Family & Relationships - 18 January 2007

we are both in our late 30s and make about the same amount of money.but 5yrs ago he went thru a nasty divorce which left him in debt.the reason being is he allowed his exwife to make him feel guilty about leaving his family so he gave her everything car,bank accounts,stocks,house plus a large child support payment.i feel this was his chose(except child support) and he should have thought about this before he allowed his ex to get the better of him.if i give him the money(which i could)what stops him from giving her more when she poors on the guilt trip which she does all the time.i know this makes me sound like a b-tch but how would you feel if the ex wife gets to go on cruises(on your bfs child support money) and your bf has just enough money to go to the next state with you? this really happened!am i a bad person because i don't want to fund her next trip?

2007-01-18 14:50:32 · 24 answers · asked by karen7neely 1 in Marriage & Divorce

The start of my problems is from http://sg.answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=20070110233056AAaXnGb . Well I have decided to let her go and do what she wants. I will visit my son and have him with me whenever I would like. The thing is that I still feel so empty inside. The guy she is with is the typical guy who is going out with her and telling her he loves her cause she is the rebound from a relationship he had lost earlier before they meet. I already gave her all the warnings and so have all her other co-workers. I told her I would take her back but she still wants to be with him. So right now I am alone and in the dark as I would say. I don't want to find another person to fill that gap. But I need someone to hold and care for. What should I do? When he eventually does hurt her and they are finished... Should I take her back right away? She says she loves me but also says she loves him. I am very confused and unstable about what to do now.

2007-01-18 14:50:20 · 11 answers · asked by Chris M 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Would you rather have a cute but rude boyfriend or a cuteish,nerdy nice guy?!?!

2007-01-18 14:48:27 · 20 answers · asked by some1 who likes some1 1 in Singles & Dating

who have really nice personalitys instead?

2007-01-18 14:47:37 · 14 answers · asked by robster60 2 in Singles & Dating

It was my first date, and i'm 20 (i know i know). Anyways, she liked me alot, but i think she was put off by my being boring around people i don't know very well (her included) and my low self-confidence (i always talked myself down with her). B4 i met her i was horribly depressed 2-3 days of the week, and it's only happened once in the month i known her.

Also she is a coworker, but we hardly share the same hours.

2007-01-18 14:47:32 · 1 answers · asked by Wocka wocka 6 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-18 14:47:13 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I am in sixth grade and I really like a guy and I have for a long time.
do you think I should ask him out.

2007-01-18 14:46:53 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

hi i would like to know if you have been in love and then seperated for whatever reason it may be from the person you thought was everything to you. Have you ever forgotten them? Did you find true love? did you find another partner when you thought you never would? and how is it going? i would like inspirational stories whether it be sad or happy. thanks a lot.

2007-01-18 14:46:46 · 13 answers · asked by latina ♥ 2 in Singles & Dating

how is it possible to prove my innocents why woldn't she have to prove my guilt which is not possible because alleged claims are totally untrue. and if you fle a civil suite how do you detrmine the amount of damages

2007-01-18 14:46:23 · 1 answers · asked by shieldwolf12 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I agreed to pay all utilities, health, car note, house note, everything

2007-01-18 14:45:57 · 11 answers · asked by depressed 1 in Marriage & Divorce

First and foremost I'm a very beautiful female with high self esteem but I got to admit It bothers me when I can walk around naked in front of him and he never even flinches. Prime example I said are u going to take a shower with me and he said in an aggravated voice I guess so. Before I didn't even had to ask everytime my daughter was sleep and I went to take a shower he would usually sneak in about 3 min. later. So I undressed to take my shower and here he comes, So I told him I changed my mind he wasn't needed anymore so he said o.k. in a relieved voice. I admit I've gained about 30lbs since we've met (4 years ago) but I haven't changed other than that, I still dress sexy when we go somewhere special and everyday a guy is trying to see if i'm single or not. Why has he become less interested in me?? Am I reading too much into the situation? Should I talk to him??

2007-01-18 14:45:44 · 13 answers · asked by Niinnaa 3 in Singles & Dating

a friend asked me to ask this question..a general rule...not case by case basis

2007-01-18 14:44:06 · 7 answers · asked by Sameera A 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-18 14:43:32 · 7 answers · asked by Babee : ] 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-18 14:43:10 · 20 answers · asked by unknown 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-18 14:42:02 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

she is 67 and i dont want to see her start drinking again..we live together and so im with her alot, but i just dont know what to say,or do.

2007-01-18 14:41:46 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-01-18 14:40:47 · 17 answers · asked by cyndy 1 in Singles & Dating

I still have some fellings for her and when I go home from college we fool around. What should I do I like her and would like to try it again?? WHat should I do\say

HELP

2007-01-18 14:40:20 · 9 answers · asked by J D 3 in Singles & Dating

It because they don't want to seem old

2007-01-18 14:39:45 · 9 answers · asked by Daddiez Girl 1 in Friends

he will tell me he wants me to be friends with a guy i have a small crush on and i dont want to cuz i dont want to encress the crush cuz he likes me too and i dont want anything to happen and his ex girl friend is in a class of mine and she wanted to know how he was so i brought her to him and he talked to me later bout it and told me why he didnt want to see her it was cuz he still had feelings for her the same amount that i had for this other guy and he keeps pushing us together then geting mad at me for becoming friends and so i told him and showed him how i felt be bring his ex girlfriend to is classes and i need to know was that th right thing ?? and what do i do to show him that i cant deal with what he wants me to do and i cant hang out with this guy just like he cant hang out with his ex.

2007-01-18 14:39:32 · 5 answers · asked by shawnee f 1 in Singles & Dating

ok i have a guy that asked me out we went out for 2 weeks then this girl that he likes came up right in front of me and said to him "why are u going out with her?" i thought u liked me?" then the next day he dumped me cuz of her!!!! then on tuesday he asked me out again and told me that he really likes me and he won't ever break up with me again. well i really like him but should i go out with him or not? thnx! love ya!!

2007-01-18 14:37:56 · 10 answers · asked by Go ASI 1 in Singles & Dating

we get alone most of the time.we are not together

2007-01-18 14:37:47 · 7 answers · asked by mojajazmo 3 in Family

I've been friends with a girl for about 4 years now, and while she has liked me a few times over the course of our friendship, I've never felt the same way back. Well, that is until more recently...I've finally come to the realization that this girl is perfect for me and that I have feelings for her, but wouldn't you know it my timing was WAY off. She has a boyfriend that she's been seeing for almost a year now, and they're currently doing the long distance thing.

Despite the boyfriend I still feel like I should tell her that I like her. In the past when I've liked friends I've always just kept it secret for fear of ruining the friendship. I know she doesn't like me back and she has this boyfriend fellow, but I still feel that she should know what I'm feeling.

What should I do? I leave for school - a few hours away - in just a couple of days and this is my last chance to tell her face to face for a while. To tell, or not to tell......?

2007-01-18 14:37:45 · 5 answers · asked by ? 3 in Singles & Dating

Well, since starting working, it's hard to get to know guys. Lately my friend introduce his friend to me, we have been going double dates for twice, and personally met him for lunch once I stopped by his working area.

I can feel this guy does have the intention to get to know me better, and I do want to get to know him better as well. We have been msn for few times, but this invention does not provide too much help so far. I'd prefer a real date, cause meeting each is better than sitting at home waiting for message or guessing what he thinks.

Could guys tell me, how does a guy like a girl to approach him that it won't make him feel, this girl is too easy but rather in a way that is indirect and sincere???

thank you.

2007-01-18 14:36:30 · 10 answers · asked by Caring Girl 2 in Singles & Dating

I have a friend who has alot of problems in one of her households, and her parnets refuse to go to court to let her live with only one parent. Can she take them to court without their consent?

2007-01-18 14:36:23 · 7 answers · asked by cali_rocker_chic102 1 in Marriage & Divorce

and she says she might go, but she doesnt have anyone to go with..
does it mean that she wants you to ask her ?
yes or no ?


and she just said "it kinda sucked last year, going without a date"

does she want me to ask her to go ?

2007-01-18 14:36:20 · 9 answers · asked by Nick723 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-18 14:36:01 · 18 answers · asked by Tracey Lee ♥ 2 in Weddings

my mom became really distant when i turned 12 or so, I grew up without guidance, wihtout much affection & on top of this she was pretty manipulative. My home felt like a cardborad box, it felt cold, and also uncomforable cause I had to deal with mom and my sister.
I left my home feeling empty, Ive tried to talk things with mom to reconcile but she is in denial. Ive had to distance myself cause Ive realized she is not going to change.
Ive been offered some help by a couple of women who want to give me some guidance and afection and wonder if this people could help me get some of the parenting I didnt get.
And I wonder if I will ever feel joyful again cause my mom pretty much broke my heart.

2007-01-18 14:35:46 · 5 answers · asked by Alejandra 1 in Family

i was baby-sitting on new years when the little girl i was baby-sitting told me a story about how she got raped around the age of 5 or 6. she didnt understand it as rape..but i knew, she says shes too embarressed to tell anyone..and then sometimes she would say she already told her mom but her mother didnt believe her. i told her she needs to tell an adult. she says shes too embarressed. she says the boy was a close family friend of the age 17. should i tell her mom myself..or fin out more or what..please help me

2007-01-18 14:34:42 · 15 answers · asked by ♥♥live&laugh 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

Hi I have been married for 23 years. I love my wife with all my heart. but i feel that our relationship is slowly lossing strength. I dont know if I am doing something wrong or this is a normal thing. I would like to hear from you. Hyme

2007-01-18 14:34:09 · 14 answers · asked by Hyme 1 in Marriage & Divorce