I have the best bf i love him to death his awesome and so good to me but i still find the need to complain and bicker why do we woman do this?Why cant we just admit how lucky we are and bite the bullet and shut up?
2007-01-19 15:10:13 · 7 answers · asked by ... 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Girl, I'm glad you can admit to this.
I've gone a dating hiatus for the last year or so b/c I just get TIRED of girls complaining no matter what. It drove me nuts especially b/c I'm a respectful fun loving guy with his stuff together but girls just LOVE to complain about something. I notice it too in my female friends and co-workers. I guess girls aren't happy unless they're unhappy. Go figure!!
PS-be good to your boyfriend and just always let him know that you love him and that you're lucky. He'll appreciate a girl who appreciates him if he's a good guy.
2007-01-19 15:17:21 · answer #1 · answered by phm210 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Normally, it is our own insecurities and emotional inadequacy which makes us blame other's for no fault of theirs. Doing this we feel whole and a "winner" momentarily, It is like drug abuse, we get a kick out of it and when we are done doing it, we feel guilty.
We just cannot admit that we are lucky because we think that if we say we are lucky, then the boy friend or the spouse may sometime use it to blackmail us emotionally say when we have an argument or fight.
No matter what, heart of heart we know that they are the best and we love them deeply..
Over all I guess that is why we are called "women" LOL.
2007-01-19 23:24:28 · answer #2 · answered by SP 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You think we should agree with everything guys say? Are you some kind of concubine? A self-respecting woman will never submit to a guy just because he's there. She'll go after what she believes in.
2007-01-19 23:43:39 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello ...,
My guess is that it's sort of keeping up with the Jones, maybe even a competition type of thing. My wife says that she doesn't do this, but I kind of think that she does. :-D
--Rick
2007-01-19 23:18:52 · answer #4 · answered by rickrudge 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, we've all done it--but I've run into many the man who usually starts or provokes it!
2007-01-19 23:15:01 · answer #5 · answered by Holiday Magic 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you just need to choose your battles wisely hun?
Count your blessings! : )
2007-01-19 23:16:18 · answer #6 · answered by no cutesy name : ) 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
idk, why can't you? i don't ***** over something I'm happy with, that's ridiculous.
2007-01-19 23:14:13 · answer #7 · answered by F.J. 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋