ok i have a guy that asked me out we went out for 2 weeks then this girl that he likes came up right in front of me and said to him "why are u going out with her?" i thought u liked me?" then the next day he dumped me cuz of her!!!! then on tuesday he asked me out again and told me that he really likes me and he won't ever break up with me again. well i really like him but should i go out with him or not? thnx! love ya!!
2007-01-18 14:37:56 · 10 answers · asked by Go ASI 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Do you think you can trust him after what he did.
This is your call
2007-01-18 14:42:56 · answer #1 · answered by zen522 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl,
Settle your mind before you think of anything.
When you mind is settle, ask yourself:
1) Are you ready to get hurt again?
If you don't mind getting hurt again, then go for it and see where it might take you.
2) Is he worth it?
Is it worth to let someone to break your heart, even though you like him a lot?
Or is it worth it to give him another chance, knowing that there might be another chance that he will do that again?
3) Have you accepted the fact that, no matter how many times you like someone or fall in love with someone, there will always be pain?
If you have accepted the fact that there is always pain and believe that it's worth it, then go with your heart. :)
At the end of the day, what have you achieved, what have you learnt and grow from that.
2007-01-18 22:49:52 · answer #2 · answered by calv83luc 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure, why not. That other girl put him on the spot, and he made a bad decision. But he came to realize he likes you, so take him at his word. Good luck.
2007-01-18 22:46:44 · answer #3 · answered by faith 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, because if he dissed you once he will diss you again. Don't go crawling back to that loser cause he obviosly doesn't know of your importance as a person who has feelings. I say no, but it is trully up to you what to do.
2007-01-18 22:44:23 · answer #4 · answered by leona 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well u shud make diz decidion on ur own but if u relly like him den yea, but in my opinion i wudnt bcuz he cud sey tha to u tha he relyl likes u but he can b seying the xact same to the other gurl. but u shud make up ur mind on ur own diz is just some advice but if u relly like him i sey go for it agen.lol..
2007-01-18 22:45:45 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
this guy was really mean, but do not use our views to crowd your judgement. you know him better than anyone of us do.
Dont make him a priority if he only makes you an option.
2007-01-18 22:51:25 · answer #6 · answered by quittara 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe that's a question you should answer yourself, follow your heart but listen to your brain.
2007-01-18 22:41:24 · answer #7 · answered by maysimay2006 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not
2007-01-18 22:41:16 · answer #8 · answered by boilerrat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you['re his second choice and you should be first.
2007-01-18 22:42:09 · answer #9 · answered by maya 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go with your gut.
2007-01-18 22:41:44 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋