Was it wrong that I did this? It seems so stupid, my boyfriend came to me with a problem about his job...?

Question

His manager is trying to screw him over, he told me not to tell my parents because my parents know the manager, but they are not on the best terms with him anyway,told him I cant promise that and they might be able to help, he stupsed and then told me anyway, I was angry and concern, we talked about it, and suggested some angles, then we took a break from the topic then later, asked him if he decided what he was gonna do, he started snapping at me and telling me he doesnt want to talk ,I said go and sleep cause you getting all agitated, the next day, I called him, first of all he sounded like he was expecting someone else, I asked him if he was ok, and what he was gonna do at work, he snapped again and said he didnt want to talk about it, then I told him I told my parents and they had great advice, then he went silent, I ask if he was mad he said yes, then he said he want to go, and I put down, and gave him some space, 3 days now, havent heard from him, my mom says he is being immature

My parents always asking how he going with the job, as it is new and he was worried about getting fired soo when they ask am I to say it going well and then suddenly he turns around and get fired?

Answer 1

He is... and so were you. If he asked you not to say anything... what gives you the right to blab about it. You should have kept your mouth shut! If my husband was that disrespectful... he wouldnt be my husband. In the future when a friend or lover says DONT TELL ANYONE... then DONT!

Answer 2

It sounds to me that yes your mother is right he is being immature. But you could give him a call and try to ask no one is saying it's gonna get you any where but you can try to do you best that's all any one is expected to do in this world.