I met a girl Friday night, she gave me her phone number...I told her I would call during the week, and she said I better.
On Saturday she texted me saying it was great to meet me.
I call her on Monday, and get no answer, I left a message.
She has not tryed to call me back.
1. Should I try one more time on Thursday before I write her off?
2. Why no return call after she gives all the signs of being interested?
2007-01-17 00:59:43 · 17 answers · asked by Tunasandwich 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Give her the benefit of the doubt. You'd like for her to do the same to or for you. Perhaps something came up and she's not been able to call you back. Give her a second call and see if she answers or calls you back if you have to leave a message. If she doesn't call back or answers your call then you know she's just playing games and you're better off without her. I think things have just happened and she's just not gotten the time to call you back or she lost the number. Give her a call. Hope for the best but prepare for the worse. Good luck
2007-01-17 01:13:57 · answer #1 · answered by Pisces Princess 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
When I'm in this kind of situation, I always give the other person the benefit of the doubt. There could be a good reason why they haven't called back! I would say try her again on Thursday. If you can't get her then, leave another message (do NOT forget to include your phone number in the voice message, just in case!) and wait for her to get back to you.
Who can say why she didn't return your call? Women are very strange, even fickle, when it comes to guys. She may have a very good reason. Then again, she may not. Time will tell!
2007-01-17 01:05:27 · answer #2 · answered by E D 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The same thing happened to me last week only in reverse. I met a charming man who almost swept me off my feet. He held my hand and walked me to my car, kissed me goodnight.
Then he got my number from a friend who knew me. He called but I was busy babysitting and the children were screaming when the phone rang so I couldn't answer. I didn't know who it was until he told my friend. He then went to trouble of finding my email address and emailed me. I emailed him back saying I would love to see him again.
Then he sent another email and didn't say
anything about meeting me again.
I was so disappointed. And I felt like I couldn't call him as I am not used to chasing men.
So please keep trying as she might be like me waiting for you to make the next move.
2007-01-17 01:13:24 · answer #3 · answered by redrose 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think u should try one time
don't just give up
after 2 or 3 calls
if still she doesn't calls up
no return calls for 2 days
then again call up
still u had no luck,email her
hope u have a better luck this time!!!
2007-01-17 01:12:30 · answer #4 · answered by Muskaan... 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Call her one more time then if no answer and its her LOSS! I have no answer for her, all you have to ask her if she talk to you again. You can't ask us why she does that way. Also she might be busy or something like that. So try call her during of the evening and see if she will reply. Lets hope she will. Good luck.
2007-01-17 01:04:40 · answer #5 · answered by MissGal 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
of coarse call her back if she a)gave you the right no. and b)text ed you then she is definitely interested in you, so don't assume things she is not calling you back cause she don't want to anxious, some girls are like that or she didn't get the mess. or she got busy so many things jeez u give up much to easy, call her... she might be the one that was meant to be, and your going to just let her go that easy? G-luck... let me know
2007-01-17 01:11:33 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, definitely call her one more time. She may have realized she was giving lots of signs that she was interest, and now wants to make sure you show the same level of interest.
Good luck!
2007-01-17 01:06:32 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't jump to conclusions so quickly. Try giving her another call. If no return after that, I would say forget about it.
2007-01-17 01:05:56 · answer #8 · answered by jazz_lover_25 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dont give up, it could of been anything that came up.
Call her and leave a message wanting to meet, so you two can talk directly to eachother, rather than having a text message relationship.
2007-01-17 01:05:11 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Try calling her again maybe she didnt get your phone number or she forgot to call. Good luck in all you do!
2007-01-17 01:02:59 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋