Family & Relationships - 17 January 2007

Both my husband and I are from the caribbean.He is black caribbean and I am mixed though a lot of people has mistaken me for malaysian,philipino, or thai.
We had no problems in fact he was proud to be seen with me back in the caribbean but since coming to the UK he never likes to walk with me or go out with me in public.
Through the years he has made friends who are white, british and also a lot of black, africans.In fact also had affairs with a lot of black,african women and even had children by one.Now he makes remarks to me about my race e.gHe does not want my chinese hair to be on the bathroom floor.
When Iasked him if he was ashamed of being seen or associated with me he never answers.He has no problems being with our kids

I am not racist I know that.I have emphasized nationalities because that's what the question is about.

2007-01-17 01:00:08 · 18 answers · asked by JUSEve 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I met a girl Friday night, she gave me her phone number...I told her I would call during the week, and she said I better.
On Saturday she texted me saying it was great to meet me.
I call her on Monday, and get no answer, I left a message.
She has not tryed to call me back.

1. Should I try one more time on Thursday before I write her off?
2. Why no return call after she gives all the signs of being interested?

2007-01-17 00:59:43 · 17 answers · asked by Tunasandwich 4 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend and I have been arguing about this subject for a long time.He was born in kansas and lived there for 7 years. He then moved to chicago and lived there 7 years. When he was 14 he moved to N.Y. and has lived here for 30 years. So my question is if someone asks him where is he from, what should be his answer? He always seems to answer the question the way it would benefit him most. You really can only be from one place. Is it where he was born or where he has lived the longest?

2007-01-17 00:59:20 · 33 answers · asked by tinkerbella9287 4 in Marriage & Divorce

I am going to leave this place forever at 5.00pm and live in the 19th Century where I am appriciated and understood, who is coming with me......

Ms Elizabeth Darcy
Ms Georgie
Ms Katherine Strawberry
Ms Finn


anyone else......

2007-01-17 00:58:42 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm sure we're all bored of both the children on here who claim they're in love or need ludicrous relationship advice and the dimwits who can neither spell or give useful answers. So - over 18's only, and let's have an intelligence test before you're allowed to post questions or answers !

2007-01-17 00:58:12 · 30 answers · asked by misbehave4me 4 in Singles & Dating

Sometimes my mom makes me really mad, cause she's over controlling, at least in my opinion. This happened yesterday. She made me really mad at her. Not hurt, just mad, because I know it was out of love and she's sure she' was doing the best for me, though I didn't agree. And in this cases she doesn't back off, always says Hun, it's for your best, I love you. When, like yesterday, she notices I'm really mad at her she always says Hun, I know you're mad at me, so give me a big hug. Maybe I should refuse, but I don't, even mad at her I huh her with love, though I don't agree with her. This takes away much of my anger.
I do'nt know if this is a normal teen behavior. Maybe I'm a too easy going girl. Am I weak?

2007-01-17 00:57:56 · 7 answers · asked by Marta M 1 in Family

I am an attractive man but kind of shy.I wanna know how to approach
women/girls properly and improve my confidence and self esteem and not get nervous.

2007-01-17 00:56:55 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

...TO SET A WORLD RECORD?! If one can make it 10 to 12 times in 24 hours, and about 25 times in a weeks time, would that, you think, will be a material for World Record? Would, afterall, Guinness World Records authorities accept/recognise such records? If yes, whom should one get in touch with for setting such a record? Thank you.

2007-01-17 00:56:32 · 11 answers · asked by Satya T 1 in Singles & Dating

I am looking for my soul mate .... why is it so hard to find this person .... I am a good guy all I ask is that she love God and that would love me .... I have to much love to give someone but everytime I share to women what I am looking for they get scare and run .... well I like being direct .... I am an 38 year old male ... living in Northern Virginia.

2007-01-17 00:56:05 · 10 answers · asked by rob06091968 1 in Singles & Dating

Okay,I have a long distance relationship with my boyfriend.We broke up for a month and now back together for 2 weeks.But we manage to meet at least once a week due to the fact that we both have very demanding jobs...but...read this carefully... when we are physically together i want him badly.When he is away i don't want him and i get annoyed when he calls me.When we are dating though i don't want to be with him.. and when we are apart i want to be with him....hope i didn't confuse you!!!! What do you think i should do?!

2007-01-17 00:55:04 · 2 answers · asked by Soulla 2 in Singles & Dating

The message was talking about him going to FL to see her, and she was going to start jogging so she could be slim and sexy like me....
I confronted him about it last night. I was mad... and I told him that I was. He said it was nothing and it shouldn't matter because we were on a break. I understand that, but she was trash talking me and he was going along with it.
Well all of the sudden he said "So what do you wanna want to do about us?". I didn't say one thing about breaking up or anything...so I don't know where this came from. He said he would let me sleep on it till this morning and I could give him my answer then. I think that he wants out of this relationship or is seeing someone on the side.

Can I get your opinions please....

Myspace will miss up a relationship I agree. But this girl is on his phone under the name of Tim....

I understand all is fair game when your on a break... But she doesn't have to trash talk me, my friends didn't trash him!

2007-01-17 00:54:31 · 15 answers · asked by angel2005_2001 5 in Singles & Dating

i cant stand up for the overs but as a fan of jo for 6 years i no that see would not be a bully. when she said she did not like the foo dits be cause she is a very fussy eater .i sore S club go wild and she went to chana and didnt like the food then ever ,SHE WAS SAYING SHE DIDNT REALY LIKE THE FOOD NOT THE PEOPLE.

I DONT NO ABOUT THE OTHERS BUT I DO NO JO IS NOT A BULLY

2007-01-17 00:52:38 · 9 answers · asked by pleasebenice 2 in Family

i'm ok in the size dept. and the looks dept. i just don't have control have of my penis?

2007-01-17 00:52:32 · 3 answers · asked by sweetykitty 1 in Singles & Dating

when us woman are hurt we tend to hold on to our problem forever and as soon as an argument come up so does our issue......men put it somewhere in the back of thier heads and it stays there never to come out.......how do they and how can i do the same?

2007-01-17 00:52:17 · 23 answers · asked by jessys3000 2 in Singles & Dating

We all agree that girls are cooler and smart than boys so give me 3 points that you think in this way the girls are cooler and better than the boys.

2007-01-17 00:51:41 · 9 answers · asked by Gabriella 1 in Singles & Dating

Why do some women care about their man looking at magazines like Maxim, FHM, Playboy and others like that? If they read their magazines that tell them all kinds of "girl" secrets and stuff like that then dudes can appriciate a good magazine with their interests too. What do you ladies think?

2007-01-17 00:51:26 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I often wonder how do men rate sex? What makes you want sex more from one person than someone else. I know what makes me want to have sex with a specific man, but I cant rate myself. I have never had any complaints and everyone I have had encounters with in my past ALWAYS comes back for more. I used to be wild in my earlier years, but now that I've grown and matured I get offended when someone from my past flirts or tries to take me to bed. I get that a lot. So is it just that the sex was good or what? My friends always ask me what the hell am I doing to these guys. But to me I didnt do anything extraordinary. I am straight to the point a lot of times & somewhat aggressive in bed though. But how do you know if you have good sex?

2007-01-17 00:50:53 · 9 answers · asked by Wisdom 3 in Singles & Dating

k so i like this guy that i dated last year and this year has been really confusing cuz he acts like he likes me one day and then the next he just acts like a total jerk and i have no idea what to do with him

2007-01-17 00:49:13 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I went to court because a girl stole my husband of 18 years and I slapped her.She requested a domestic violence injunction so i have to stay away from her for a year. My boyfriend says it is a felony?? I don't think it is as I was not charged with anything....
Wouldn't the judge or the attorney said to me this is a felony??

2007-01-17 00:48:23 · 16 answers · asked by M L 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Why do so many men expect a physical response even before any raport has been established? I guess they are just confused with overt advertising, change in gender roles etc. What are considered reasonable dating standards anyway? Any thoughts?

2007-01-17 00:47:52 · 3 answers · asked by suzzieQ 2 in Singles & Dating

she is 6 years eleder to me...she is separated been in a marriage fr 1 and a half year...she is 26...how can i make sure whether she is feelin it or she could actually feel it???

2007-01-17 00:46:50 · 15 answers · asked by sam 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-17 00:45:47 · 12 answers · asked by kirst774 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-17 00:45:29 · 12 answers · asked by buff4950 1 in Weddings

I feel that way all the time cuz my parents r divorsed, my step brother ranaway, and my heart has been riped out and i'm trying to get a bf but i haven't goten an answer from someone yet and i'm only 15 and i think my life sucks.

2007-01-17 00:45:12 · 3 answers · asked by chickie 2 in Family

but you love him and he loves you and you both wanna be together forever.you've already been together through many thick and thins.this is just another hurdle to get over.

2007-01-17 00:45:05 · 16 answers · asked by giovellin 2 in Marriage & Divorce

.....I must stop using my laptop on the loo. What revolting habits do you have ?

2007-01-17 00:43:33 · 22 answers · asked by misbehave4me 4 in Singles & Dating

i really think women are bad about this, sex and money...
the only thing a man gets is sex as long as he loves with money!!
then if there is a baby, he will pay for it rest his life!

2007-01-17 00:42:49 · 30 answers · asked by urstory 2 in Singles & Dating

There is this single women who is a friend of mine,However she wants to be more than friends. I have told her (as I beleve in the truth) that I cant be exclusively hers. As I am VERY promiscuous (but at least I have told her that before you give my question a thumbs down rating HONESTY IS THE BEST) She said when I told her this and I quote....She would not mind if I went with other women as well.. unquote. Can you ladies please explain this to me....

2007-01-17 00:42:09 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

so..heres my story..ooh! what the hell lets just get straight to the point..right?..i've really messed up with a guy friend of mine...he has forgiven me..or thats what he says..but i really want to make it up to him any ideas?..i really care for him..he recently went to hostil so seeing him would be very tricky..

2007-01-17 00:41:22 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-17 00:40:51 · 38 answers · asked by ...... 2 in Friends