Well, since starting working, it's hard to get to know guys. Lately my friend introduce his friend to me, we have been going double dates for twice, and personally met him for lunch once I stopped by his working area.
I can feel this guy does have the intention to get to know me better, and I do want to get to know him better as well. We have been msn for few times, but this invention does not provide too much help so far. I'd prefer a real date, cause meeting each is better than sitting at home waiting for message or guessing what he thinks.
Could guys tell me, how does a guy like a girl to approach him that it won't make him feel, this girl is too easy but rather in a way that is indirect and sincere???
thank you.
2007-01-18 14:36:30 · 10 answers · asked by Caring Girl 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
IF YOU ARE THINKING OF EASY OR TOUGH IT IS NOT WAY AND NO BODY THINKS ABOUT IT. YOU CAN ATTRACT HIM TOWARDS YOU WITH YOUR INTELLIGENCE AND CARE. THE SAME THING IS APPLICABLE ON HIM THAT HOW CAN HE ATTRACT ON YOU WHAT YOU HAVE FOUND IN HIM.
2007-01-24 21:37:44 · answer #1 · answered by RAMAN IOBIAN 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
does he ever ask what youre doing this weekend or anything like that?? if so maybe just say .. "oh, i don't really have any plans was thinking of having a night in and maybe getting some takeout and just vegging in front of the tv.. hey actually, if youre not busy why don't you come round and hang out with me I'd like the company" that way if he says yes.. you are at your house in private where you both will feel comfortable making a move.. or if he declines the offer it sound's like you only invited him on a whim and that it doesn't matter if he doesn't rock up.. if he says no though, just reply "oh, well.. maybe another time..let me know if you wanna catch up" .. then you've thrown the ball into his court..
2007-01-18 14:44:58 · answer #2 · answered by channille 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be direct. But invite him somewhere that has plenty of people around. Inviting him somewhere intimate (like your house) might give him the wrong impression of what you are after. Once you get to spend some time with him, he will work out from your actions if you are easy or not.
2007-01-18 14:41:15 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys don't like girls approaching them. At least I don't, I much prefer the chasing, it makes the girl seem "uneasy" and gives me a bit of a challenge. The chasing and trying to get them is the cool part. If I were you, I'd chase the girl
2007-01-18 14:41:00 · answer #4 · answered by J_Lin 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Never be indirect to anyone, it is not a crime to like or love someone, at the same time never expect that the same person should have same feelings towards you, different people will have different tastes. Just ask him directly and be clear , otherwise u will be the great looser.
2007-01-18 17:54:05 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Next time you talk to him ask him if he would be free at a convenient time fit for both of you. Tell him frankly that you would like to know him better. That is likely to solve the problem if he is also intrested in you.
2007-01-23 16:24:36 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd rather she gave me the permission to approach her.
2007-01-18 14:46:01 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
showing interest on him and liking of his qualities.
2007-01-24 14:37:35 · answer #8 · answered by vn t 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be friendly.
2007-01-18 14:39:12 · answer #9 · answered by Joe C 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think he is too shy
u can propose him directly
2007-01-18 16:37:43 · answer #10 · answered by Rajesh M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋