · answered by yesipreciosa 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well this depends if he plans to go to college after his service terms are up. If he does not get a higher education then there is a destany of poverty set out for you already.
2007-01-19 23:09:37 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Relationships are hard.....but it might be a good time to split up....that way both of you will know whats up and there won't be lying and both of your lives won't be on hold. ...If it is true love and was meant to be ....someday you will get back together...good luck to both of you
2007-01-19 23:13:16 · answer #10 · answered by Chris B 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋