hi i would like to know if you have been in love and then seperated for whatever reason it may be from the person you thought was everything to you. Have you ever forgotten them? Did you find true love? did you find another partner when you thought you never would? and how is it going? i would like inspirational stories whether it be sad or happy. thanks a lot.
2007-01-18 14:46:46 · 13 answers · asked by latina ♥ 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes, but I haven't forgotten them mentally, just emotionally. They don't mean anythng to me anymore. The one I just HAD to have back, I am married to and it was the stupidest ( ah one of) thing I have done. Yeah, the stupidest.
2007-01-18 14:51:49 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you will be sad for a while. But soon you will realize that holding onto a broken dream will only bind you to it and prevent you from finding another dream. Heal yourself. Eat right get exercise go to the gym. Become knowledgeable in a new hobby keep active. Go out with your friends and laugh your butt off. Someone will be sure to notice and might find you interesting. There is a happily ever after and the person you broke up with was never a mistake. Just a chapter in your book of life. Turn the page and there are many more adventures yet to come.
2007-01-18 22:51:29 · answer #2 · answered by queenmaeve172000 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hi,my name is Anna and I usually don't give out my name or email address,but I know how you feel right now so when or if you need some one to talk to I check my emails three times a day. Here is my story. I have not heard from my man for three weeks now and don't know why. He has not returned any of my calls,and even put myself on the spot and wrote him and sent it to him. He has never done this to me so I don't know why or if he broke up with me. We didn't have a fight the last time a seen him,and when I spoke to his mother she hadn't seen him yet either. I called his bestfriend he also said(on new years eve) he hadn't seen him either. I don't if they are lieing or telling the truth. It has been hard for me cause we are suppose to be getting married in four months. I have three kids from my last marrieage,and they even grew very close to him,and has been asking for him. There real dad will be in jail for another six months,and so he was the closet dad they had for now. I have been trying to keep myself busy if stuff,and have been going places during the day with family. I have been looking for a job,and my sister has been helping me. I can't tell you honestly it will be easy to deal with someone you have loved for a long while cause it wont be. Keep your self busy as possiable and don't rush into any relationships cause it wont help. You will probably thinking most of the time about the other person and it wont be fair the the new guy. I really do hope I have helped alittle for you,and I will pray for you. email is hat_cake@yahoo.com
2007-01-18 23:08:22 · answer #3 · answered by Baby Doll 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
My boyfriend, Clayton and I went out the day we met, then about a month and a half later he broke-up with me because some of his friends started ignoring him. I knew his friends before I knew him and we didn't get along that great, but I didn't think that would ever be a reason why we broke-up. Then a week or so after we broke-up I asked another guy, John, out, who had asked me out and I rejected. The only problem was that John was going out with someone, but I thought that my happiness was worth more than hers (selfish I know and I regret it everyday). Clayton and I were still good friends, so I told him, and then the next day I told him that John had said yes (he didn't seem happy for me). Later that night, Clayton sent me an e-mail telling me he loved me and that he wanted to get back together, I still loved himy, and only asked the John because I thought that Clayton had moved on and decoded that it was best if I did too. The next day I dumped John and went back out with Clayton. Clayton and I are still going out and I've never been happier (but I do feel bad about hurting that poor girl, and John like that) and everyday we see each other and tell each other we love each other. This is my first love, and I hope that it never dies, especially for something as stupid as bad friends
2007-01-18 22:59:42 · answer #4 · answered by dannylover911 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well lets see. I started dating this guy when I was 15 yrs old, and we were together for around 7 months. I believe that we were in love, and I don't think it wasn't puppy love. We broke up for our own reasons. We still talk quite often, and we still talk about everything we used to. We've thought about getting back together a few times, but never really done it officially. But in a way, I still love him, and he still loves me. And I guess it's just a matter of time. Deep down, I think we are meant to be, But who knows.
btw. I'm 17 now. Still young, but not dumb.
2007-01-18 22:59:41 · answer #5 · answered by alyssah. 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes i have found love. My second hubby and i went to school together we broke up in high school but stayed friends. he was everything to me. after my first divorce as a friend he was there not long after that he confessed to me that he was waiting for me to be single again cause he still loved me. not long after we were married. We had some really bad times together but i loved him so i didn't care for anything else but him and of course my kids. but he was wonderful. even after our nasty divorce because he cheated on, he didn't mean to but it happend. i left him cause he got her pregnant. but for a long time all i wanted was to fix what ever it was that went wrong with the two of us. That was 3 years ago. I am now remarried. And i love this man so much if anything happens to us im done. But part of me will always love my high school sweet heart. Guess cause we have a history together, but because of the nasty divorce i couldn't ever go back to him. But yes i have found love again and each day i love him even more and the x a little less. We have now been together about a year and a half and only been married for a few months. Things are looking up for me. hope they will for you too in time.
2007-01-18 22:55:56 · answer #6 · answered by Melinda B 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The answer to all your questions is YES.
What you call love is really infatuation. If feels good so your youth refers to it as love when in actuality its nothing more that a good feeling for the moment.
Just remember, every relationship you end, gets you closer to the one that you will want to keep forever. Don't hang on to the past, instead look forward to the future. You have so many adventures yet to experience.
2007-01-18 22:57:16 · answer #7 · answered by txguy8800 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
hi,
i am your sad story. in my early twenties i feel in love with the man of my dreams. he was everything i wanted and more. he treated me like the georgia peach that i was. he made sure that i had everthing i could ever want in a man. he loved me for who i was and not for what he thought i was. he was 6 foot 2, 216lb of musculer and a pice of better sweet chocolate that would make any womans mouth water. and at the time i was to dump to know that he was the man for me. he only wanted one thing from me and that was love and devotion. he asked me to marry him on christmas eve and i said yes. the most exciting day; of my life. two months into the engagment i brake it off thanks to my mom. his mom and my mom hated each other and to this day still do. when he came to ask me what had happen i would not say we had a huge fight i cried and so did he, after three hours of fighting he goes home and we don't talk for sometime. now here is the clincher a week later i find out that i am pregnant. afraid to tell my mom i wait about a week. gathering all of my strenth i tell her expecting her to kill me. she say i know. well i am now nine weeks pregnant and i have not told the one person who really needs to know, the farther. when i am ten weeks i tell him but by now he doesn't want to talk to me anymore. i go on and have the baby , who by the way looks the spitting image of his dad. we are good friends and get alone well but every time i see him i remember the one that i throw back, and i tell myself how much of a fool i was each and everyday.
he's married now to a very nice woman and they have a son together.and she is living my life. living my dreams.
2007-01-18 23:24:16 · answer #8 · answered by Sonya K 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I usually ask the same question and its really hard to know, the only thing that keep me believing is the love of God. You have to realize you don't need anybody else to be happy, don't get me wrong I said NEED. Its always good to count with some one you love and loves you, but we shouldn't depend on others.
2007-01-18 22:54:01 · answer #9 · answered by le teppum 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You never forget the person & how much they have meant to you.
You do find love again in a much greater way, with another who happens to come along...when you least expect it. This new person is a great "step-up" from your ex.
Learn from each relationship you have & do not repeat the same mistakes.
2007-01-18 22:52:25 · answer #10 · answered by Daiquiri Dream 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋