Family & Relationships - 18 January 2007

she moved to danville from elkhorn wi in 1977-78 her dads name was pete she had 2 sisters she had blond hair and blue eyes, she went back to live with her dad. just want to know if she is around.
kujawa@elknet.net

2007-01-18 15:11:54 · 2 answers · asked by barepedal 1 in Friends

i live in NC, my husband and his parents (consists of dad and grandmother - no mother-) live in VA....can i divorce my husband and make sure that his family has nothing to do with my son? they aren't physically or sexually abusive, but they are smokers, gamblers, and drinkers, and liars, and neglectful, & verbally abusive---the dad has been dating a married woman for years now. the grandmother is 88, but still drives even though her eyesight is failing and is mentally incompantant...she repeats herself every 5 minutes...i'm afraid she'd forget about my 16 month old son being there if she was left to watch him. she has only seen him about 4 times, but has to be constanly reminded of my son's name.

2007-01-18 15:11:52 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I'm a foreign script writer who lived in China, also looking for a movie industry to buy my scripts or to write more for the industry. Though i'm a businessman, write me at serenitiesmind@yahoo.com to keep in touch.

2007-01-18 15:10:59 · 1 answers · asked by Boy2 2 in Singles & Dating

The short version: my husband attacked me in October, I left with our child. I begged him for counseling / medical help. He gave me a lot of lip service but really didn't do anything, then claims the week before the divorce hearing (which is next week) that he's made all these appointments for help now. Although I don't pretend to know what the future holds, am not stopping divorce now because to be honest, I don't trust him and think this is just more talk. I spend all of my time with my 3 year old, and when she's at visitation (with supervisors) I clean the house, shop and work.

I've started getting a lot of pressure to start dating (am that girl that everyone thinks is too "good of a catch" to be at home on the weekend), and though I know I am NOT ready for that yet, was wondering what "you all" thought about the right time to start dating again?

Please don't give me the whole "when you are ready" -that I know - I mean hypothetical timelines.

2007-01-18 15:10:52 · 12 answers · asked by Wildflower 6 in Marriage & Divorce

Do you stare back? Or pretend you don't notice?

2007-01-18 15:10:25 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my dad caught me smoking pot and tried to hit me so I punched him in his nose and he started bleeding. He kick me out of the house. I have no where to go... my dad said i could come back if I apologized and stop smoking. I'll apologize, but I wont stop smoking I loves my pot. What should I do?

2007-01-18 15:10:08 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

ok i like this guy and i think he likes me back because when i look at him he's staring at me, and and he's like trayin to take my atention but my friends and i invented him a new name(jose) so that he doesn't know we are talking about him, but i guess he think really think i like "jose"..=S.. i really like him but i don't know, how can i really know if he does really like me... and he's not just playing ?

2007-01-18 15:09:50 · 7 answers · asked by mireya y 1 in Singles & Dating

I have been talking t my ex bf's cousin online for a short time. He is married I am now single. We talk about everything. We started talking because my ex asked him to talk with me to see how i felt about things between us. Well now i look forward to talking to him 3-4 times a week and we talk for several hours online. He has been married for 20 yrs but is clearly not happy. We have both told each other things we have not told others we find it very easy to talk. He told me that he really looks forward to talking to me and that he finds me attractive and such and then goes on later to tell me he would never cheat on his wife but says he thinks he will leave her eventually. We talk about sex and everything. I guess my ? is ...what should i think about the things he says to me about finding me attractive then says he will never cheat on his wife..can anyone help me understand what is going on with him? I dont want a relationship with him or anything other than friends what is he thinking

2007-01-18 15:08:41 · 11 answers · asked by ladybug40353 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

1) say "whether we become acquaintances, friends or whatever, i won't regret anything", what does the whatever mean? she has said in the past there is a possibility but has seemed unsure lately

2) while talking about pants, touch your pants on your thigh to judge how loose they are.

is this flirting?

2007-01-18 15:08:23 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ther is this girl who goes to my school who is really hot. she really doesn't know me but i love her. she has large breasts i i really like them. is it o.k. to touch them when she is/ isn't noticing??? plus i need tips for her to be mine. thanx!!!

2007-01-18 15:07:45 · 6 answers · asked by zsgobrownies 1 in Singles & Dating

well my husband and i are newlyweds its been almost 7months since we've been married. we are very young (going on 20) but i love him and i dont regret our love or marriage, but our religions are one thing that keep us apart. and i hate that but we've talked it out and we've decided to go to our seperate churches. Im a Pentacostal and hes a Jehovah witness and beside that everything is fine but the problem is when we start having children thats when tha problem start. our kids are going to be confused and mixed between mommy and daddy religions. and i dont want to argue about who's going with who on Sundays or what religion our child will become. when tha rite time comes i want children and its stressing me out about how to go about this matter.i feel that we will never come to a conclusion about how we should raise our child, and im scared...

2007-01-18 15:07:31 · 11 answers · asked by iluvu 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

i can tell he likes me but he hasn't said anything to me,he flirts with me every once in a while but he won't ask me out!!(i know he likes me)PLEASE HELP I REALLY WANT HIM,PALEASE

2007-01-18 15:04:56 · 10 answers · asked by Geek!!! 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-18 15:04:55 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok, so there was this guy I met in one of my college courses last year. I was forced to sit next to him all semester (b/c we had assigned seating). We became friends/study buddies... but he has been since then creeped me out. He hit on me a couple of times and I told him I was not interested in him. I've been in a few uncomfortable situations with him and am often scared he'll just show up at my apartment or something. We go to the same school, where I tend to camflauge when I see him. But he keeps messaging me every now and again, nothing too scary, though he is still creepy. In August, shortly after my birthday, I found out that he had been lying to me about his age and that instead of being 24(ish), he was really 36. How do I tell him I know his real age? How do I express that he is creepy and I really want to have nothing to do with him? I really don't want to go through the whole changing my telephone number process. Do I just keep ignoring his messages and hope he stops one day

2007-01-18 15:04:51 · 6 answers · asked by Annoy1 2 in Friends

Please tell me that things will be better.
My guy friends are seriously out to get me... and they make bets on me when i will hook up with a guy. They think it's funny that i'm not a whore, and want to make my life hell basically. I really think they hate me or something. I want to know if you had problems like this, and if you ever spoke to highschool jerks again? Maybe some words of wisdom or maybe some hope. anything will help i'm sure!!!

2007-01-18 15:04:02 · 5 answers · asked by hill <3 2 in Friends

My girlfriend wants me to tell her something that I don't like about her. There is one little thing I don't like, but I don't know if I should tell her and risk hurting her feelings or her getting mad at me. Should I be honest, or should I lie, and say I like everything about her.

2007-01-18 15:02:57 · 12 answers · asked by alex 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I was crying today because boys in my class was making fun of me and shoving me but I never did anything to them.My P.E teacher thought he yelled at me and everybody was looking at me and I got embarrassed.What should I do?

2007-01-18 15:02:10 · 8 answers · asked by Deanna 3 in Friends

and no nudity suggestions please, I need real ideas.
I've been with him for a year and a half, ty.

2007-01-18 15:01:36 · 1 answers · asked by Diana 3 in Singles & Dating

I have a sister that is 16, and 7 years younger than me...and I can't defend myself when we have an argument. It makes me feel helpless. She will say anything, and do anything to get her way and other peoples feelings just don't matter to her at all. Tonight she spent over 30 minutes begging me for a cigarette and when she started to realize she wasn't going to get one she started a fight. I get so that I can't stop swallowing, I can't find words, my ears turn red, and I sometimes faint...this is for all arguments in general. I guess I'm looking for how to stand up for myself when I can't even get a point across. How can I learn to fight back and get over whatever causes me to freak out so badly when i get into an argument? People have told me it takes practice, but in this family I get a LOT of that and I never seem to be any more capable of dealing with it and defending myself.

2007-01-18 15:01:13 · 16 answers · asked by forsaken_nephylim 1 in Family

2007-01-18 14:59:06 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my bf is studying in France. Last time, when i chat with him, he let me know that he got a new gf who is french. several days after, his closed friend told me that my bf is making decision, stay in France or back to my country. He has only 3 months left for studying. If he stays in France, he got that girl but not-a-good carreer. If he lives in my country, he got me and a very good career. We are in love, but actually, i rarely showed him that i really love him so i think that he he is not sure about my love. Besides, i am sure that he loves me. The fact that he got a new girl is very unacceptable. But i dont wanna lose him. what should i do now?

2007-01-18 14:56:53 · 7 answers · asked by coconut12 1 in Singles & Dating

Aright theres a girl at school who's pretty fine. We are good acquaintances, and by that i mean when we see each other we're good and friendly, and the fact we went through religious conformation together helped that out. But the bottom line is, i know shes single, and theres a dance at my school in about a month. I want to get her to like me enough to ask me as friends at the least. Any suggestions?

2007-01-18 14:56:45 · 7 answers · asked by ZeRo 1 in Singles & Dating

I am five foot ten and 130 pounds. I will always get the looks but nothing more. Then I will see a tall guy (six two or more) with an inredibly short women, like five two..what gives???
Are men just turned off by height in a women, are there any men who would rather date a tall women like me?
I feel left out!!!

2007-01-18 14:56:22 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

And why hasn't anyone invented something to make people skip their teenage life?!

2007-01-18 14:55:11 · 11 answers · asked by Trublood 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-18 14:55:05 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-18 14:53:42 · 4 answers · asked by Kathy B 1 in Family

2007-01-18 14:52:53 · 3 answers · asked by Blue eyed girl 2 in Friends

i love my boyfriend, and i would never ever cheat on him. furthermore, i would never get drunk enough to have poor judgement. we are 300 miles apart, and so far, our relationship is going well since we both went out separate ways to college. he doesn't party, and most of the time stays in with his friends, and i mostly do the same, but if my friends are going to a party, i feel guilty if i go, even if i know that i won't do anything that would upset him. is it okay to go and not feel guilty? he worries, but he doesn't need to.

2007-01-18 14:51:54 · 8 answers · asked by sugar56 2 in Singles & Dating

we are both in our late 30s and make about the same amount of money.but 5yrs ago he went thru a nasty divorce which left him in debt.the reason being is he allowed his exwife to make him feel guilty about leaving his family so he gave her everything car,bank accounts,stocks,house plus a large child support payment.i feel this was his chose(except child support) and he should have thought about this before he allowed his ex to get the better of him.if i give him the money(which i could)what stops him from giving her more when she poors on the guilt trip which she does all the time.i know this makes me sound like a b-tch but how would you feel if the ex wife gets to go on cruises(on your bfs child support money) and your bf has just enough money to go to the next state with you? this really happened!am i a bad person because i don't want to fund her next trip?

2007-01-18 14:51:27 · 49 answers · asked by karen7neely 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

we are both in our late 30s and make about the same amount of money.but 5yrs ago he went thru a nasty divorce which left him in debt.the reason being is he allowed his exwife to make him feel guilty about leaving his family so he gave her everything car,bank accounts,stocks,house plus a large child support payment.i feel this was his chose(except child support) and he should have thought about this before he allowed his ex to get the better of him.if i give him the money(which i could)what stops him from giving her more when she poors on the guilt trip which she does all the time.i know this makes me sound like a b-tch but how would you feel if the ex wife gets to go on cruises(on your bfs child support money) and your bf has just enough money to go to the next state with you? this really happened!am i a bad person because i don't want to fund her next trip?

2007-01-18 14:50:57 · 10 answers · asked by karen7neely 1 in Singles & Dating