Family & Relationships - 17 January 2007

I like to watch gay porn and have crush with guys. But when I see girls I fall in love with only girls and want to marry a girl when I am able. I am still a virgin who does not engage premarital sex? Am I some screw up messed up person?

2007-01-17 01:19:56 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I met this fa* woman about 3 years ago we went out. for most of that time we were going out with each other. I believe that she was a cheater. 2 weeks ago she wanted me to go back out with her, i go there today and i find out last night she got drunk and had a condom in her ashtray in her room? and i go there today and she tells me she only now wants to be f**k buddies. is she worth me bothering with her or should i try another avenue to find the woman that deserves my time? please i need help i have no one else to turn to not even my parents will help me

2007-01-17 01:18:53 · 12 answers · asked by luckydo6 3 in Singles & Dating

You can check part 1 in my questions...
So according to what most people adviced me on confronting my wife about my trust issues, i tried to talk to her about it last nite. Her response was " i dont want to be in a relationship were i cant be trusted"... and of course then we had a fight and i had to sleep in the sofa. i told her that these issues didnt mean i didnt love her, she said love's equal to trust. i told her that i was just having a crisis and that i needed her help to get tru... she cried... and stopped talking to me and said "see what it means to be ignored" and went to sleep... last time we had a fight, like a year ago or something i stopped talking to her for a couple of days, i guess she didnt forget about it. in the morning she appologized for her reaction last nite and said i had the right to be mad cuz she lied to me. i didnt say one word and left for work. what advices can i get this time to try to fix the situation with my wife?

2007-01-17 01:18:05 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I have a couple of friends who, when i do something or start saying something they trun around and do the same things! like they dont have personalities of there own. now they get the same clothes, and perfume! For example i am getting a dog (yorkie) and my friend calls back after i tell her and asks if the women has any more. I remember awhile back her telling me she didnt like dogs!
It just seems like every time i do something she has to do something simalar or try to top it!
WHY and what shoul i do?

2007-01-17 01:17:59 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Many things I have read say not to discuss things like divorce on a first date. Being on 1 date a couple months ago, somehow it ended up there and really did ruin the date. Questions like "So.. why did you divorce?"

In a new relationship it does come up occassionally...

What can I gently say in that I think it is not best to talk about that.

2007-01-17 01:17:35 · 7 answers · asked by DanjoHart 2 in Singles & Dating

I have made a birthday card for this girl I like and her birthday falls this weekend. I have told her my feelings few months b4 and she said just want to be friends.

Look, if I just put that card in her bag (as an anonymous), then few hours later I text her to ask her what she thinks of the card (then it might be a surprise for her; I never made a card for someone before), will it be good? Seriously, I can't give her personally because all the time she is with her friends!

We are 14

2007-01-17 01:16:20 · 5 answers · asked by Mr Asker Knowmore 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-17 01:15:16 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I have a friend who isnt the greatest looking, she is average.She's overweight, has a bad attitude, & talks loud. She is cool as hell to hang out with, but when guys dont giver her the feedback she wants..SHE EXPLODES! I mean she starts cussing them out for no reason, and throwing smartass comments in my direction or any other female who is in the room. She feels like we are "stepping on her toes" if a guy ask her friends out and not her. I cant enjoy flirting & talking with guys when I'm around her because she always embarrasses me when she gets loud and ignorant. Her & another really unattractive mutual friend went to a guys house this weekend with out inviting me.They call me everyday,but this day my phone didnt ring.I think she figured the guy she like would want me & she didnt want me to come. How can I continue to be friends with her if she is always being insecure over men? I like her company but sometimes I feel like slapping her.

2007-01-17 01:14:53 · 4 answers · asked by Wisdom 3 in Friends

When you don't say yes or no but just always try to not have to answer.

2007-01-17 01:13:51 · 24 answers · asked by JAM - Emotions 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-17 01:13:43 · 8 answers · asked by Toves 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-17 01:12:39 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

most of the time.i flirt back to them.smiling,eye contact,joking and stuff like that.i don't talk about my virginity.people seem to think that i am the type of girl who is waiting for marriage but i'm not.i just don't want to go and screw someone just so i can say look everyone i had a screw.someone brought up my purity and said they admire it and i said i didn't want to talk about it and he said we all still will.meaning him and the other men.do men find virgins more attractive.i mean older men too

2007-01-17 01:12:11 · 21 answers · asked by debra 2 in Singles & Dating

He has no kids. I have kids

2007-01-17 01:10:39 · 8 answers · asked by pretty01 1 in Marriage & Divorce

whenever i see her,i just want to **** her

2007-01-17 01:10:33 · 8 answers · asked by honey_masty 1 in Singles & Dating

i'm thankful for my family and all we do for eachother.

2007-01-17 01:10:25 · 10 answers · asked by onyx maiden 4 in Friends

My friend is getting married in march. However she has this guy friend that said he will sing a song at her wedding but she has to pick the song. She wants it to be a love song of course. He won't sing oldies so it has to be a current song and no country. Any ideas? I need your help. He is the only one singing it and he will be playing his guitar too.

2007-01-17 01:09:18 · 13 answers · asked by Stephanie K 3 in Weddings

I've been going out with a guy i met on the internet. We are always talking to each other on the internet or phone. He came down for the weekend and since he went back home he's not really interested in talking to me. I phoned him to see if everything was ok and he said I've been thinking about the distance between us. (we live 260 miles apart) He has said he loves me and i love him aswell. But he's just been very quite and not expressing how he feels. Can anyone tell me what they think?

2007-01-17 01:09:10 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

u meet someone and start communicating so well.just when things seem so right they tell you they are sorry they have a partener,how do you deal with that?

2007-01-17 01:08:40 · 13 answers · asked by mtsotsi 2 in Singles & Dating

I am married man and love my wife very much,, but sometimes when I remember my x-gfriend,,, I lost in myself. I love her with pure heart and we seperated as our course (computer related course) ended. We never speak to each other after that as she knew that I am getting married to another girl. What should I do as she is still coming in my dreams. Help me!

2007-01-17 01:08:23 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

had a good relationship but he changed jobs+went back to uni+ was sooo busy which made me insecure+paranoid that he was seeing someone else.i read his emails and contacted a few people pretending to be him to find out what he was up to.he found out,this caused loads of trouble +he was annoyed that i lied and couldnt believe what i did.we ended up finishing.after sometime apart he contacted me and we met up,we both want to be together again but at the moment its not a goos time as he is so busy.so not we are 'seeing how things go' and if they go well when he finishes uni in the summer we might get back together.we now see each other once every two weeks and thats it no phone calls etc.so basically he said we are sort of havin a relationship without the commitment.but it really pisses me off!! i miss him loads and wanna c him more and want him2phone but he doesnt because he is so busy+he doesnt wanna risk what happened last time happening again.makes me sad but there is nothin i can do?

2007-01-17 01:08:11 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Am so sick of been single help me if youhave eny tips

2007-01-17 01:08:06 · 3 answers · asked by lOST IN HATE 1 in Singles & Dating

I am 38 and after two failed marriages, I met a 22 y.o. girl from my native country. Mind you, my first two encounters were from south america, I am a native romanian.

2007-01-17 01:07:50 · 15 answers · asked by cornellzet 1 in Singles & Dating

my sister is my best friend although i have been put through the ringer a million times over...were not young ..were in our 30 ies now.....she always comes with 2 faces...i know it comes from our up bringing...but do you think she'll ever change?
id never do what she does--guess i lived and learned that you have to be straight always. any answers to this?

2007-01-17 01:07:17 · 3 answers · asked by jessys3000 2 in Marriage & Divorce

cant stand the pain of this we broke up over a lot of little things and I know I had some problems but I really have managed to put my life back on track (it was not drink, drugs or violence). But now I feel like its just not worth the effort to try any more
please help

2007-01-17 01:06:42 · 12 answers · asked by Mark C 2 in Singles & Dating

I have 2 children ages 8 and 3 and they have my maiden name. My b/f and I were talking about changing my last name after we get married. He is not thrilled with the idea of me hyphenating my name. What are your opinions on the matter?

2007-01-17 01:04:57 · 11 answers · asked by lady_missunderstood2006 1 in Marriage & Divorce

And when my bf was payin for the parking I changed into a really short skirt. (in the car) We didn't make it home for a while after that.....
Any other ideas that I can do to surprise him and keep him entertained... indoors or outdoors!
But preferably indoors in this weather lol

2007-01-17 01:03:54 · 8 answers · asked by Danielle 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

Just wondering, do guys honestly like girls who are slim and skinny, or girls who actually have some boobs, bum and a nice body shape?

A lot of my friends are quite skinny (since they're asian) and I feel a bit less confident when I'm around them because I'm not as skinny and I'm a latin girl.

2007-01-17 01:03:18 · 20 answers · asked by x-Cool Girl-x 2 in Singles & Dating

My freinds daughter is getting married next year to her girlfreind , she is appauled, she has excepted them being together but thinks marriage is one step too much. I am fine about it and will go to the wedding,but my freind dosnt think she will, would you? mother and daughter are very close.

2007-01-17 01:02:07 · 63 answers · asked by Lisa pizza 3 in Weddings

FRIENDSHIP:
You've just made a new year party and you invited everyone in you're list nobody is missing and everything is alright the DJ is ready to make the music and the food is checked like everything is 100% perfect and the most best is that you're baby brother has left with you're parents to another kids party and you were too old !. Anways... the party started for 1 hour and everyone is dancing for the DJ music and he's mixing it =P. But you go to the guest bedroom hearing someone crying very hard and when you go you see you're best friend from elementry from high school crying on the guest bedroom bed and all his formal cloths is wet by his tears. You try to know whats wrong with you're best friend but he doesn't tell you untill you be seriously honest with you and you're bestest friend tells you he's moving?! =O and you get sad but first you think its a joke but then its true then you feel sad you're best friend tells you the reasons that when he moves. CAN YOU DO IT?

2007-01-17 01:01:14 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I have been divorced from my 2 kids father for 3 years now. My daughter seems fine through the whole thing but my 8 year old son isn't so fine. He has had a hard time with the whole thing from the begining but things are getting worse and worse because his father now only sees them once a year and never calls. My son has to call him if he wants to speak to his father. My ex-husband and I live about 5 1/2 hours apart and when he does want to see the kids I always meet him half way. My ex-husband has remarried and his wife has 2 kids from a previous marriage that have no relationship with their father so my ex-husband has stepped in and decided to adopt her kids. I have no problem with this except he isn't even being a good dad to his own kids so to adopt hers kinda pisses me off. My ex-husband also asked me to lower child support so he can take care if his family (meaning his wife and her 2 kids.) I have attempted to talk to my ex-husband about our son but he is such a jerk to talk to.

2007-01-17 01:01:12 · 9 answers · asked by Lucinda M 3 in Marriage & Divorce