Family & Relationships - 18 January 2007

if u do have 2 buy her something wat do u buy her

2007-01-18 14:34:08 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I just meet this cool *** chick about two weeks ago. I asked her out one week ago and she agreed. But the problem is her friend. I cannot stand her friend for anything. She basically run my girlfriends whole life. What should i do???

2007-01-18 14:33:50 · 3 answers · asked by YeaBuddy 2 in Singles & Dating

so i went on this cruise, and met this guy. he was really nice and we hung out a lot, but i never really had an interest in him, until the 4th night. that night we just hung out me and him the entire night laying down and talking. he was really sweet, and i knew that i'd prob start liking him. we were talking about everything, and the topic of me being a virgin came up. i told him i was a virgin, and he didn't believe me. he wasn't a virgin, but he told me i should really wait for someone i like, and then he said "and it's not going to be me." by the end of the night we ended up making out, and he slept over my room, and he even asked me if the next night we were gonna hang out. the next night he was in the casino, so my friend went to go get him from the casino to hang out. sure enough, he wanted to and came within 10 minutes(meanwhile he had been winning a lot of money), and he came to hang out. we went to his room, and we were hooking up and everything led to sex happening naturally, he didn't ask me flat out, and it happened the way i wanted it to, in the moment. when he was putting the condom on however, i asked him what he was doing, and he said "nothing"..i made sure he had a condom on, and he was really gentle, but he didn't talk much. at one point i asked him if he still had the condom on, and he let me feel to make sure it was still on. after we had sex, we went to the casino, and then i left to go to my room to lay down. he said he'd come back to hang out, but i didn't expect him to really. sure enough, he came knocking on my door to spend the night. the next night he had been looking for me, and he thought i was with another guy,so he got upset, and didn't hang out with me for two nights. by the 8th night we met up eventually..and i explained to him that i wasn't with another guy, and we ended up hanging out the whole entire night, me, my friend, and him. he kept saying how i was his girlfriend on the cruise, and that i would be his girlfriend if we lived in the same place. it just so happened i was going to college where he lived in about a year, and he knew that. that night we were hooking up again, and everything led to sex, and this time was even better. he said to me "you said you were a virgin right"..so i said "you remember what happened the other night right?"..and he was like "yeah, we had sex"..so i guess he was asking to be reassured that i was a virgin before him? then we were doing it for a long time, and he was talking a lot more, and physically helping me out, and he constantly asked me if i was alright, and that i need to tell him when to stop or when it hurts. i was in a lot of pain, so he suggested taking the condom off to see if it felt any better, it felt a lot better and it was only for 2 seconds, but he did say to me "the only thing is..if we take the condom off you might have to give me head"..well..i didn't end up giving him head, because i didn't want to. that night he slept over again, and we had plans to hang out the whole entire day the next day. the last night, we hung out the whole night..and then he kissed me on the lips goodbye. we exchanged myspaces and aim screen names, and after the cruise he commented me right away. we had talked back and forth for awhile..and at one point i thought he was avoiding me..so i wrote him a letter saying if you don't write back then i know you don't want anything to do with me, but he did write back, so that showed me that he cared. i ended up surprising him and visiting him one day, and he was really happy to see me. he told me i need to call next time so we can hang out..and he wanted to make sure i was definitely still coming to college near him. we talked for awhile, and then i had to leave..so he kissed me on the lips goodbye, and wrote to me about a week later asking me how my trip was, and telling me to call him next time.

1.does it sound like he liked me a lot?
2.why would he ask me if i was a virgin when he knew i was already?
3.why did i need to give head if he didn't have a condom on?

2007-01-18 14:32:40 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My boyrfiend and I live 2 hours away from him and neither of us has very much money so its hard to see each other a lot or call each other.
We've been together for a year now, and I love him with my whole heart.
I just wish there was a way for us to talk more often other than snail mail. And he doesnt have a computer so we cant email or instant message each other either.
Any ideas?

2007-01-18 14:32:32 · 3 answers · asked by Lisa Michelle 2 in Singles & Dating

There's this guy, a cute guy in my school.But another boy gets in my way because he asked me to be his girlfriend but I don't like him. So should I ask The Guy or say yes to The boy and give him a chance?

2007-01-18 14:31:55 · 5 answers · asked by some1 who likes some1 1 in Singles & Dating

I have a fear of saying what's really on my mind and how I'm feeling. I hold everything thing, but at the same time I have all the stuff I want to say going on in my head. I just can't let it out. Then people get away with what they say or do. I get so angry and don't know how to handle it. I'm afraid that if I do try to defend myself and try to get all big & bad with the person, I'll get a beat down & lose; while getting hurt while it's happening, lol (and I've never been in a fight before). Or what if I just snap from getting so mad that I just start yelling and streaming at work at the person who pissed me off and get in trouble with my boss (get written up or even fired). Yes, I am for real with all of this. Hope someone has a real answer for me. Thanks!

2007-01-18 14:31:33 · 13 answers · asked by MetLfan 1 in Friends

In your early 20's - mid 20's... And you could have a great conversation with a woman,really connect, like you really like her. Would you think about officially dating her.. Even if you're in college ??
And you're afraid of commitment a bit.
Thanks!

2007-01-18 14:31:14 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend of 7 years is a music artist, we have supported each others dreams for as long as we've been together. He recently recorded this song with a female singer. Now the situation is making me uncomfortable because she has to perfom at his shows and so forth. I've met her and I don't see her as competition, but now he is starting to go to her shows for support or whatever. I trust him and we love each other, he is always reassuring me that I shouldn't worry because it's just work and he loves me. I've gone to his first show and he made me feel comfortable, I am just upset because now she has to be around and he's saying that she's part of the team now, him and this other male artist including her. I told him that I support his dream, but that I don't think it would be cool that now it's like he's sort of helping her with her career and she has to be around all the time.

How do I deal with this? Am I being unreasonable?

2007-01-18 14:31:08 · 13 answers · asked by Cookie 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Are U ever attracted to shy girls with brown/black hair and hazel/green eyes? I mean if a girl is really shy will U try 2 get 2 know her or will U just give up because she is so shy?

2007-01-18 14:30:14 · 12 answers · asked by Jenny 1 in Singles & Dating

Who thinks this is so cute? My whole Junior class is throwing a good bye party for me! And the guy said that nobody has left that school in ages that they really care about! And then I said "So does that mean you guys care about me?" And the whole class in unison said "YES" It was so sweet that it almost made me cry! And we get to waste one hour and get to have pizza,cake,and ice cream! I love my friends! *tear*

2007-01-18 14:30:10 · 12 answers · asked by firebabe1717 2 in Friends

2007-01-18 14:29:28 · 6 answers · asked by Ann 1 in Marriage & Divorce

my dad (53) is too scared to go and talk to a women. he was married for a very long time and was only ever with my mum but they havent been together for 12 years and i would love to find a companion for him, he lives in QLD. he is a beautiful man with a heart of gold he wants to travel australia so bad but wont on his own and all us kids have grown up and cant exactly go with him even though we would love to. he is very shy when it comes to women. can anyone help me....?? by the way he would love one too it aint just me trying to get him one :)

2007-01-18 14:29:13 · 7 answers · asked by KYE_81 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok, so Peter, the guy who I like is ALWAYS talking to me... and I'm the only girl in our class he talks to... except for my bff Jeanette, who I told him she is my twin, and he actually believed me, but still. lol. He tries talking to her to get a connection with me, and we FINALLY talked today. He walked in the class and said,"Hello." And we started talking. I asked him to play drums in my band, and he said "Sure, that'd be cool." So now, I'm REALLY excited, but how do I know for sure if he likes me?

2007-01-18 14:28:39 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my wife and i are going through a divorce and she is

spreading rumors about me and other women at work to create a hostile working environment i was just wondering if i can file a suit against her

2007-01-18 14:28:38 · 2 answers · asked by shieldwolf12 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-18 14:28:28 · 4 answers · asked by weazle 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Ok, there is this guy I like and he knows... my best friend says that last year sometime he said to her that I was weird, ugly, walked funny ect..... but i still feel like i like him but i also mad and sad. I have no idea what to do someone plz help!

2007-01-18 14:28:05 · 17 answers · asked by Kayla 5 in Singles & Dating

my husband is always on the phone with some very obese girl. She rejected him once and he was upset. They sometimes go out but she's so fat. And I am skinny and the mother of his 2 kids but he always calls her Is he cheating I had a nightmare the other night about it.

2007-01-18 14:27:59 · 9 answers · asked by lydia w 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-18 14:27:07 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Would you rather be eternally bound to the person who loves you the most or the person you love the most? And why?

Eternally bound is just a nondiscriminatory way of saying "eternally married" or "eternally (fill in the blank)". The point I'm trying to make is that you'll be with this man/woman as partners for an eternity.

2007-01-18 14:26:42 · 4 answers · asked by Mina Marius 2 in Singles & Dating

how do i tell my mom that i may be depressed. i took a couple online tests and all of them said i have some type of depression. im scared to tell my mom cause after i tell her i don't kno wat she would think. wat if she dosn't accept that i probaly am depressed and stuff. wat am i suppossed to do now.

2007-01-18 14:26:31 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

ok i'm a christian...and my mom's and familys goals for me have always been purity abstinence if u will well lately my bf and i have been engaging in some....not so pure things....like oral stuff.... i like how it feels but later i feel guilty it's so hypocritical... i hate myself...my bf isn't pressuring me...in fact i trust him with my life...it's me i dont trust...one of my good friends jumped on my case and told me that people like me are the reason why he doesnt worship God it hurt so bad...what do i do...i wanna stop it...but i dont wanna stop it..
~~Cat~~

2007-01-18 14:26:26 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my bf's son is spolied rottten from his parents guilt over the divorce(he was a baby when they divorced and does not even remember them together)they both allow him to walk all over them and give into his ever wish.i really could care less what his mom does but his dad is just as bad and i live with my bf.he wants consent attention from my bf and has a fit if my bf shows me any.he also consently talks back to us mostly me and i have a hard time getting him to behave for me.how can i get my bf to get over his guilt and step up as a parent and discipline his child.also can any stepmoms give me any advice on how i can get his child to listen and respect me.i have been with my bf for 4 yrs and the older his son gets the worse its getting.

2007-01-18 14:25:57 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

after he already got what he wanted? and he's on a cruise and there's so many other girls to be with?

2007-01-18 14:25:06 · 4 answers · asked by lucy aaaaa 1 in Singles & Dating

My husband and I are the spokespeople for "OPPOSITES ATTRACT" So we both have different opinions on what is important.

2007-01-18 14:25:04 · 23 answers · asked by Cassie 1 in Marriage & Divorce

my bf's son is spolied rottten from his parents guilt over the divorce(he was a baby when they divorced and does not even remember them together)they both allow him to walk all over them and give into his ever wish.i really could care less what his mom does but his dad is just as bad and i live with my bf.he wants consent attention from my bf and has a fit if my bf shows me any.he also consently talks back to us mostly me and i have a hard time getting him to behave for me.how can i get my bf to get over his guilt and step up as a parent and discipline his child.also can any stepmoms give me any advice on how i can get his child to listen and respect me.i have been with my bf for 4 yrs and the older his son gets the worse its getting.

2007-01-18 14:24:54 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

At the beginning he used to call me about 2-3 times a week for a few months then he started to call me almost EVERY day(sometimes several times a day) for a few weeks at a time (for another few months) then he started to call 3 times a week (maybe). winter break came and i went to alaska, so we had to stop talking. then when i came back he stopped calling. in 3 weeks he called me about 3 times about homework. but now he's bragging to all his friends that he talks to me every single day for hours at a time, even though he doesn't. i confronted him about it, but he said he only told one person, even though the person that told me isnt exactly his best friend, or even a good friend. theres a rumor around that we are going out, but we're not, and some ppl told me he started it. whats his problem? what can i do to stop these rumors and shut him up?

2007-01-18 14:24:11 · 5 answers · asked by Candy!!!!!!!!! 4 in Singles & Dating

only girls should answetr this question..... their opinion about boys.

2007-01-18 14:23:52 · 3 answers · asked by cuckoo 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-18 14:22:57 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-18 14:22:40 · 3 answers · asked by Medbk911 1 in Singles & Dating

We've been together for 3 months and then decided to become friends (mostly he did). After that we slept once together and then I called him twice. Everything was fine, he sounded normal but then I decided that I won't call anymore. If he'll want, he'll call. It was exacly a week ago and he hasn't called. can I call him or I would be running after him too much. I kinda miss him.

2007-01-18 14:22:16 · 6 answers · asked by maya 4 in Singles & Dating