My girlfriend wants me to tell her something that I don't like about her. There is one little thing I don't like, but I don't know if I should tell her and risk hurting her feelings or her getting mad at me. Should I be honest, or should I lie, and say I like everything about her.
2007-01-18 15:02:57 · 12 answers · asked by alex 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Be honest, that is the most important thing in a relationship. If start lying to her the lies will continue and that is not a healthy relationship
2007-01-18 16:33:35 · answer #1 · answered by Wendy H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The girlfriend is fishing for the lie. If the one "little thing" does not bother you too much, just make the girl's day and tell her she's perfect. Then at some other time, assuming you're still bothered by the "little thing" talk to her about it.
2007-01-18 15:15:59 · answer #2 · answered by grenter 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
see you later as you're honest to her it truly is the real concern. If she isn't being honest to you approaches did you recognize have you ever stuck her out in a lie or something like that? yet another concern you may want to do is take her out and tell her the way you sense about her and say that you want her to be honest with you and inform you approaches she feels out you and different issues that are occurring in her existence. in basic terms attempt to get her to open as a lot as you slightly more effective
2016-10-15 10:38:38 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
what is the little thing? if it's something you can live with, then lie. If you are actually going to stay with this woman, you need to ask yourself if you can live with that flaw for the rest of your life. Bring it up at the right time if you so choose to tell her. Hope that helps
2007-01-18 15:18:31 · answer #4 · answered by brian. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be honest and tell her. If she gets mad, upset, or both just tell her you are sorry but she did ask. Then ask her would she have rather you lie to her.
2007-01-19 03:52:38 · answer #5 · answered by ctsnowmiss 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She asked, be honest. If you can't handle the truth, don't ask! Besides, what kind of relationship will the two of you have if you can't be open and honest with each other? That's how you grow, together!
2007-01-18 15:12:43 · answer #6 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not answer that. Tell her that she's not asking a fair question and that you cannot possibly win by answering it.
It's a no win question--unless she wants a fight.
2007-01-18 15:09:04 · answer #7 · answered by autimom 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Tell her... you love her for the person she is, not the person she looks like, and not to worry about her buck teeth, cross eyes, hair lip, fat A#rse , no butt, flat chest, crow feet.
looks pass... personality stays!
2007-01-18 15:10:55 · answer #8 · answered by MsJacqui 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should always be honest and upfront with your partner,lying only becomes a habit that will eventually ruin alot of faith and trust.
2007-01-18 15:09:43 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her the turth but make her tell u something she hates a bout you first
2007-01-18 15:08:26 · answer #10 · answered by Kimberly 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋