my gf and i have been fighting over just about every little thing. she got mad and said she was gonna walk home, which is a good 8+ miles away. on top of that, she's pregnant. i didn't want her to go, i was worried, and followed her. the cops stopped us, and her mom picked her up...we were both upset and arguing with each other. this was about 4 hours ago. she probably hates me now...should i call her, or what?
2007-01-19 15:05:29 · 16 answers · asked by littlewolf333 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
i just keep upsetting her, this is so hard...
2007-01-20 06:43:28 · update #1
Call her.
And apoligize.
I don't care if you didn't do anything wrong, or you think you didn't, still apologize.
2007-01-19 15:09:00 · answer #1 · answered by K 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, call and just talk to her. Apoligize and talk about how certain things need to be worked out before the baby comes and how you want to stay with her but you dont want to keep arguing. Make sure she knows that you're there for her and that you love her and also that you will do anything possible to make that relationship work out for the both of you!
2007-01-19 23:09:46 · answer #2 · answered by Amber 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you serious? Don't you know you can't win an argument with a pregnant lady? If they are right, they win...if they are wrong...it's hormones.
Seriously, aside from the pressures a pregnancy puts on both of you, if she's carrying your child, you are tied to her for the next 20 or so years. It can be pleasant or unpleasant. It's your choice.
2007-01-19 23:11:15 · answer #3 · answered by J D 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would call her let her know you love her and want to make things right....if she isn't ready to talk yet, tell her to call you when she is or you'll call her in the morning. but make sure you DO talk about it. Communication is the key to all relationships. Be patient and supportive of the pregnancy....it's mostly hormones probably. i wouldn't tell her that though. make sure your there for her! Good luck!
2007-01-19 23:11:00 · answer #4 · answered by blevins2147 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course you should call her. Is your love for her still burning in your heart? She is going through emotions because of the pregnancy. Try to comfort and console her. Always remind her that you are there for her. Be patient. KEEP HOPE ALIVE!
2007-01-19 23:10:13 · answer #5 · answered by pixiedust 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would give her some space to cool off and then ask her if you can sit down and talk and no yelling at each other. You guys need to communicate to each other. Good luck!
2007-01-19 23:11:01 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let her sleep off her anger. She's probably horomonal and easy to anger. Call her tomorrow morning, first thing and talk it out.
2007-01-19 23:09:02 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call her
2007-01-19 23:48:10 · answer #8 · answered by amy_da_cheese 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that you should call her and tell her that you want to work things our especially if it is you kid. when a girl is pregnant she is very emotional and needs someone to show her that they love and care for them
2007-01-19 23:10:39 · answer #9 · answered by Saddgal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
call and give it a try, if she refuses to talk to you then ask her parents if she is alright. emotions run wild when pregnant.
2007-01-20 01:46:31 · answer #10 · answered by scorpia692003 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋