I have a couple of friends who, when i do something or start saying something they trun around and do the same things! like they dont have personalities of there own. now they get the same clothes, and perfume! For example i am getting a dog (yorkie) and my friend calls back after i tell her and asks if the women has any more. I remember awhile back her telling me she didnt like dogs!
It just seems like every time i do something she has to do something simalar or try to top it!
WHY and what shoul i do?
2007-01-17 01:17:59 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i started off flatered but now it is depressing because i cant just be me and them be their selves
2007-01-17 01:22:30 · update #1
well you have a big problem ether your friend Love's you so much that she wants to be like you or she want everything that u have.
o.k this is what you have to do..
1-if she is one of your best friends find her help because that's not normal maybe she's having problems at home and she sees that you are happy that's way she want to be like you..
2-if she's not really your friend you have to start avoiding her little by little...
2007-01-17 01:46:28 · answer #1 · answered by taoly h 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well be proud of how cool you are and don't be conceited. Don't say anything it will make your friends feel bad or embarrassed and not want to be around you anymore. Just have fun don't worry about it they just like your Idea's. Besides what you do or get is somebody Else's idea so they are not the only ones being copy cats.
2007-01-17 09:25:17 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ask them in a nicest way possible why?tell them how you feel,at first I guess its flattering but then I can imagine it can also be annoying.I am not saying dump your friends but,maybe you should find more friends with personalities of their own.
2007-01-17 09:28:04 · answer #3 · answered by Lin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think she wants to fit in to win your heart of another but for sure it wouldn't work because sooner or later her own personality will be revealed. pretending to be someone is being ashamed of who she trully is. i had a friend like her and feel very irritated about it.
you should try to open it with her and say whats in your heart. pretending is lying right?
2007-01-17 09:44:59 · answer #4 · answered by Luchie V 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its hard part but you can pay it back to her. Try find something new on her that you havent try, then copy it and make her realize that you copy her AND explain to her why is that. Tell her that you willing to be friend again if she has to be herself who she is.
2007-01-17 09:25:36 · answer #5 · answered by MissGal 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well be flattered but u should make them feel much more wanted. helpgive tem confidence. they have low self esttem and u give them confidence then the6y can be your own selves.good luck
2007-01-17 09:26:32 · answer #6 · answered by Joho 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG! They probably think you're a good role model. I would tell them to get their own style.
2007-01-17 09:26:15 · answer #7 · answered by happy_crazy_in_love 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Imitation is the greatest form of flattery.
2007-01-17 09:20:52 · answer #8 · answered by Guess 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have friends like that to. they just don't get it. i tell them every day. if u really like this friend u need to tell her what she is doing. with my friends it didn't work. just tell her.
2007-01-17 09:22:05 · answer #9 · answered by psychopathic bi*ch. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Exactly feel flattered!
2007-01-17 09:21:59 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋