how can i forgive my husband?

Answer 1

You make a choice to forgive him. If you don't forgive, God can't forgive you of your sins.

Answer 2

What has he done that he needs forgiveness for if I may ask? Forgiveness is a choice and you can choose to forgive him if you want to and with time and help you can.... You may also need counseling to help as well.... Forgiveness is a choice of the heart.
You will feel much better inside if you forgive then if you choose to be bitter and unforgiving... I have learned that forgiveness of another person is very healing and helpful to me and my heart.
If he is truley sorry for what he has done and has asked you to forgive him then you should do it anyway. I'll put it this way if you were the one that needed forgiveness would you want him to forgive you? Put yourself in his shoes and treat him the way that you would want to be treated.

Answer 3

That question can only be answered by you. It depends on what you are forgiving him for. It depends on how much you love him and want your marriage to work. It depends on how much he hurt you and your willingness to forgive and forget. The answer is in you and not what anyone tells you. Only you can decide and if you decide to forgive it doesn't matter what anyone else thinks or says they aren't in your shoes. Always remember to hold you're head high no matter the choice you make. Sorry if this answer sounds cheesy.

Answer 4

What has he done? Is it something drastic that he cannot be forgiven. Just ask yourself as to whether the marriage is worth saving, are you really in love with him or is he able to change him self for the better. Think properly, this is your life and he is your husband. If you dont forgive him, what is your next move? Divorce...... Think carefully.

Good Luck

Answer 5

You just do it. I don't know what your problem was, but you watch him. If he has truly changed, then you just forgive him and move on. You think of this as a bonding moment, and a lesson.

There are some things you don't forgive (abuse) but for that, you leave him.

Answer 6

Pray & Give your husband to God & let him handle it. You can only forgive him with God's help. I know, cause I am doing the same thing with my husband. I will be praying for you & your husband!

Answer 7

In my own personal experience I've found the forgiving part much easier than the forgetting.

Answer 8

for?

being late? tell him you paid the phone bill this month
forgetting your birthday? no card will do but a new car might help
making a catty remark to your Mother or friend? try keeping your intimate life between just the 2 of you

or the biggies...cheating, hitting, verbal abuse, leaving you for another female...all these fall under the same category...if they do it once they will do so again and no amount of taking them back and giving them second chances work, cut your ties while you still have some dignity and self esteem left and find a new life in which you can love and be loved for who you are.

Answer 9

Determine the cause of the problem and discuss whether it is was a recognized mistake or part of a pattern. We all make mistakes that need forgiveness, once!

Answer 10

If you know our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ, You can forgive you husband.

Remember you have sin and fall short of the glory of God, and He still forgive you. So if He can forgive you of your sins, you can forgive your husband of his sin.

I will say a Prayer for you and your husband.

GOD BLESS!!!!