my girlfriend turns out to be lesbian in past she ws my bestfriend....we were bestfriends since we were 3....and she turns out to be a lesbian....i dnt wnt to lose her...she says this is the end...i really love her...i never thought i would ever love someone in this way i thought im a teen will date every girl every night....please help me out...
2007-01-17 00:34:37 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Talk to her and tell her how you feel.
2007-01-17 00:37:34 · answer #1 · answered by zen522 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm so sorry. This is painful, but you have to accept that she is not the right girl for you. This is not something you can change or work through. It's best if you don't try to be friends right now because it'll be too difficult for you. Try to focus on school, sports, clubs and getting into college. Talk to your parents or friends about what you're going through. You will feel better, it will just take time. Good Luck!
2007-01-17 00:40:23 · answer #2 · answered by Kimmi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just think of it this way. You dated her, had a great experience, and now you know what you want in a girl. Im sure she will still be in your life, just as a friend. Just take it easy and talk to some other girls to get your mind off of her. You can still love her as a friend. Good luck with everything! =D
2007-01-17 00:39:20 · answer #3 · answered by Ashley B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to hear this. Time to move on and forget her for awhile, she's more than likely just exploring. She'll do this for awhile, and then perhaps realize that she would much prefer males over females.
I have several lesbian friends. They are good people.
2007-01-17 00:42:49 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she is truly a lesbian then thats her personal choice and you can't change the way she feels. be her friend and move on to another in the love department.
2007-01-17 00:39:25 · answer #5 · answered by singledad 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not much you can do....if she is a Lesbian your really the wrong type for her.
2007-01-17 00:38:03 · answer #6 · answered by BiancaVee 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did you try talking to her and express your feelings about her?
2007-01-17 00:39:44 · answer #7 · answered by maran 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get a 3some out of it before it goes bad.
2007-01-17 00:38:36 · answer #8 · answered by kels 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
can't really help but if that is wat she wants to be then let her be
u will meet some1 better eventually
or might realise ow much u mean to her if u let her be n she might evntually come back
2007-01-17 00:38:40 · answer #9 · answered by letiesha 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
love is letting your beloved one to be happy, whatever she do, however she is.
2007-01-17 00:38:56 · answer #10 · answered by evi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋