I often wonder how do men rate sex? What makes you want sex more from one person than someone else. I know what makes me want to have sex with a specific man, but I cant rate myself. I have never had any complaints and everyone I have had encounters with in my past ALWAYS comes back for more. I used to be wild in my earlier years, but now that I've grown and matured I get offended when someone from my past flirts or tries to take me to bed. I get that a lot. So is it just that the sex was good or what? My friends always ask me what the hell am I doing to these guys. But to me I didnt do anything extraordinary. I am straight to the point a lot of times & somewhat aggressive in bed though. But how do you know if you have good sex?
2007-01-17 00:50:53 · 9 answers · asked by Wisdom 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Men are actually quite easily pleased in bed I think. I think one of the most important things to men in the bedroom is to feel they are pleasing u and how the woman makes them feel about their own performance. You often hear men complain that a woman just layed there, yet they were still able to finish the act. So I think it's more the excitement they see coming from u, that u are totally into it and they think they are pleasuring u more than any man has.........that's what they enjoy. That's why men love when u tell them how great they are in bed, especially during sex. The more he sees that u are being pleased the more it arouses him and the better the sex is. I have also heard men love when the woman initiates sex because he feels wanted and sexy and men need that just as much as women.
2007-01-17 01:08:26 · answer #1 · answered by Amber 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
why should it worry you about rating your sex.... for me bein a pisces ,, its all about chemistry.. and sometimes not at all... just kinda get lost in the moment be yourself... i guess you could go with the flow..... askin what he desires always helps...but then again... most men arent hard to satisfy.... if they havent had sex in the pass 3 weeks ..thus you would have been the best encounter they've had... its a hard call.. i can make some of my women come 15 times in a row,,,, and yet cant even make another come 1 time after givin heads over 25 minutes... ;) ... if you wanna rate it.. heres the best policy.. it takes two to tango.. you both gotta get into it... and find the right momentum....you cant have one partner play the driller and the other layin down like a starfish ( dead vegetable) hahahaha... you both gotta be on XTC.. or atleast believe it... second round counts abit... thirds... yeah... fourths are just about gettin through...... this question also relates to the quote different folks, different strokes. i would say if the male screams out in amazin relief and says straigt up ..oh my gawd"!!! that was great! .. then its 8/10 .. .. OHHHHhhhhOHHHHhhhhh i'm gonna blow..i'm gonna blow...!@#$!@#$% AHHHHHHHHhhhhh YES...yes.... you are amazin.. then 9 / 10... hehehehehee... if he starts cryin and looks into your eyes and says.. i love you.... hahahaha... thats 10 outta 10... ! class over!
2007-01-17 01:16:35 · answer #2 · answered by funk_sinatra 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
simple if your ex partners or new partner have told you and keep coming back for more****
guys most of the time say what they thing is just a matter of asking i had my exes friend come up to me and told me that i know how to whip a guy i ask him and he said my ex was drunk and crying because i didn't want to have sex with him anymore well i don't think i am great but guys think i am, i think if you are not conceited and take interest on being please does are the basic rules for a great lover people get off in watching you enjoy what they doing you and makes them arouse****
2007-01-17 00:53:32 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's hard to answer,it's like why do i like sue instead of barb? sexuality is innate, you either have it or you don.t., it's like a part of you. a lot of it is chemistry,true story i saw a women named jackie for 3 yrs. and the sex was intense, it crackled and it sizzled i could'nt get enough of her, i had the baddest, most intense, emotional orgasm's, and yes i guy can have a emotional orgasm. after we,d split it took a long time to find that kind of sex again, and her to because she would come by for booty calls for a lomg time, and the truth is i never really did find that kind of sex again, so it's not a simple answer,their's a lot of varables everyone though needs to experience great sex. it's a huge thing. johnny. jkimengle@yahoo.com
2007-01-17 01:13:16 · answer #4 · answered by sweetykitty 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You basically answer your own question"I have never had any complaints and everyone I have had encounters with in my past ALWAYS comes back for more"
2007-01-17 00:55:25 · answer #5 · answered by Natz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you sleep with 20 guys a day and they still come back for more!
2007-01-17 00:55:24 · answer #6 · answered by stiletto 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your sex is the bomb, you will blow them away! lol i think if a women can get a guy to cuddle or even say i love you after sex, you are pretty damn good lol
2007-01-17 00:56:22 · answer #7 · answered by crawfo_15 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If they keep coming back for more
2007-01-17 00:56:10 · answer #8 · answered by slp9209 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd say you already do know and you are just bragging a little.....
2007-01-17 00:54:09 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋