my bf is studying in France. Last time, when i chat with him, he let me know that he got a new gf who is french. several days after, his closed friend told me that my bf is making decision, stay in France or back to my country. He has only 3 months left for studying. If he stays in France, he got that girl but not-a-good carreer. If he lives in my country, he got me and a very good career. We are in love, but actually, i rarely showed him that i really love him so i think that he he is not sure about my love. Besides, i am sure that he loves me. The fact that he got a new girl is very unacceptable. But i dont wanna lose him. what should i do now?
2007-01-18
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coconut12
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What do you mean "we" are in love? You are in what I would call denial, and he sure is in love, but not with you. Stop running after him (figuratively speaking), you are only making yourself look needy and pathetic. Not attractive.
2007-01-18 15:00:22
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answered by Liz 7
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I want to tear the question out of the frame, but I'll refrain because I don't want to lose any points. I'm close to getting level 5, ya know.
Anyway, I think you should enjoy your life with friends and do what makes you happy each day. If he comes back and you get back together, fine. If he stays in France, so what, right? You can't make him do what you want. So do whatever YOU want. This is your life, stop asking other people how to live it. That makes you look pathetic and dumb.
2007-01-18 23:01:47
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answered by Anonymous
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first of all, if he's gonna live in France, there is no guarantee of a job cause i lived there and knew tons of people with a Bac+4 and never found a job yet still. And You got to tell him you want him back and to see him again and that you still love him. That will get him started in thinking about you again. And i tell you, man love to be the center of the universe. So if you tell him that you want him and all, he will have second thoughts about staying in France. And he does have a better road coming back in the US for a job. ANd you get paid shitttty in france for your knowledge.
2007-01-18 23:05:08
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answered by franckoboy 3
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1st of all, he's cheating on you. Just because he's abroad, doesn't mean that he may get a new gf. But if you forgive him, you should tell him that you dont like him doing that but you give him a second chance.
And about you're not showing him the sign of love, he will ask you by showing a sign of love or something. Aniway, a true love dont ask for a response. To love means to give and to give.
Give him the freedom to choose, its his future. If he choose you, be glad. If he dont, move on, he's not worthy for your love
2007-01-18 23:36:37
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answered by Alastair 2
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This is a really REALLY tough situations. there's a couple of options... a) call him (or email) and explain how much YOU love him and that you and him have a better relationship (im assuming you knew him longer than she did)
b) let it play out, and hope for the best (not advisable but useful if you dont know how to explain things to people like in "a")
c) GO SEE HIM AND STEAL HIM BACK. My future wife had to move to massachussettes and i live in WI, but she has to finish up school there, and im finishing here. i would DIE if she came to see me. when you are there, take him to like some fancy dinner, and have a couple glasses of wine, and then go back to his place and hope that things go really well.
thats all for now, hope it helps
2007-01-18 23:04:16
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answered by tonybalony61 1
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You blew darling...he found a hunny to replace what you didn't give him. Move on and let him go. You said yourself you never showed him that you REALLY loved him, and this french woman prolly showed him what he wanted....love.
So take this as a lesson and don't do it again.....
2007-01-18 23:02:03
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answered by Pandora 6
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i say you should forget about him look for someone new since he already found someone else maybe we should be together j/k
2007-01-18 23:03:51
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answered by the illest 2
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