Family & Relationships - 17 January 2007

he does it often, like "could you pass me that book over there babycakes?" i dont have a prob with it but does it mean anything? he doesn't do that with his other female friends and he has a gf, he seems to like her a lot too, so i have no idea

2007-01-17 02:04:07 · 18 answers · asked by i love bob 1 in Singles & Dating

There is this girl that ive known for awhile and i really think she might be the one for me. Everybody knows that i like her and everyone also knows that she likes me too. But what i dont understand is that every time i try to talk to her about somthing or sit next to her she always finds an excuse to get up and walk away. I dont know if she is playing hard to get or somthin but it iz really buggin me out. What can i do to get to talk?

2007-01-17 02:03:38 · 10 answers · asked by dacoolstas 2 in Singles & Dating

Heres what he does...we have one or two inside jokes, he stands close to me when talking and looks me in the eye, He crosses him arms when he talks to me, he is very shy. Sometimes he'll touch me, like push me, in a playful way obviously not that he wants to hurt me. However one day he barely said hi, I dont know if something was wrong, or if he lost interest. I have a hard time showing someone I like them, when im unsure of their feelings. so do yuo think he might like me? Not that it matters, but hes two years younger then me, (yes its legal ages)

2007-01-17 02:02:46 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

To avoid looking at each other and saying nothing, what do you do on your first date with girl

2007-01-17 02:02:30 · 3 answers · asked by oluocheli 1 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend is addicted to halo 2. He has x box live and that is all he does. I've tried talking to him about it but he won't listen. He treats it like it's his profession. I told him last night that I thought the game was more important to him than me and he said it wasn't but that he wasn't gonna stop playing it for me either. What should I do?

2007-01-17 02:02:27 · 11 answers · asked by Kerston 1 in Singles & Dating

honestly what is the first thing that comes to mind cause it really beats me what you guys want.

2007-01-17 02:02:10 · 7 answers · asked by tease :-) 2 in Singles & Dating

a friend every now and tells me she wants to take her life...things can be good or bad....i cant understand it ....she will not get professional help.......
anyone have any comments that i could use?

2007-01-17 02:01:52 · 4 answers · asked by jessys3000 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

im talking about the bf here...what if i dont love him as a bf any more but as a sweet friend-coz even he keeps busy and does nt have much time for me.. ive spoken it all out with him. but he;s not the kind of bf i want. but u knw the ''LAW OF OPTIONS'', right girls? he gives the security about 'ya i got a nice bf' but i dont love love him

2007-01-17 02:00:56 · 5 answers · asked by spin spin sunshine 4 in Singles & Dating

hi..
a guy proposed me yesterday..
he is not a good guy...he can harm me if i refuse...and i cant accept it!!!!!
i dont love him............what should i do?????
please please help!!

2007-01-17 02:00:44 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I have made a birthday card for this girl I like and her birthday falls this weekend. I have told her my feelings few months b4 and she said just want to be friends.

Look, if I just put that card in her bag (as an anonymous), then few hours later I text her to ask her what she thinks of the card (then it might be a surprise for her; I never made a card for someone before), will it be good? Seriously, I can't give her personally because all the time she is with her friends!

No, it is not mushy!!! I just say a birthday wish! That's all! And lots of decoration!

We are 14

2007-01-17 02:00:00 · 10 answers · asked by Mr Asker Knowmore 2 in Singles & Dating

What is a “normal” between one's public vs. private persona? In public, my wife is smiling, friendly, soft spoken, easy going, polite, and deferential etc.

But when we are alone, she is also often: angry/occasional raging, annoyed, irritated, harsh, and even somewhat verbally abusive when I do something that bothers her. Often she's fine in a couple minutes.

My wife is about ten years older then me; and admits she has an “Irish temper”. She has a lot of fears e.g. flying, elevators, germs, separation anxiety, stormy weather, etc, and I sometimes think her fears get redirected into anger.

I really don’t like this kind of behavior—especially when it’s directed towards me, and I feel all sapped of energy, and a “wiped out/run over by a truck” feeling. I'll occasionally bring up her behavior, and she’ll usually acknowledge it as inappropriate and say she’ll be more aware of it and not engage it it, but then it will happen again in no time.

Often I blame myself/feel guilty...Advice?

2007-01-17 01:59:40 · 8 answers · asked by robert b 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-17 01:58:58 · 10 answers · asked by tease :-) 2 in Singles & Dating

my friend told me that doing that is not healthy.... is it true?... if so what would be too much?

2007-01-17 01:58:58 · 28 answers · asked by rhiana_84 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

His manager is trying to screw him over, he told me not to tell my parents because my parents know the manager, but they are not on the best terms with him anyway,told him I cant promise that and they might be able to help, he stupsed and then told me anyway, I was angry and concern, we talked about it, and suggested some angles, then we took a break from the topic then later, asked him if he decided what he was gonna do, he started snapping at me and telling me he doesnt want to talk ,I said go and sleep cause you getting all agitated, the next day, I called him, first of all he sounded like he was expecting someone else, I asked him if he was ok, and what he was gonna do at work, he snapped again and said he didnt want to talk about it, then I told him I told my parents and they had great advice, then he went silent, I ask if he was mad he said yes, then he said he want to go, and I put down, and gave him some space, 3 days now, havent heard from him, my mom says he is being immature

2007-01-17 01:57:07 · 2 answers · asked by Jackie N 1 in Singles & Dating

11 reasons why ladies today are still SINGLE

.1- The nice men are ugly.

2. The handsome men are not nice.

3. The handsome and nice men are gay.

4. The handsome, nice and heterosexual men are married.

5. The men who are not so handsome, but are nice men, have no money.

6. The men who are not so handsome, but are nice men with money think we are Only after their money.

7. The handsome men without money are after OUR money.

8. The handsome men, who are not so nice and somewhat heterosexual, don't think we are beautiful enough.

9. The men who think we are beautiful, that are heterosexual, somewhat nice and have money, are cowards.

10. The men who are somewhat handsome, somewhat nice and have some money and thank God are heterosexual, are shy and NEVER MAKE THE FIRST MOVE!!!!

11. The men who never make the first move, automatically lose interest in us when we take the initiative.

NOW, WHO THE HELL UNDERSTANDS MEN?

2007-01-17 01:56:44 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Let me understand what I am being told...my husband and I had a great marriage for 12 yrs....he goes to the Gulf Coast after the hurricane to aid in FEMA trailer setup...he is away from his wife and son for 9 months in a hellish situation. Yeah he F'ed up and had an affair with a woman he worked with down there for 5-6 months or so. He comes home, confesses, shows much guilt and remorse. We work our butts off to get through this, renew our vows and are doing great. But I am supposed to believe that because he made 1 mistake he will do it again. He may have broken a vow, but I also made one for better or worse, should I forget my vows also? I think in a lot of situations people find out how weak they are, i am not saying some will not repeat but I honestly feel that for someone to label someone with "once a cheater...always a cheater". Does anyone agree or am I by myself on this one? To err is human...to forgive is divine. I try to live by that.

2007-01-17 01:56:23 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My husband and I are highschool sweethearts and we have a lot of history...This is my second-his third... Recently, I found out that he has been cheating on me. Communicating with another female from the internet and he sent her flowers. When I confronted him with it he denied it. Then I found out that he cheated again with two more people (swingers). He denied as well (this has been happening for the past 3 months). I asked him to come clean, to tell me why? His answer was that I'm too good to do "bad", I don't seem like the type to be wild....I told him he should have asked me instead of going out of our marriage...He is not shy or embarrased--just one of those "bad boys" I like. We have talked, but I think he is just not interested any more.
We have a newborn and divorce is not an option. I don't know why he stays...I know not for the child...He says that he loves me, but his love is hurtful and harmful. I'm tired of the lies, cheating and God know what else. Is it worth it?

2007-01-17 01:56:11 · 15 answers · asked by lazykat 2 in Marriage & Divorce

umm..its very hard to phrase this and akward to ask this but what makes a kiss great..good..ok with guys

2007-01-17 01:55:39 · 13 answers · asked by Candie 1 in Singles & Dating

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2007-01-17 01:55:32 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i really like this guy... but i know his number will be big and mine is only two... its intimidating and i dont know if i should ask... but i think it matters... does it?

2007-01-17 01:55:25 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I’m a guy who’s a virgin and I’m seriously considering abstaining from sex until marriage. I would mainly like to hear from people who have abstained from sex until marriage and how easy or difficult did you find it? The reasons I would like to abstain from sex until marriage is because I’m insecure about who I give my first time to. I know you probably think this idea is old fashioned but I believe in being sensible and responsible for my actions.

2007-01-17 01:55:16 · 18 answers · asked by The Devil 1 in Singles & Dating

I just started seeing this new guy a month ago and he's practically perfect for me except that he excepts me to cut off my exboyfriend completely. I honestly don't have the heart to do that. My ex is moving across the country so I don't see what's wrong with talking with him. My ex was my first love and I still love him. I can't imagine not talking to him. So is it worth it to cut him off for someone I might fall in love with? He already told me we can't see each other if I continue to be in contact with my ex.

2007-01-17 01:54:28 · 27 answers · asked by Jessica 1 in Singles & Dating

undress and send pictures to me. Now she wants me to do the same. what should i do?

2007-01-17 01:54:15 · 3 answers · asked by cj 1 in Singles & Dating

Im 37

2007-01-17 01:54:13 · 21 answers · asked by impossible903 2 in Singles & Dating

I cant win for losing!!! I must be really friggin ugly, or is because im divorced and have three children. Heres the thing they do not live with me, im 34 and im starting to wonder if its me or if women are just not into a 30's something divorced dad of three!!! is the world just that vain?

2007-01-17 01:52:55 · 10 answers · asked by manncat 1 in Singles & Dating

I want to know is there any where i can go and find "scene" such as CLOUD,SEA,WATER,SKY not as a image but as a VIDEO. I will be very glad if you all can help me........ as my part i went to the HOME PAGE and keyed in "cloud" and saw some video clips, but i cant save it and insert to my video. please help me

2007-01-17 01:52:27 · 2 answers · asked by steven 1 in Singles & Dating

That you were a phony! well the brass was on her finger, long enough for you to get some, anyway.

2007-01-17 01:51:53 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

as written above lol

2007-01-17 01:51:50 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Help...why isn't he calling me???
So last week this guy that ive like for the last year started calling me everyday, and wed talk for awhile and usually 2-3 times a day, all of a sudden we went out on sunday night and were talking about going to the movies this weekend, we had planned for itjust werent sure on time or day yet. we left and he texted me when he got home, and i havent heard from him yet. i called him 3 times on monday, like 4 hours apart, and tried to text him 2times. then yesterday i called once and texted once. im just trying to figure out why he all of sudden wont talk to me. i mean he asked me out, and now he wont call me. im just not sure if i should just give up or if wait. I have decided that im not going to call him again until he calls me, but it just seems silly to me. Hopefully someone can give me some insight.

2007-01-17 01:51:31 · 5 answers · asked by jenpen 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-17 01:51:12 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends