Family & Relationships - 17 January 2007

This has been his friend since high school. This guy was the leader of the 3 man crew. But now that my husband and his other friend have matured, married and established adult lives...the former leader does anything to cause trouble. It never ends....from telling lies to my husbands family while we were dating, to totally disrespecting me with comments and criticisms. I, as well as others, can see that this guy is only out to use my husband. He has lost his shine...has trouble with women and a job, can not sustain a stable relationship...so I feel he will do anything to ruin my happiness. It would be selfish of me to ask my husband to just not be his friend. At the same time I feel so unappreciated because my husband never checks his friend about his attitude or his behavior. Now me....I am that independent female that will fight you in a heart beat...but 8 years with this man has humbled me enough to learn how to fall back a little bit. But right now....I don't want to fall back...

2007-01-17 00:40:29 · 6 answers · asked by Agressive Pruning 1 in Friends

2007-01-17 00:40:22 · 5 answers · asked by purple scorpian 1 in Friends

im not worried about my girl. But she is stupid sometimes, she doesnt see what a guy sees. I see a guy with his gf a long ways away and trying to get away with flirting with my girl. She says hes not, but she said she would stop. But anyway wtf is with this dude. Shouldnt i pull a raid on his *** or should i just brake his heart and tell him that his girl is cheating on his ***. For real or should i just wait for his girl to get back so i can break her off on the dance floor??? this just really pisses me off! my girls best friend is a cheater and her damn bf is fn flirting her her best friend, MY GF! Those 2 really need to break it off because im about to go ape **** and bust em all out, tell him his girl is a lying whore and tell her that her man has been freaking my girl on the dance floor. Im not gunna fight this guy but I seriously dont want to make an *** of myself if i dont have to. I dont want to be enemies with my gf's best freinds bf. .......ugh im not sure what to do

2007-01-17 00:40:06 · 11 answers · asked by Ammbless 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-17 00:39:05 · 11 answers · asked by tedo 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-17 00:38:38 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I have always thought theres something twisted about a man who pays for a prostitute to have sex. I am a single female and im hoping to find a right man, but I fear generally men think its ok to sleep around with escorts or prostitutes and I cant ever trust a man. Are most men really like this?? Or will I ever find a guy who thinks like me?

2007-01-17 00:38:13 · 17 answers · asked by Kittykat 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-17 00:37:17 · 36 answers · asked by lil miz 1 in Friends

you are in a residential institute & you are in love with her from past five years.what would u do ?

2007-01-17 00:37:16 · 6 answers · asked by nischith g 1 in Singles & Dating

he is asking for pics and setting up profiles on dating sites should I take it seriously I've asked him to stop but he just carries on.
We have kids and he is upsetting me a lot

2007-01-17 00:37:10 · 21 answers · asked by ? 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I always have stuff to do and so fourth. however i would rather lay around and watch a show/ movie or even site online all night doing stupid stuff or spending money i need on cloths, products, electronics, w.e.. but yea i have h.w i blow off, family, friends, school, chores, lets just say its getting out of hand! plz any suggestions on how i can stop my bad habbits and start new ones b.4 i really dig myself to deep

2007-01-17 00:37:09 · 9 answers · asked by jordan r 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I work with my controlling mother. Two years ago she said that I would take over the business one day, and two years later she is still standing over me, controlling every single thing I do in it. I can't even be left alone with a customer because she thinks i'll stuff something up! I am 7.5 mths pregnant and atleast once a week she makes me feel insecure about my body, saying I should wear baggier clothing etc. I can see that i'm never going to take over this business, she has been controlling and belittling my whole life, does not accept my husband and generally seems to have a sneaky way of making me do anything she wants all of the time. I've tried the letter approach in the past and didn't speak to her for two years, I am crazy to now be working with her!
What can I do? She is the moody boss from Hell, but when bubs is born i'll be able to take her to work with me which is convenient, but do I want her to be brought up with so much of Mum's influence? HELP!How to get out of this

2007-01-17 00:37:02 · 15 answers · asked by caseytopia 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-17 00:36:40 · 10 answers · asked by stela marie b 1 in Weddings

Hey all readers.
I'm a descent, normal and a studius person. I'm very good in academics and I'm in class 8th. I'm not like those funky ones, who wear low waist (Well sometimes I do, but not in my uniform), those who bunk classes and those whho have silly gossips on crushes and that stupid stuff! And therfore, none of my friends(not really friends, but so called classmates), never talk to me. They always talk about hollywood stuff. If I ever sing hindi songs,they laugh at me and call me old fashioned. Are Hindi songs stupid? They discourage me and embarasse me that "YOU still sing HINDI song.......ew!"
I've got no friends.
And one classemate of mine, named DEEKSHA(i've no regret in mentioning her name), is always jealous of my good performance, and is always behid bullying and calling me names and insulting me. I also try the same to her, but she manages the situation so well that she somehow makes my eye water and my mouth shut. First of all she's a duffer. Well, what shud I do?

2007-01-17 00:36:21 · 3 answers · asked by singer 1 in Friends

my long term boyfriend is joining the royal australian air force as a airfield defence guard. anyone who was a airfield defence guard,or who knew someone who was one,please let me know the impact it had on ur home life,and ur experiences ....anything really!!!

he's hoping to be stationed at pearce....but apparently he has to transfer and stuff for the first two years......anyone been in that situation? what impact did it have?

also the trainin (both the one in SA (general recruit stuff) and the specialised one in QLD)...any experiences with that would be appreciated too

thanks

2007-01-17 00:34:56 · 1 answers · asked by puzzled 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

my girlfriend turns out to be lesbian in past she ws my bestfriend....we were bestfriends since we were 3....and she turns out to be a lesbian....i dnt wnt to lose her...she says this is the end...i really love her...i never thought i would ever love someone in this way i thought im a teen will date every girl every night....please help me out...

2007-01-17 00:34:37 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

im 16 yrs old and I Live with my older couzin who has 5 kids and its a 2 bedroom house..its horrible..my mom lives with a bunch of other ppl..im 16..do i have any rights of sayin where i wanna be? shes not even stable..she has no job.. and no place for us to go.

2007-01-17 00:33:30 · 11 answers · asked by ROSHA_GORDON!!! 1 in Family

I am going through a lot lately and I just want someone to chat to on msn or by email, they have to be around my age, i just want to talk to someone who's my age who will sit and listen instead of my mom all the time because she doesn't understand at all! please help :)

2007-01-17 00:33:24 · 6 answers · asked by bex_xoxo 2 in Friends

This is something I've noticed personally, and although it was much more fun when one was say, a teenager or in college, or even in your mid-20's, but once you get hitched, you'd rather do something else, and the idea of your better half asking you annoys you to no end. Why is that?

2007-01-17 00:33:09 · 23 answers · asked by mitamay75 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I am 14 and never had a boyfriend. It just doesn't seem right to have a boyfriend right now because when I think of it how am I going to act around him I am way too shy. I feel the pressure to already have a boyfriend cuz alot of people at my school have had one before but, I feel that I am not ready. Is there anyone out there my age who feel this way, and am I ever going to get a boyfriend?

2007-01-17 00:32:09 · 22 answers · asked by ~ ♥ ~ 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-17 00:31:11 · 12 answers · asked by Jeff B 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm nice, not to ugly, sweet, good job , play drums in a local band, packed, loves animals and wants commitment. Why does every girl I date or MARRY ends up cheating on me? Why was I single for 2 years..whats wrong?

2007-01-17 00:29:16 · 18 answers · asked by bigpunkdrummer 3 in Singles & Dating

The woman is 10 times more beautiful than them other dogs.

2007-01-17 00:29:16 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-01-17 00:28:35 · 21 answers · asked by alnoelle 1 in Singles & Dating

and maybe you had a crush on him too?!.....

2007-01-17 00:28:33 · 10 answers · asked by #1mary! 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-17 00:28:13 · 5 answers · asked by Ash 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-01-17 00:27:08 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-17 00:25:48 · 18 answers · asked by klairgell 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-01-17 00:25:21 · 1 answers · asked by lindsay 1 in Friends

been with my b/f 5 weeks,known him for alot longer, last night tells me he loves me, i do love him and cant imagine ever being with anyone else but cant help feeling its too soon to be saying i love you??

2007-01-17 00:24:50 · 16 answers · asked by Lovely Lou 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-17 00:22:48 · 17 answers · asked by durga v 2 in Family