im talking about the bf here...what if i dont love him as a bf any more but as a sweet friend-coz even he keeps busy and does nt have much time for me.. ive spoken it all out with him. but he;s not the kind of bf i want. but u knw the ''LAW OF OPTIONS'', right girls? he gives the security about 'ya i got a nice bf' but i dont love love him
2007-01-17 02:00:56 · 5 answers · asked by spin spin sunshine 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you are going to be with the bf then when the "man of your dreams bf" comes along and sees you with the bf then it might scare him away. you need to leave yourself open for the "man of your dreams" ya know. besides, the longer your with the bf the harder it will be for him to let you go
2007-01-17 02:09:55 · answer #1 · answered by rain9439 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I understand. I've known girls who let guys think they're their bf without ever saying it. They do this with several guys at a time. When they get in the mood, or one of them has free time, they always have someone to go with or fall into.
When one of the guys finds out what the girl is doing, they think "I'll show her" and stop dating her. But she just has like 5 or 6 other guys on hold. It's good for everyone who wants to be involved.
2007-01-17 10:07:24 · answer #2 · answered by Cameron L 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't string him along b/c that would be wrong. If you are mutually friends then fine but if he still has feelings for you romantically then it would be best to let him go and not be selfish.
2007-01-17 10:06:00 · answer #3 · answered by ♦ Phoenix Rising♦ 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are settling and that's bad for both you and your alleged b/f. Do both of you a favour and break it clean.
2007-01-17 10:38:38 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that you should tell him the truth but going through stages so that he would not get mad and angry or worst (leaving u)so tell him one by one. i have experienced that so do what i said
2007-01-17 10:13:14 · answer #5 · answered by zeinab 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋