my husband is always on the phone with some very obese girl. She rejected him once and he was upset. They sometimes go out but she's so fat. And I am skinny and the mother of his 2 kids but he always calls her Is he cheating I had a nightmare the other night about it.
2007-01-18 14:27:59 · 9 answers · asked by lydia w 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
WHy is he calling her? How does he know her? How do you know she is obese?
2007-01-18 14:30:47 · answer #1 · answered by tellme 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People are considered attractive for many reasons. Personality and confidence are some of the MOST attractive things about a person. People are also attracted to friends for these reasons. Being jealous is insecure. Getting into her body type as some kind of point is not a good thing either. Knowing how long they have been communicating would be better. Phone calls do not make a man a cheater. You say she rejected him once. Did they become friends after that? If she has been a friend to him for a long time it really doesn't matter what she looks like it just matters that they are friends. Have you asked your husband about this friendship or are you just having a problem with him talking with a woman you consider obese.
2007-01-18 23:01:31 · answer #2 · answered by kalea_kane 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One why is your husband going out with another woman..Two why are you calling her fat. Fat people have feelings just like you and if you act the way you talk I hope he does leave you for another. Just because someone is big doesnt make them a bad person. I work out 4 times a week for 2 hours a wack and I am a big guy. doe take your skinny asss self of your high horse and find out WHY your husband is in contact with another woman
2007-01-18 22:33:47 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, maybe your husband isn't a good match for you if he can look beyond appearance and love a person's personality and brains.
It does sound like he is cheating on you. Perhaps you should have a calm, fair chat with him alone.
2007-01-18 22:31:52 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being obese has nothing to do with it, and neither does you being "skinny". A need is obviously not being met...find out what it is.
2007-01-18 22:32:21 · answer #5 · answered by Detroit Diva 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what is his problem.
maybe you should listen to the calls and find out whats going on.
you can buy listening devices legally.
2007-01-18 22:33:45 · answer #6 · answered by dirtyoldman 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, he is probably cheating or is abou to. no matter the size of the girl, she must be giving him something you are not
2007-01-18 22:32:38 · answer #7 · answered by Bistro 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He might be.
You are the only one who can really tell.
Good Luck
2007-01-18 22:31:21 · answer #8 · answered by zen522 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure sounds like it, he seems to have a fatty fetish,
2007-01-18 22:32:14 · answer #9 · answered by Dane 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋