2007-01-18 14:43:10 · 20 answers · asked by unknown 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
-When they give you one story and give someone else another story.
-When they say they have alot of things to do and it's to the point that you can't even get a hold of them.
-When you drive to the place they say they are going to be at and they end up not there.
-When you run into then and they say they got to go and get mad at you when you hold them up.
-When they say, "I need some time to think".
-When they are out really late at night.
-When they come home wet from showering somewhere else.
-When they acuse you of cheating on them when you are obviously not!
-When you show him your genitals that are swelled and ask him if he's cheating and see his eyes pop out of his head.
-When you get silent phone calls and then a click.(when you are sure of where he is)
-When his friend calls you asking for him and you say, "I thought he was with you!!!"
-When a female is always calling you and saying, "Oh, I must have the wrong number."
-And finally, when he is with you but his mind seems to be elseware after not seeing you for so long instead of trying to be intament with you.
You better ware a condom too if you think he's sleeping around but still you have sex with him!
2007-01-18 15:02:49 · answer #1 · answered by toothfairy.2006 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He may become distant toward you. He spends less and less time with you. He doesn't come home or call you when he says he is going to. He isn't into sex like he used to be with you.
There are lots of signs to follow when you suspect your boyfriend is cheating. After you follow the signs you will develop a gut feeling that tells you something is not right with your boyfriend.
2007-01-18 14:49:38 · answer #2 · answered by honestly sweet 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Basically if your boyfriend start to cheat on you,there are lot of sign such as,if he was calling you 8 times a day it will reduce to 1 or 2.
secondly,when you ask he for a date or ask him out he will always pretend that he don't have time. or for every time you ask him to come over to see you ,he always busy. some time if you call him that you want to go and see him at his house,he will always say that he is not at home.You will also call him more than he calling you and your calls will always be unanswer.
So eventually if you have observe such things ,than you should know that some else has take your place.
Please be careful on how you doing to observe him ok .
Have a good Luck.
2007-01-18 15:20:51 · answer #3 · answered by Medbk911 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well there is a few ways to tell: 1 either he pulls away or gets closer to you than usual. When my 2nd hubby cheated on me he pulled away, always had something he needed to do and i couldn't go. my now hubby number 3 cheated on me before we got married. he got closer to me even after i found out. guess he felt really guilty. But everyone thinks about playing the field. I would need more info on how is his before i could say its possible.
2007-01-18 14:48:44 · answer #4 · answered by Melinda B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girls calling on his phone
He does not hang out with you as much
You are not having sex much or not at all anymore
You call him and you hear a girl's voice in the background
He smells like perfume
He has hairs on his clothing that do not belong to him or you
He treats you differently...not as nice to you anymore
He is acting distant towards you
You borrow his pager and you answer the page and it is another girl's phone number
****listen to your gut*****
2007-01-18 14:50:32 · answer #5 · answered by September Sweetie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, go with the gut! If you feel it then most likely something is not quite right. Other things are changes in their appearance, taking more care with how they look, etc, buying new underwear or even not wearing them when they used to!!
2007-01-18 14:53:08 · answer #6 · answered by karen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He will start comparing you to this other!!! The things that you did so perfect will no longer be just that??? The way that he treats you will change drastically. You will know all the changes in all the little things that are no longer good enough for him?????
2007-01-18 14:50:21 · answer #7 · answered by evelyn t 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Less time spent calling you, they will often be "busy", and you will notice a big change in both their behaviour and body language when they are around you.
2007-01-18 14:45:53 · answer #8 · answered by J_Lin 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Less affection, phone calls, time for you, attention span, interest.
More nights with 'Mates', tired times, headaches, missed calls, excuses, etc
2007-01-18 14:48:49 · answer #9 · answered by vampress 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They avoid talking and spending time with you. When you call they don't answer. When you get together they are distant.
2007-01-18 14:47:09 · answer #10 · answered by JJ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋