You can check part 1 in my questions...
So according to what most people adviced me on confronting my wife about my trust issues, i tried to talk to her about it last nite. Her response was " i dont want to be in a relationship were i cant be trusted"... and of course then we had a fight and i had to sleep in the sofa. i told her that these issues didnt mean i didnt love her, she said love's equal to trust. i told her that i was just having a crisis and that i needed her help to get tru... she cried... and stopped talking to me and said "see what it means to be ignored" and went to sleep... last time we had a fight, like a year ago or something i stopped talking to her for a couple of days, i guess she didnt forget about it. in the morning she appologized for her reaction last nite and said i had the right to be mad cuz she lied to me. i didnt say one word and left for work. what advices can i get this time to try to fix the situation with my wife?
2007-01-17 01:18:05 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Sometimes the most loving thing you can say is no.
Say no to that manipulative answer. Tell her you love her and think too highly of her to accept such a craptastic answer from her.
If she can't do better, and can't see where she has to earn trust and demonstrate trustworthiness consistently, then perhaps you have mis-judged her and think too highly of her.
Try to tell her in a polite way that her answer is pathetic manipulation and you love her too much to accept such antics.
2007-01-17 01:30:02 · answer #1 · answered by camys_daddy 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dude be a man! She is a lying cheating manipulative HO. She will lie and cheat on you again. Is that what you want? Get a clue and move on. I guess if you like being lied to and cheated on, stay with her and forgive her. You might want to go get checked for an STD and advise her to have her ex/new/future sex buddy to wear a condom.
2007-01-17 09:25:18 · answer #2 · answered by mvas800 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some situations "can't" be fixed. Your eyes are wide open, you see what you are seeing, don't let Ray Charles (who was blind and who is now deceased) have to tell Stevie Wonder (who is also blind) what he sees, okay. Good luck.
2007-01-21 05:53:13 · answer #3 · answered by Bethy4 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋