I like to watch gay porn and have crush with guys. But when I see girls I fall in love with only girls and want to marry a girl when I am able. I am still a virgin who does not engage premarital sex? Am I some screw up messed up person?
2007-01-17 01:19:56 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I am currently deeply in love with a girl working at my workplace.
2007-01-17 01:31:16 · update #1
Just as some further information, all my life I have been interested to girls but somehow for some reasons I just like gay porn. Is this normal for straight guy. I think I am straight as I would never date a guy. But it's just that I like gay porn and like to fantasize about guys but deep inside my heart I actually like a girl. Why is this happening to me?
2007-01-17 01:40:15 · update #2
Someone asked me how old I am, I am 28 years old.
2007-01-17 01:43:34 · update #3
For one of the answers someone given, no I won't tell any girl I date. I am not crazy. I am not going to blow my chance for a girl I want to date. Furthermore I have not have sex with any guy yet and I do not like premarital sex. So I am still an innocent guy. The reason I post this here is to discuss why do I really like gay porn and I believe I am a straight guy. Now is that possible that is a straight guy liking gay porn?
2007-01-17 01:46:06 · update #4
You download too much porn. I bet you didn't start looking at gay porn.
You should focus on girls.
2007-01-17 01:30:38 · answer #1 · answered by Arthur M 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cut yourself some slack, you´re a young guy and there are probably lots of guys out there doing and feeling the same way.
Since you are a virgin my first thought is that you`re just discovering your "unit" watching other guys with theirs. Masturbation is totally normal, don`t be ashamed or think you are unique in this.
If you´re bi, you´re bi. If you´re gay, you´ll figure that out too.
Nothing wrong with it, beating yourself up just messes your mind up worse.
If you know a cool gay guy who`s not trying to have sex with you, have a conversation with him about this. Ask when he knew in his heart and mind he was gay.
Right now just leave your mind open and stop heaping guilt and fear into the mix.
You sound like a thoughtful person to me and I think you`ll figure it out and be okay no matter which way you fall.
2007-01-17 11:05:53 · answer #2 · answered by Bern 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are you?? Teenagers can feel attracted by their same sex without really being a gay person.
best thing you can do is check it out by yourself... dating with a guy (gay), let´s see if you feel comfortable in his company, if you like his kisses and the way he touches you...
Anyway, if you don´t approve sex before marriage - what´ll do if you marry a poor girl and later find out that you´re gay??
Pretend being heterosexual and making her (and yourself) feeling miserable for the rest of her (your) life??
Find out the truth...
2007-01-17 09:36:14 · answer #3 · answered by Anita P 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are in the experimentation stage. Many young people are unsure of themselves and are struggling with their identity. Just don't jump into anything and give yourself time to work things out.
2007-01-17 09:26:14 · answer #4 · answered by bad_bob_69 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are someone who has thoughts for the same sex and opposite....i would go for the girls first...try going out with them and not thinking bout the guys...i really don't think anyone should be gay but thats just my opinion.gl
2007-01-17 09:24:31 · answer #5 · answered by Prissyp 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you might be bisexual but being as you no you never engaged in itercourse you really dont know what you like. i say try having intercouse with a woman and if you dont like it then your gay. if you dont want to have intercourse then try kissing a girl then try kissing a guy. and see how you feel.. good luck
2007-01-17 09:28:40 · answer #6 · answered by kindkayeye/im a chick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hun I think your bi and why is it that you like to look at guys sexually yet girls romanticly ? Answe that and maybe youll understand why.
2007-01-17 09:25:19 · answer #7 · answered by Rachael 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i do not know that u have to say that ur self
2007-01-17 09:24:11 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no your just inquisitive
2007-01-17 09:28:23 · answer #9 · answered by tease :-) 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
please don't ever marry a girl without telling her these things first.
2007-01-17 09:25:20 · answer #10 · answered by pooh 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋